Slave for a day (or more) (15)

I am so so glad that you guys shared this with us because this raised a few points in my mind that I think might apply to us:

*I want to be pushed and broken, even if I look like I'm not enjoying something at the time, I know that with Master, in hindsite, I will look back on something with pleasure

*I'm wondering if, as great as this sort of thing can be for two people, I suspect that there is perhaps more pressure on the Dominant in the sense that they are the ones who are responsible for the submissives well being in this context and if something were to go wrong, I guess that there is a lot of fear relating to the potential guilt that could follow.

*We've not really given the being left alone without Master able to keep an eye on me much thought either...I'd have thought I'd be fine but hmm, still interesting.

*I love how you talk about your experience having evolved into something that was about captive/captor...Did it evolve or was it intentional? In theory, I would love to experience something that coaxes me to fight my instinct to run away.

Can I ask, as a Dominant, how much of this did you plan? how much of the time did you find yourself thinking "wow, I've got all this submission to work with! Eeep! What shall I do with it now"?

Thanks again for sharing!

It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice xx

As am I. Merely pointing out that in a blog talking about the excitement of being slave for a day, her WANTING was fairly apparent. I say it like it as I see it.

I'm not antisocial, I just dont like you.
Somewhere, I'm not a scatterbrain.
Carpe moi x

Ah, but the way you said it made it seem like you thought totallycoverme was in the habit of topping from the bottom, and that she was able to get away with this. And I was merely pointing out that this isn't the case.

And there was me thinking this was her blog. Anyone would think I'd been cutting rather than pointing out how it read. Sensitive much?

I'm not antisocial, I just dont like you.
Somewhere, I'm not a scatterbrain.
Carpe moi x

I think it's always true to some degree that there's more pressure on the Dominant in any scene. But then I would say that

The security camera was something that taintedinnocence wanted to help herself feel safe and confident if I was out of the room for long periods, so she knows that I will see her if she suddenly panics or something happens.

In terms of the "captive" style, that's something I planned for but didn't communicate to her (leading to some difficulties, obviously). I think a lot of the time Doms choose not to share their plans so there's an element of surprise, but if your plans include your sub acting in a certain way you're probably more likely to have success if you talk about it first! My mental picture for the scene was very much a Stockholm Syndrome captivity thing, and we talked in broad terms about the ideas, but on the day I didn't do enough in terms or either setting expectations or taking her on the mental journey to where I wanted her to be (or both).

Planning wise, given that the intent was for the scene to run for about eight hours (I'd told her up to 24 but had no intention to make it that long) I had about three/four scenes roughed out in my head, but not in any detail.

"Morality, like art, means drawing a line someplace." - Oscar Wilde