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| Fri 31 Dec 10, 1:24 AM BATS666 AU, 19 mths  |
Well, that topic (Part 1) didn't take long to fill up! I wonder how many women who have posted "actively looking" on the original thread have been inundated with memos as a consequence!????? Maybe the reason the topic was posted in the first place? ;D (bloody good idea!) |
| 2 Jan 11, 10:28 AM Purvection UK(M), 8 yrs      |
Actively looking. I missed the last thread completely so am chipping in now. My qualifier is I currently have two relationships on the go, being poly, one is based in London and it's early days, and my other partner, while local, is not very into BDSM (although I'm easing him into some of my milder kinks). So I'd like to meet someone local who is an experienced top, subject to all the provisos on my profile... Aut disce aut discede. Manet sors tertia caedi Edited 4 Jan 11, 12:05 AM by Purvection |
| 2 Jan 11, 10:41 AM andrewsean UK(CO), 5 yrs |
I think we have given up hope of meeting a fem sub or fem Dom Bi couple to join us but who knows what this year might bring, remote location add to the issue but if you are keen, drive, sane and willing give us a shout.
Asking a lot I know but sane is a big deal to us If you can't laugh at yourself please allow me to assist you |
| 3 Jan 11, 3:04 PM NimueBanditQueen UK(MK), 2 yrs |
I'd like to be looking, but have too many unsettled issues to inflict myself on anyone at the mo'. Three years will see a different answer.  People I know: 2 actively looking, others are all settled, although many of those are looking for a third/additional. He moves me...he moves me not... |
| 3 Jan 11, 3:07 PM slave_mumble UK(AL), 22 mths |
i am looking, but i also appreciate the numbers and being male means im one of many many.
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| 3 Jan 11, 3:12 PM MzClio UK(CF), 3 yrs      |
Well I'M looking as well , but there seems to be a dearth of men in south wales that are'nt married .... Defiled is my name full sore Through cruel spite and false report That I may say for evermore Fairwell to joy, adieu comfort For wrongfully ye judge of me Unto my fame a mortal wound Say what ye list, it may not be Ye seek for that shall not be found.. Anne Boleyn ......circa 1503-1536 |
| 3 Jan 11, 4:31 PM Shaydes UK(W), 9 yrs |
Most definitely looking. That has ranged between oggling photos, perusing boards and flicking onto profiles and penning the occassional missive. Some of those are bold approaches and some are comments on posts. Variety, as they say... Couple this with my profile and my last blog and you have a fairly good picture of the thing that is me. Sometimes a portrait, sometimes a hidden 3-d image and sometimes an M.C. Escher. Only you can work me out - possibly. Think outside the box if you will, but I still have you tied up inside it! |
| 3 Jan 11, 5:17 PM flowflows UK, 21 mths |
i am too activly looking but have had no memos on the matter so much i have chosen fetlife over ic  ~~~~~ you must control it, dont let it control you. be strong! ~~~~~ |
| 3 Jan 11, 5:32 PM howard66 7 yrs |
My experience is that 'females looking' often do not reply in any way to any contact or say they have had so many replies they cannot reply positively or sya they have already found their dream male dom.To sum up my view is that any male replying to any female looking for male is wasting time and effort. Use professional subs who really are so much better. |
| 3 Jan 11, 5:49 PM Spell_Binder UK(TF), 10 yrs |
Actively looking. I also missed the last thread so will add myself to this one here !
Looking for female subs hopefully reasonably close to Shropshire but I appreciate it is a bit out in the sticks so happy to talk to anyone ! |
| 3 Jan 11, 5:52 PM Ama_Sidero UK(GU), 7 yrs       |
I wouldn't say I am actively looking, but if someone perfect fell into my lap I wouldn't say no. I'm not looking to replace anyone, though, so I don't try very hard. It's hardly worth the effort of the coffee meets, etc. to find out they don't tick the boxes. And definitely not worth the effort of replying to the memos if I made my ad active. Plus, it seems like all the ones I fancy are too young, or Dom or something else fundamentally wrong. LOL "Strip!" |
