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River_Deep
Posted by River_Deep on Fri 4 Feb 11, 3:33 PM to River_Deep's blog.

I am going to try and not make this news sound like I am big-headed but the request I have just had still has me in disbelief.

I started chatting to a guy on OKCupid a while ago. He is based in the same town as me and it was a consideration we would meet. We added each other to FB in Oct as we both left OKC and continued chatting. He then went to South Africa for a holiday and I went to Thailand. We never did meet.

He would reply to my updates, and I to his music. Today he called me and this afternoon he made a request of me that blew me away.

He works with a company that supports people in the community. Some of these people need help to get out and about and general socialising. He has asked me to go in and give a little talk to a group on my trip away as he says I am inspirational in my thinking and what I have done to my life in the past 6 months or so.

Never done anything like this before and I am bloody shitting myself. Just hoping the usual Gobby Geordie takes over.

A nice twist to what has been a flippen awful day so far.

RD xx

Replies

4 Feb 11, 3:52 PM
Jezzebelle
UK, 10 yrs
Brilliant, I'm sure you'll do an excellent job of it!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/jezzebelle/
Dreaming permits each and every one of us to be quietly and safely insane every night of our lives.
- William Dement

4 Feb 11, 4:25 PM
Curious_II
3 yrs
If you aint done public speaking before, you are bound to be shitting yourself, anyone would no matter how confident you may or may not be. But you will be on cloud nine afterwards. I
4 Feb 11, 4:45 PM
MisterBear
UK(WA), 8 yrs


Will you have a translator with you for those of them who don't understand Geordie? ;-)

Good luck lass. xxx

We've gotta go to the crappy town where I'm a hero.

4 Feb 11, 4:58 PM
River_Deep
UK, 6 yrs
I have chaired meetings and given presentations as a manager but never given a full on talk about myself. Think I will just wing it with minimal notes. Be much more natural, and much more me!

It is not what you say or do but the way you say or do it
"Russian roulette is not the same without a gun and baby when its love, if it's not rough ,then it is not fun"

4 Feb 11, 5:01 PM
pilsburyDB
19 mths
Do a full on power point job :) you know you want to!!!

Do I care? Do I fuck, I'm on a roll!!!

4 Feb 11, 5:04 PM
River_Deep
UK, 6 yrs
Bigbob33 wrote:
Do a full on power point job :) you know you want to!!!

Do I nelly. I hate PP. Want to inspire not put them to sleep!

It is not what you say or do but the way you say or do it
"Russian roulette is not the same without a gun and baby when its love, if it's not rough ,then it is not fun"

4 Feb 11, 5:36 PM
Wildebeest
UK(M), 8 yrs

If you talk like you type - you'll blow them away! Enjoy!
4 Feb 11, 6:41 PM
Whipkick
UK(CB), 9 yrs

If you have pictures take them. they say a thousand words and will give you time to think while you talk. . I think you'll be amazing

'Just 7 seconds away, just as long as I stay, I'll be waiting..'

4 Feb 11, 9:02 PM
MisterBear
UK(WA), 8 yrs


just_tope wrote:
Will give my ears a rest for the day :-p xxx

Careful, she might practice on you before hand.

We've gotta go to the crappy town where I'm a hero.

4 Feb 11, 9:19 PM
silklover2
7 yrs
River_Deep wrote:
Think I will just wing it with minimal notes. Be much more natural, and much more me!

I've done quite a lot of public speaking, and that's always what works best for me. In my experience, people always respond best to the personal - be yourself and you can't go wrong!

All the best for a great talk...

Silklover2 :)

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