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| Tue 8 Feb 11, 9:07 PM bootssub UK(G), 7 yrs |
I'm not a sadomasochist, but more and more dommes say I am a "pain slut". That is to them I can take alot more pain than what I say to them. I do have courage to volunteer to be bullwhipped by a domme rather be a "wuss". To me, I do not like pain unless it is inflicted on me by women such as flogging, spanking and whipping which you would usually see sadistic dommes do to their poor play partners in BDSM clubs. Because it is completely different from all other kinds of pain in my life. Every time I have a session with a domme which involves pain. I try my best to tolerate all the sting I receive as much as possible. Would that make any of my domme play partners happier if I can absorb as much pain she would inflict on me? I do like the feel from the after effects from the pain sessions when I have a shower, go to bed or sit down. Do anyone agree with me? You will not enjoy pain unless it is a kind of pain which is related to your kink. bootssub Edited Tue 8 Feb 11, 9:10 PM by bootssub |
| 9 Feb 11, 10:52 AM the1whoserves UK(DN), 6 yrs |
to me pain equals fun .. as i tend to laugh even when i hit my thumb with a hammer or whatever..but when the pain comes from a lovely dominant lady,, the pain becomes very sexualy exciting, i make exceptions for pain from migriane and other medical causes,, even though i did laugh at myself once when hitting my head against a wall while suffering from a real bad migraine, |
| 9 Feb 11, 1:54 PM LadyAliana UK(B), 2 yrs |
As you say pain is more euphoric when being given by a Domme . Part of being a good sub is being able to take whatever your Domme gives you to make Her happy. In some cases the pain can be more than expected .But a good sub can turn this pain around in his head and make it good pain ,which in turn makes you more euphoric and happy.
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