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HomDom? (67)

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3 Jan 11, 6:59 PM
MistressJuliaPink
UK(M), 7 yrs
£
Thanks to everyone who's answered seriously. I admit the post was flippant but it's produced some really well considered, interesting replies.

I'm always considering different events to run at my place and the question of Masters and female subs arose once. However it was soon dismissed as it's an area I know so little about that I couldn't possibly have the skills, connections, knowledge and passion to make it work. But the right person for the job can make anything work in my experience and I was genuinely curious if the right person had succeeded yet and how. It sounds to me that the upmarket approach mentioned is the answer and I wish them every success.

( Then if any Masters around Manchester want to copy their ideas and hold their own version in my Dungeon then they only have to ask. And pay rent. LOL )

Mistress Julia Pink www.themanchesterdungeon.com

3 Jan 11, 7:32 PM
MistressRouge
UK(B), 6 yrs
£
Would be great to have a FemDom evening, with female submissives only, I would come ;) lol

" The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it. Resist it and your soul grows sick with longing, for the things it has forbidden itself" Oscar Wilde
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3 Jan 11, 7:36 PM
rubberesque
UK(W), 5 yrs

MistressRouge wrote:
Would be great to have a FemDom evening, with female submissives only, I would come ;) lol

FUCK NO! Have you seen how scary those Fem Dommes are? There's one here who I'll point to this post who KNOWS full well how much she scares the crap out of me and has done so for years!

I don't know, I think it's just me I think Dommes are far scarier than most Doms.

I'm a woman! We don't say what we WANT! But we reserve the right to get pissed off if we don't get it. That's what makes us so fascinating! And not a little bit scary.
Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

3 Jan 11, 7:36 PM
Sissy_girl
UK(M), 4 yrs


MistressRouge wrote:
Would be great to have a FemDom evening, with female submissives only, I would come ;) lol

Ooooh yes please !!! I'd get the plane back for that =-o

Cicely by name & sisserly by nature ;)
He [or she] , who is afraid to pick up the dice will never throw a six .
I am one of the few who lives what's called .....the Lowlife

3 Jan 11, 7:58 PM
relaxed1
UK(BR), 6 yrs

MistressRouge wrote:
Would be great to have a FemDom evening, with female submissives only, I would come ;) lol

Wasn't that basically what Purrr was (although it was more S&M than D/s)?

"We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking up at the stars." - Oscar Wilde
"You should make a point of trying every experience once, excepting incest and folk dancing." - Sir Arnold Bax

3 Jan 11, 9:00 PM
Amante_Velora
UK(SW), 22 mths
rubberesque wrote:
MistressRouge wrote:
Would be great to have a FemDom evening, with female submissives only, I would come ;) lol

FUCK NO! Have you seen how scary those Fem Dommes are? There's one here who I'll point to this post who KNOWS full well how much she scares the crap out of me and has done so for years!

I don't know, I think it's just me I think Dommes are far scarier than most Doms.

Moi? I am a pussycat :-D

3 Jan 11, 9:21 PM
Xrampage
UK(PR), 6 yrs
MistressJuliaPink wrote:
HomDom?

Would the opposite of FemDom be called HomDom? And why aren't there 'HomDom' nights? Or are there? And if they do exist are they run along a similar theme to FemDom nights?

FemDom nights are so popular I just wondered why I've never heard of the same sort of events for Masters and female submissives (except in the school/spanking scene)

Why do the dynamics of Doms buying female subs at an auction not work do you think? Possessiveness? Jealousy? Distaste? Wrong ratio? It's not a scene I know much about so I would be really curious to learn what others thoughts are on this.

If they organised a HomDom or Male Dom event (whatever you want to call it), it would be shut down within the hour! The organiser's would be accused of being sexist towards women! I can see it now; a parade of Feminists with banners! lol

Edited 3 Jan 11, 9:23 PM by Xrampage

3 Jan 11, 9:23 PM
rubberesque
UK(W), 5 yrs

AmanteDiVelora wrote:
rubberesque wrote:
MistressRouge wrote:
Would be great to have a FemDom evening, with female submissives only, I would come ;) lol

FUCK NO! Have you seen how scary those Fem Dommes are? There's one here who I'll point to this post who KNOWS full well how much she scares the crap out of me and has done so for years!

I don't know, I think it's just me I think Dommes are far scarier than most Doms.

Moi? I am a pussycat :-D

Pussycat my arse! And no! That is not an invitation! I've seen those claws! Haha

I'm a woman! We don't say what we WANT! But we reserve the right to get pissed off if we don't get it. That's what makes us so fascinating! And not a little bit scary.
Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

3 Jan 11, 9:37 PM
american_girl
UK(CB), 2 yrs
Xrampage wrote:

If they organised a HomDom or Male Dom event (whatever you want to call it), it would be shut down within the hour! The Organiser's would be accused of being sexist towards women! I can see it now; a parade of Feminists with banners! lol

Charming. I'm two things - a switch and a feminist (neither of which, btw, are four-letter words in my book).

I've been to femdom events before, and I'd go to the event that's being planned by @sirebel and others. My reasons for going to either/both are the same - to spend an evening in a particular dynamic that resonates within me. Life is grand as a switch. :-D

An event like this isn't at odds with my views on gender equality (though I don't wanna get this post deleted by @admin for thread hijacking, so I won't go into that). It's just meant to appeal to people who identify with an M/f dynamic, which I do. If it weren't my thing, I wouldn't trash it - I just wouldn't go. Simples!

3 Jan 11, 9:54 PM
lush_london
UK(WC), 6 yrs
girl4sir wrote:
Excuse my ignorance but why would I need to feel unsafe as a female sub in this type of scenario? And in answer to the OP I would defo go to one and the thought of entering a testostorone filled room is very appealling to me!

*YOU* don't need to feel unsafe, no one need feel unsafe. However on a previous thread about this type of event it was suggested that some women might, and there was discussion about what could be put in place to try to encourage more women to participate.

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