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I figured it would be beneficial. I usually hate New Years Resolutions. I find they don't work for me, but in this case I don't think of it exactly as a resolution. Just another thing that needs doing in that long list of things to do.
I will try and be more accepting of compliments. I won't dismiss them immediately, even if I don't believe or agree with them. I'll try not to tell the person they have shit in their eyes. I will say thank you and if I'm feeling really uncomfortable I'll try and change the subject. Otherwise I'll just smile and try to see what they say as truth.
That's my only real resolution for 2011. The rest are things I actually plan on doing but aren't resolutions. I wrote a blog about it a couple of weeks ago if I recall.
| 31 Dec 10, 5:16 PM stormywaters PT, 4 yrs |
I think this is a brilliant resolution. Personally if I may say so with all due humility, I think the key to transformation here is... to 'do' nothing. But to 'hear' and 'be'. Being possibly comes easier when we stop doing. So dare to just 'take it in' when someone says something nice. Snowy. PS I am going to pinch your resolution because I think it is such a good one and I am going to try too. Will let you know how I get on. PPS Can't wait for midnight, will start now. Edited 31 Dec 10, 5:17 PM by stormywaters | ||||
| 31 Dec 10, 5:21 PM rubberesque UK(W), 5 yrs |
Thank you! Here's to success for us both then!
I'm a woman! We don't say what we WANT! But we reserve the right to get pissed off if we don't get it. That's what makes us so fascinating! And not a little bit scary. | ||||
| 31 Dec 10, 5:27 PM dementia_von_gurth UK(DA), 4 yrs |
my mum always told me to be nice to women holding strange sharp looking swords .... all for one and fuck the rest | ||||
| 31 Dec 10, 5:34 PM stormywaters PT, 4 yrs |
Did she? Bit deep for me that Dementia. What was she on about do you think? Snowy | ||||
| 31 Dec 10, 5:38 PM dementia_von_gurth UK(DA), 4 yrs |
i don't know ... it may just have been the medication all for one and fuck the rest | ||||
| 31 Dec 10, 5:53 PM rubberesque UK(W), 5 yrs |
Am I going to have to separate you two boys?!? I'm a woman! We don't say what we WANT! But we reserve the right to get pissed off if we don't get it. That's what makes us so fascinating! And not a little bit scary. | ||||
| 31 Dec 10, 5:57 PM dementia_von_gurth UK(DA), 4 yrs |
i think so .. he keeps using big words on me .... i'm getting confused ! all for one and fuck the rest | ||||
| 31 Dec 10, 5:58 PM rubberesque UK(W), 5 yrs |
There there *Comforts dementia* It's ok I'll protect you from the big old meanie! *rolls eyes* I'm a woman! We don't say what we WANT! But we reserve the right to get pissed off if we don't get it. That's what makes us so fascinating! And not a little bit scary. | ||||
| 31 Dec 10, 6:00 PM dementia_von_gurth UK(DA), 4 yrs |
thank you kindly ... he seems to have an obsession with my arse as well as a propensity for using large words all for one and fuck the rest | ||||
| 31 Dec 10, 6:05 PM rubberesque UK(W), 5 yrs |
And just how do you want me to fix his obsession with your arse? I'm hardly gonna bugger you to stop him obsessing!
I'm a woman! We don't say what we WANT! But we reserve the right to get pissed off if we don't get it. That's what makes us so fascinating! And not a little bit scary. |