This post is on the Pro-Mistresses etc web board (moved from SM/Bondage/Fetish).
| Thu 30 Dec 10, 4:49 PM SlaveJames333 UK(SW), 3 yrs   |
I'm assuming there is no such thing as a professional male sub. I know there are a few professional female subs around, but that's because there is a demand for the services they supply. I can't see women paying to punish a man - not when there are thousands queuing up who would submit to that for free. I suppose there might be a demand in the gay community. Anybody encountered a professional male sub? Women - would you pay for this if there weren't so many willing male subs out there? | ||
| 30 Dec 10, 5:25 PM bohnanza UK(FK), 12 yrs  |
There are professional male subs, they just don't work much with women. Rohypnol means never having to say "Would you like another coffee?". | ||
| 30 Dec 10, 5:28 PM SlaveJames333 UK(SW), 3 yrs |
Thanks for the info. It's a shame that there's no demand from women for professional male subs. What a great way to make some extra cash! | ||
| 30 Dec 10, 5:33 PM bohnanza UK(FK), 12 yrs |
There is a demand, but it is minimal and you would have to be known about. You will not find work, work will find you, if you are what people desire. Rohypnol means never having to say "Would you like another coffee?". | ||
| 30 Dec 10, 5:35 PM SlaveJames333 UK(SW), 3 yrs |
OK. Thanks for the advice. What would you say is the best way to get myself known? | ||
| 30 Dec 10, 6:48 PM MissKimberley NL, 8 yrs    |
Have a profile, get out and about in the scene... I personally like the idea of a pro male sub. There are times when I have a certain itch that needs scratching; ie a bi boy session with two or three boys, and there is no subby available to match my requirements or he wants too much in the way of emotional commitments. A catalog of male subbies would be a fun idea, with interests, limits, some photos... The thing is that it's a niche market. There is a market for male escorts and the gay scene has its fair share of pretty boys for rent too. But male subs catering exclusively for dominant women... very small niche indeed. “During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act” - George Orwell | ||
| 30 Dec 10, 9:48 PM lush_london UK(WC), 6 yrs |
Like others on here I don't believe there are many dominant women prepared to pay for a male sub, not while there are so many men who post on here looking for sessions with a dominant woman. However if you were happy to submit to men as well as women you might have more luck. | ||
| 31 Dec 10, 3:19 AM OllieVW 3 yrs |
There are its just not as common as female pros. Most I know combine it with escorting and offer bdsm services. There's no reason an escort cant be submissive or dominant for that matter. Tribute isn't always in the form of Her Majesty's fine tender. Participation or assistance within a scene is something I personally know of. Bi or same sex scenes are more common for male pro subs and would greatly enhance your chances of potential clients. When I escorted there was a regular demand for submissive males. Edited to add: There's also the no strings attached element. Pay, session and leave with a smile. Although there is a high level of submissive males willing to o anything the actual amount who do or who fit the requirements may be less than most imagine. Theres also the aesthetic aspect, I'm pretty sure getting your rocks off needs some form of eye candy (it does for me). Having specifics or specialities also helps allot of subs cant deal with Judicial or intense CP. Willing to be marked, blood play and also penetrated are things realistically when it comes to it most will back out of. There is a market for filming especially if your happy to show your face. There's also a combination of BDSM & porn you could explore. A little time and effort and I'm sure you would find some work then its down to word of mouth and luck
"Its All About the Experience" Edited 31 Dec 10, 3:32 AM by OllieVW | ||
| 31 Dec 10, 8:09 AM Charlie_G UK, 2 yrs |
What ^he^ said. If you know a mistress well, she night occasionally need a cock in session for one reason or another. Don't be expecting half the dosh though. You might get £20 off her if you're lucky. Also, keep away from producers of pure femdom (like me) we don't pay either. Any money to be made from filming is from the sexual element which requires sexual health certification and good looks. Very difficult industry to get into!
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| 31 Dec 10, 2:13 PM Kitty_Fantastico UK(OX), 2 yrs |
This is a really interesting subject...once mentioned to bf that I wish there had been pro male subs about when I was single and he looked at me as though I was mad lol Definitely see the appeal of an attractive, experienced male pro sub - with a willingness to adapt to the style of the domme or even demo new techniques etc As others have said sometimes you jusy want to play and try new things...without spending ages getting to know them or worrying aabout what happens next. And as someone currently looking for a male sub to join in with me and bf...I can assure you that finding someone with the right experience, who doesn't back out or expect one on one time is hard. | ||
| 31 Dec 10, 2:49 PM Ama_Sidero UK(GU), 7 yrs      |
I keep getting Numbers to show off his tongue studs as an enticement.  And he is a painslut.....And quite charming, too, if he likes you. LOLBut...females won't usually pay - there are too many subs out there who will do it for nothing.
But...they don't have tongue studs. "Strip!" |
