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| 23 Jan 11, 9:52 PM idonna UK(SM), 21 mths   |
is by my good friend (but not me
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| 23 Jan 11, 9:58 PM Sultrylady UK(B), 11 yrs  |
Been there, done that. What we haven't really discussed is the time wasters. Thus far we've talked about two distinct, genuine groups. Once you add those who are just here to have their cyber fun it makes the job near on impossible. Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. | ||
| 23 Jan 11, 10:23 PM idonna UK(SM), 21 mths |
there should be a secret list that Dommes keep of timewasters
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| 23 Jan 11, 10:26 PM Sultrylady UK(B), 11 yrs |
Me and one or two others already do Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. | ||
| 23 Jan 11, 11:27 PM MissyG UK(MK), 8 yrs  |
*waves* -:|:- London Munch -:|:- LondonAlternativeMarket -:|:- | ||
| 24 Jan 11, 12:32 AM MzClio UK(CF), 3 yrs      |
Unfortunately, as with other Internet sites , there are always married men on the look out for a Bit on the side Dommes are not the only group targeted by opportunistic males.. Defiled is my name full sore Through cruel spite and false report That I may say for evermore Fairwell to joy, adieu comfort For wrongfully ye judge of me Unto my fame a mortal wound Say what ye list, it may not be Ye seek for that shall not be found.. Anne Boleyn ......circa 1503-1536 | ||
| 24 Jan 11, 8:05 AM Lovingthing 6 yrs |
I never really reply to anything on here but I do read alot, is this not the world we live in. Over the last fifty years our liberation from what we can call the norm, has lead too many freedoms, but what price freedom, has it made things easier, of that I could not be sure.
I think to crave love and a deeper conection, is what we where programmed to do, but I feel that when people choose this so call fredom, or try too escape from what they feel is the conditioning of the past, they want sexual freedom, and feel that love is just something that is maybe outdated? Me, I am a sub, but I also would like love and submission to be one, but it is catch 22, so without love how can submission be anything real? | ||
| 24 Jan 11, 2:41 PM MisstressvsSolicedog UK(NN), 17 mths |
it's a funny ol thing because,, although i,m sub and Misstress and i have a 24/7 relationship,
without friendship laugh's love affection and kindnest, i feel it could be quite loney,
many sub's state and expect that a 24/7 relationship is a yes/no Misstress senario but i doubt many work in the long run,
as many don't see the human eliment in thier want's only feel the 'urge' and fantasy only, thus a relationship is less likely to work,, well that's my view for what it's worth Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish | ||
| 24 Jan 11, 4:03 PM MadamEmme UK(SE), 5 yrs |
Scorpionic, I ADMIRE your 'diplomatic' observations post. I'm personally less capable of being diplomatic on such issue, and I tend to state very clearly that the 'Femdom world' has become mostly the portal dimension for 'kinky-roleplay' interactions, then OP-M/s-D/s relationships. Unfortunately both the commercialisation and massification of BDSM and the wash out of Pro-activities and Porno-fantasies promotions, have distorted completely what the real meaning of Power-Exchange Lifestyle really is all about. Very few still values the Mentoring relationship between Dominants, honourable 'code' of conduct, Leather-values, D/s dynamics base not on expectations but on the commitment of solid interactions (building of trust, training, devotion, etc…). The majority of people that approach sites like this (and the world of BDSM in general), have to cut trough tick walls of Fetish-Industry interests, kinky-commercialisation of sexual play, the self promotion and interests of events promoters and Prodominants/Prosub/male or female prostitutes/kinky show business, and so on.
In other world, for someone to find out and becoming involve (in personal terms and dynamics) in the real world of Leather/Ms/Ds Lifestyle, is like for a turtle with a frozen belly and an hot back, coming across a floating piece of wood in the middle of the ocean, that it can climb on and safely turn around to cool it's back and warm it's belly. The probability of finding such little oasis in the middle of an ocean is so remote that even if the wood is found (it must be a particular type of piece of wood) it's useless if doesn't have an internal bent 'large enough' for the turtle 'to settle in safety' and to turn it's way (around) 'up side down' and warm its belly while cooling it's back and let the floating wood taking its course. I use this metaphor, emphasising how difficult it is nowadays, for people to find real dimensions of D/s to explore, live and commit too. Making a Lifestyle personal commitment in PO/Ms relationship in particular, means to find real people to grow with and in this age of commercialisation of BDSM is nearly an impossible task. All my solidarity, and support to T/those that are 'AWARE' of their D/s nature and are looking for MEAN-FULL PE relationships. p.n. Said so, everyone is (of course) free to live their sexuality as they wish or run (and promote) their own business as they wish. However, I reserve judgement on the massification and commercialisation of BDSM (in particularly Femdom - a word that increasely means nothing anymore in relation to D/s) that proliferate mainly an idea (and projections) of porno-fantasy-expectations in interactions among dominants & submissives. It only promotes an image of 'service' and immediate kinky satisfaction, which has nothing to do with real PE relationships. BDSM is becoming increasely a culture of 'fetish-media-porno-fashion' that still relegates women to the role of 'female-service-providers'. In other world, the more we buy into such status quo, the more we will loose the real (women) D/s world of BDSM. "Be Safe and at Ease with your Nature" | ||
| 24 Jan 11, 6:11 PM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs |
Something that seems to be prevalent is... some think that a Domme should be interested in them, simply because THEY are interested in the Domme. As a rule of thumb... if I wouldn't be interested in someone for a vanilla relationship then, I won't be interested in them for a D/s one. Why would I want a relationship with someone who didn't float my boat, simply because they want the same things, in D/s, as I do? D/s is something I want, in addition to an otherwise full relationship, it's not a reason to embark on a relationship with anyone/everyone else who happens/appears to have the same sort of sexual interests that I do. |
