24 Dec 11, 7:00 PM
andy325i
UK(BS), 5 yrs
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As much as she may hate condoms, common sense when playing with others comes first. Well done for thinking before acting
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24 Dec 11, 7:23 PM
wickedlady01
UK(CM), 2 yrs
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sub or not, you have that right to refuse, however i would not allow any contact without protection on first time basis, if it progresses to more regular play then you can all go get tested and after results play with out, |
24 Dec 11, 7:26 PM
mmutie
UK, 7 yrs
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xsub_tomx wrote:
Condoms and play
Hi. I'm interested in other peoples opinions on this subject. I've recently been given the chance for some play with a Domme and her sub. I only know them so far from email contact.
The Domme is insistent that any play with her would be unprotected, although she would allow play with her sub to be protected but she is clear she wouldn't be happy about it. They would both be tested but she would accept my word that I'm OK.
Now I feel that with any new partners, tested or not, it is better to play safe and that remains a firm rule for me.
For sure unprotected play is great but surely not with someone brand new? She feels I should honour her as she desires and that is without a condom.
My decision is already made, no protection equals no play.
So, is it OK for a Domme to insist on no condoms for their subs - in particulary for first time play with them??
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The use of the word insist makes it sound as if you have no choice in the matter. She has said what she wants and you have decided it's not for you. From that perspective, I would say that it's 'ok'. Or is your question a more general one about the morality of unprotected sex? |
24 Dec 11, 9:49 PM
NickiB
UK(BS), 3 yrs
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Just to point out this thread was started nearly a year ago.... Nicki
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24 Dec 11, 11:07 PM
Melvyn_Braggard
UK(LE), 13 mths
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Londonista wrote:
Seriously poor idea.
Undiagnosed HIV is on the rise, along with a boatful of other nasties. A lot of it within "alternative" communities.
Unlike in the seminal 1996 classic Barb Wire, people do not in fact carry 'proof' of their uncorrupt lady/man bits. I'm not sure I would take the word of anyone I didn't know.
Personally I would double-bag it. hehe
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Old topic and old problem. From first hand experience double bagging, using two condoms, is a very bad idea. Increased friction causes condom to weaken and split. This has happened to me after an ex girlfriend insisted on using 2.
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24 Dec 11, 11:15 PM
angellover
UK(CM), 3 yrs
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NickiB wrote:
Just to point out this thread was started nearly a year ago....
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Flippin heck!!
So it did  Thank you.
The highest fences we have to climb, are those we have built within our mind
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25 Dec 11, 6:03 PM
MistressRouge
UK(B), 6 yrs
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Yes Trojan Magnum XL are for the VWE male, I know a few that use them 
inappropriate wrote:
roblxxx wrote:
Hateful things. Always way too small and prone to breaking as soon as you try to penetrate her. Still I suppose they have some uses.
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Even for the 'larger' man, it is possible to get condoms that are comfortable, your local gum clinic will be able to give you loads of samples so you can find something suitable.
Also, if you're regularly having condoms break, you're either putting them on wrong or buying poor quality condoms.
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26 Dec 11, 8:01 AM
MsBorgia_and_Mrk
UK, 7 mths
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I agree with this as well.
ClassAct2005 wrote:
YOu would be unwise if you went ahead on that basis. No, it's not common either.
I only do relationships, not play and even then it's best to wait and be sure.
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26 Dec 11, 7:54 PM
pod333
UK(DD), 6 yrs |
MistressRouge wrote:
Yes Trojan Magnum XL are for the VWE male, I know a few that use them
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I am not so lucky, just the 'normal' Trojan Magnum for me.
Still, old thread but at least most recognised the dubious nature of the original suggestion. Hope it all turned out OK in the end.
Bollocks spoken like an real expert.
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26 Dec 11, 8:09 PM
tanken
UK(NR), 2 yrs
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Sounds like a virus infected icecream for a car exhaust 
Happiness is a warm bum
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