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| Thu 20 Jan 11, 4:04 PM Missdirection UK(LL), 3 yrs   |
It clearly states in my profile that I am a sub. It also states that I am in no way interested in Domming male subs. Yet I continually receive memos and chats from male subs asking that I become their Mistress/Domme. I used to politely reply but now no such politeness or even a reply! I certainly do not memo male subs asking them to Dom me so why do male subs feel the need to do this? a smile across my ass with a slap across my face | |||
| 20 Jan 11, 4:14 PM Ianneil UK(N), 5 yrs |
Possible reasons. 1/ Lack of decent Dommes in your area. 2/ Visio erictile dementia, where sexual arousal caused the aroused one to see what they want to see. 3/ They are idiots.
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| 20 Jan 11, 4:21 PM x_zero_x UK(DD), 10 yrs |
that is true here, well there are decent Dommes but they are all either pro or not looking/interested but you don't catch me doing that.
that's possibly true
and in some cases also true i thought this was gonna be along the lines of why do sub males bother because of the sheer high ratio of male subs to Dom/mes looking, haha "The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything." ~Friedrich Nietzsche | |||
| 20 Jan 11, 4:22 PM Beau_Tox UK(CB), 7 yrs  |
What did they say when you asked them..? . | |||
| 20 Jan 11, 4:24 PM x_zero_x UK(DD), 10 yrs |
Oh and a lot of people not on the scene are convinced the scene os made up of Female Dommes and male subs  "The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything." ~Friedrich Nietzsche | |||
| 20 Jan 11, 4:25 PM Bambi_x UK(NW), 2 yrs |
*agrees with ianneil* Some of them are just idiots, haven't read your profile or even quickly glanced at your interests. I get the occasional male sub message me for play etc, I started to reply but got some nasty replies so I don't bother anymore. They'll get the hint eventually . I might be bad.. But I'm perfectly good at it. | |||
| 20 Jan 11, 4:31 PM Leonidos UK(PO), 3 yrs |
They have prob got a generic memo that they are copying and pasting to every female profile they come accross. Sad but very true. | |||
| 20 Jan 11, 4:42 PM Reversed 23 mths |
I had a very explicit profile and my ad was equally unambiguous.... I was (still sometimes am) approached by male submissives. I always politely pointed out that our kinks didn't match. Some went quietly and others sought to either persuade me to try my 'domme side' (whatever the hell that is) or let them try their 'dom side' on me.... Yay!! Bit transparent really... nudge, nudge, wink, wink... if you ask me. Simple solution to that and other troublesome issues - remove ad and reduce profile.
Sorted | |||
| 20 Jan 11, 4:51 PM Rhoobarb UK(FK), 12 yrs |
In the photograph you have as your avatar you appear to be fairly assertive.(Standing hands on hips, not at all submissive!) You don't say anything that can be read as sub only until paragraph six, and we *all* know that "very few males read profiles all the way through" especially if there is a picture. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ | |||
| 20 Jan 11, 4:55 PM carnalwishes 3 yrs |
I think that as all that blood travels south to their dangley bits, they have a reduced ability to read/or understand basic text. They dont see past the word female.
Appears a common problem on here and other sites | |||
| 20 Jan 11, 5:02 PM Black0rchid UK, 2 yrs |
I want to know the answer to this one as well. I still get personal memos from male subs in various outfits with the lines "Have a look at my profile what do you think". Well, have a look at my profile, what do you expect me to think? Furthermore if you click on the link (given in my profile) @Nathan57, it does, I think, make it even clearer. Like you however, I still get memos from male subs. Sometimes (when I can be bothered), I ask, "Why have you memod me?", they reply "I liked your photo" and I think, 'what, and that meant you lost the ability to read?' ~ given that my profile could hardly be open to misinterpretation. The only compensation is that since reading your post I now realise I am not alone. Az me shloft mit hint, shtayt men oyf mit flay Edited 20 Jan 11, 5:06 PM by Black0rchid |
