Posted by Hidden_Kink
on Sun 30 Jan 11, 12:05 AM to Hidden_Kink's blog.
Hi guys, I know this topic is not strictly BDSM related, and this could just be extreme tiredness talking, anyway to cut to the chase, do you think you should you always have some idea of exactly what you want in life, and is there a certain age by which you should ideally, magically know what you want?
| 30 Jan 11, 12:12 AM switch_bitch UK(G), 7 yrs |
No and No !!  If you go through life with your head in the sand, all people will see, is an arse | ||
| 30 Jan 11, 12:20 AM Randomizer UK(WC), 23 mths  |
In the eternal words of John Lennon: Life is what happens when you're busy making other plans. | ||
| 30 Jan 11, 12:35 AM Innocentgirl UK(SO), 4 yrs |
I'm twenty one, and I have no idea what I'll be doing in six months time when my uni course ends, let alone what I want with the rest of my life. I do know what I hope will happen - I hope [and have no reason to think I will not] I will still be with my lovely partner and Dominant, and I hope to work in a specific literary field.
However, I don't think there's a magical age you need to know what you want to do with your life. I'm happy just seeing where things go Beauty is only skin deep, ugly goes straight to the bone. | ||
| 30 Jan 11, 12:48 AM syndeetoo UK(WC), 6 yrs |
You should always have an EXACT idea of what you DON'T want in life
You're kidding me. | ||
| 30 Jan 11, 1:00 AM Mistress_Rosanna PH, 6 yrs |
Not a chance life is not a project plane with dates amd milestones.....its fuuuunnnnnnnnn ..well most of the time anyway | ||
| 30 Jan 11, 1:14 AM Ianneil UK(N), 5 yrs |
If you want to be on the apprentice yes. Lesser mortals amble along with goal orientated pottering about. Your second point could be rephrased should we grow up before we are too old to???
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| 30 Jan 11, 1:28 AM clubslut UK(B), 4 yrs |
I know exactly what I want in life. I want to be happy and healthy, and I want my friends and family to be happy and healthy. That much I am absolutely sure of. What else I want? Not sure really, I'm just trying to enjoy life the moment. I used to be in a vanilla relationship and all I wanted was for us to grow old together and be happy. It didn't work and eventually we split up. A year ago I started going to BDSM events and I now have some wonderful friends and a whole new life I never expected to have. It's not what I wanted a few years ago, but I can honestly say that I am a happier person now. A clubslut is for life - not just for Christmas | ||
| 30 Jan 11, 1:31 AM kayak1 UK(PA), 4 yrs |
Life just goes on good and bad when you make plans God or depending on beliefs fate just laughs ! In my 50s now and finally realised that best kind of life is living in the moment past is past future is fluid the only real thing is the here and now just enjoy and saviour that 100% No regrets don't end up in a nursing home thinking "if only I had ...... " or " I wish I had tried " or "If I was'nt so feart ....." or " I regret...." Be brave just do it if it does'nt work out can always say you tried with no regrets | ||
| 30 Jan 11, 1:35 AM FindYourVoice UK(SY), 2 yrs |
more of the same sentiment here, really. I wanted different things when I was younger than I want now, and that goes for both the things I did achieve, and the things I didn't. I want to be happy, I want the people I care for to by happy too, and after that I just want "people" to be happy if I can do anything to make it so. Symples. "sqick" | ||
| 30 Jan 11, 1:41 AM clubslut UK(B), 4 yrs |
Oh, and to keep this thread BDSM related, I want to be beaten, thrashed, pierced, etc. at every available opportunity.
I wonder if that will be sufficient to stop this thread being moved to a weblog? Probably not A clubslut is for life - not just for Christmas |
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