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How many people are actually looking (95)

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28 Dec 10, 8:36 PM
shit_sub
UK(W), 5 yrs
i'm looking :)
28 Dec 10, 8:40 PM
The_Majickian
UK(SW), 9 yrs

I have no idea of who, amongst my friends, is looking/not looking/hoping it'll grass over and cease to give them gyp.

As for myself, I'm not *actively* looking, as in replying to every ad I find on here that's even a remote possibility. But I find the thought of the smack of male hand on female buttock, or indeed vicey-versey, quite appealing, so I wouldn't pale at the very idea of it.

Indeed, you could almost put me down for a yes...

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28 Dec 10, 8:44 PM
Rapunzel*
UK(WC), 9 yrs

I am looking for playmates ;-)

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28 Dec 10, 8:46 PM
ClassAct2005
UK(N), 7 yrs
Not looking for a playmate. Looking for a long term D/s relationship.
28 Dec 10, 9:09 PM
clubslut
UK(B), 4 yrs

I'll join in. I'm looking. I've found some brilliant ones already, but I'm still looking for more. I'm just a big tart :-)

A clubslut is for life - not just for Christmas

28 Dec 10, 9:11 PM
relaxed1
UK(BR), 6 yrs

I'm not looking, or so I keep telling myself. When I've been actively looking, I've tended to make an utter arse of things, but when I'm not looking, I've met the most awesome people, a few of whom have become really good friends. Which leads to the obvious corollary that I'm more successful at friendships.

"We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking up at the stars." - Oscar Wilde
"You should make a point of trying every experience once, excepting incest and folk dancing." - Sir Arnold Bax

28 Dec 10, 9:12 PM
redberet
UK(SL), 4 yrs

rubberesque wrote:

Why does someone have to be actively looking? When I was younger and wanted a boyfriend I could never find one. The second I stopped looking and was actually really happy with how things were going, my life was going well, I had good friends to hang out with and was enjoying things in general suddenly someone would turn up in my life and a relationship would develop from there.

Strangely, I know exactly what you mean.

However I'll be honest I am actively looking playmates and a partner.

I live to hunt. (sagittarius)

Reality is what we choose and I fill mine with cute hypno slaves with a fetish for mind control, erotic hypnosis, rubber and latex. http://www.facebook.com/pages/Reality/1106371245... or http://twitter.com/twistinreality

28 Dec 10, 9:13 PM
mr_hiccups
20 mths
I have been looking and have met some wonderful people but nothing substantial yet.
28 Dec 10, 9:15 PM
dreamy
UK(SY), 10 yrs

went cold turkey few years ago and now im looking again but its been a long time
28 Dec 10, 9:21 PM
MisterBear
UK(WA), 8 yrs


ladydreams wrote:
Misterbear if you are not looking how will you find?

The ladies I've had in my life have all come about from not looking for them. Whenever I've looked I've not had any luck, whereas if I just go about my life, then either people look for me, or I meet someone, a friend of a friend, someone in a chatroom, etc. and things kinda work out.

True and genuine are only concepts and as such are meaningless. Try thinking in terms of compatibility instead.

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