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| 24 Jan 11, 2:58 PM smoofing UK(SW), 2 yrs |
i may be swerving slightly from the point of the thread here; but i'd like to throw a few things into the ring here. like everyone else, bisexual men come in a wide range of flavours. from the avowedly hetro guy who does a gay thing to please his woman, (even if it makes him physically sick, and yes, ive seen this happen ) to the happily and contentedly bisexual man . from the sub to the dom from the top to the botom, switchy and every other permutation you could think of . let alone the 'menu' of activities a bi man may or not like . ( again, just the same as everyone else. ) like-wise, the level of forcedness that might apply surely has to be a result of negotiation beforehand . coomon sense dictates this. if a guy is traumatised or has some kind of violent reaction to any given activity, it can't really be a positive thing for anyone concerned. we come in all shapes and sizes and with our own proclivites. for a happy bisexual like me, 'forced' would include perfoming with someone i just didn't fancy. with a different partner, there might be no force needed. personally i am in the camp of no need or wish for forced; to play with someone i fancied, under the guidance and direction of a woman is a fantastic thing.( or with a different combination of male and female for that matter ) but even then, you would surely consider the natural relationship between the two guys to be an important dynamic in the play. eg. whos' top whos' bottom, are they switchy or both sub etc.
although i don't detect it in this thread; there is a tendancy still to assume that a bi man, reluctant or otherwise, will suck fuck play with anything in a skirt or trousers. this is to me a flawed image. i would no more want to suck the cock of a man i didnt like than the next girl.
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| 24 Jan 11, 3:11 PM MademoiselleKlar UK, 19 mths |
You know I have done a bit and seen a bit in this lifestyle and not dead yet. So I will just say "Hell Why Not?" I am learning that if you don't try something you don't know if you like it or not. I would have strict rules if I was witnessing/directing such passion however, such as safe sexual practise. I wouldn't want anything on my conscience here you see | |||||||||
| 24 Jan 11, 3:35 PM Mistress_sultrybelle UK(G), 2 yrs £ |
I have had gay guys offer to have sex with my ex sub. Also two gay men who are a couple asked if I would be their Mistress. I am also in the lifestyle. I have alot of gay friends and they regularly have sex with bi curious men.
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| 24 Jan 11, 3:37 PM Mistress_sultrybelle UK(G), 2 yrs £ |
Yeh I am only interested in watching, not being involved. Thanks for that Lillybee x
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| 24 Jan 11, 4:10 PM BadWulf UK(TA), 6 yrs |
Is there a distinction between forced Bi with guys as opposed to girls? Struggling to see it myself. - Wulfy My, what sharp teeth I have. | |||||||||
| 24 Jan 11, 4:23 PM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs |
I agree with you... being bi-sexual means that you enjoy two sexes... a woman wearing a strap-on is, as you say, still a woman. Therefore, I wonder why so many male subs describe themselves as "bi" when what they really mean is... they have no intention of participating in any actual bi contact but love to have a dildo/strap-on shoved up their arse by a female.
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| 24 Jan 11, 4:28 PM x_zero_x UK(DD), 10 yrs |
i don't like being on the recieving end of anal in any form, i just can't relax, it just feels like i need to empty my bowels. i'f i'm completely immobilized, bound and gagged, i kind of open up to it but i need to be in or near subspace, it pretty much is a forced thing for me. i could maybe handle going down on a guy wearing a pair of those latex shieth pants as it wouldn't actually be touching it but that's about it! "The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything." ~Friedrich Nietzsche | |||||||||
| 28 Jan 11, 3:30 PM ting_tong UK(LN), 5 yrs |
wow all these comments showing looks kinda artistic may be bi iconic lol bobby | |||||||||
| 28 Jan 11, 4:49 PM Sarah_Kane UK(M), 4 yrs £ |
Been a Trans-Mistress Forced-bi is very much apart of my sessions, I love nothing more than having a slaves on his knees in front of me and grabbing hold of him and forcing him to suck my weapon, been on the large size is also very humiliating for a slave. I also enjoy stapping a slave down than lowering my self down on to him forcing him to worship me fully. So yes in my own twisted way I do get a lot out of it...x Mistress Sarah Kane Mistress Sarah Kane presents: RED! 5th Feb... After the most talked about Northwest New Years Eve Party...! Edited 28 Jan 11, 4:51 PM by Sarah_Kane | |||||||||
| 28 Jan 11, 7:23 PM ThRobin UK(SE), 19 mths |
Because maybe you're into REWARD bi? Edited 28 Jan 11, 7:25 PM by ThRobin |