there's only so long... (6)

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Posted by jen001 on Tue 15 Feb 11, 8:36 PM to jen001's blog.

there's only so long, that someone can ignore you without you deciding you can't be arsed speaking to them again...

you got to that point (just so you know)

j xx

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15 Feb 11, 8:50 PM
River_Deep
UK, 6 yrs

I am getting quicker and quicker at getting to that moment.

It is not what you say or do but the way you say or do it
"Russian roulette is not the same without a gun and baby when its love, if it's not rough ,then it is not fun"

15 Feb 11, 9:55 PM
inappropriate

UK(CF), 3 yrs

I totally get this. After a while, I forget the good bits from the past, and just can't be arsed.

15 Feb 11, 10:18 PM
Kali_Ma
UK(B), 5 yrs

*dribbles*

'I heard she's a bit of a thug' Mister Bear
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"I'm here to fuck shit up and I'm ready to go..." CombiChrist

16 Feb 11, 2:37 AM
Master_Explorer67
UK(SE), 17 mths

For me it was yesterday. Being ignored is not nice when all your trying to do is help. Now I just can't be arsed no more. They are on there own from now on.

Truth and Loyalty are my Sword and Shield.

16 Feb 11, 6:30 AM
Shypeachybottom
UK, 20 mths

Mz_Lucinda_Doys wrote:
(snip) I tend to give the benefit of the doubt, probably for far longer than I should but then common sense kicks in and even I realise that there is no excuse for anyone being either just a lazy arse or a sulky git other than that they think I will always be there ... wrong.

Bottom line is, they are going to lose out on far more than I am.

^^ Very true. Everyone can have shit happening, and that is why I do try to give people the benefit of the doubt, but there is "benefit of the doubt" and "taking the piss". There comes a point where you think that if the person cannot even afford you basic courtesy, why bother, because what will they be like with more difficult stuff like trust and intimacy.

There's a somebody i'm longing to see, i hope that he turns out to be, someone to watch over me
i'm a little lamb who's lost in the wood, i know i could always be good, to one who'll watch over me (Ella Fitzgerald)

16 Feb 11, 10:53 AM
RubyRouge
UK(S), 4 yrs

I know that feeling! But you are absolutely right, you get to the point of being sick of waiting for them to regain their manners, and think "fuck you, asshole". Better off without people like that in your life. x

"While the truncheon may be used in lieu of conversation, words will always retain their power. Words offer the means to meaning, and for those who will listen, the enunciation of truth. And the truth is, there is something terribly wrong with this country, isn't there?"