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| Tue 28 Dec 10, 7:58 PM theambassador UK(PE), 17 mths   |
As someone in search of playmates, I wondered how many people are actually looking at the moment. I understand there are significantly more guys looking than women but thought it may be interesting if people here know of others that are looking / not looking so we can have a totally useless and unscientific poll. Would you lovely readers be able to think of the kinkster friends you know in real life and represent their current status with Looking first and Not Looking second e.g: 4 - 0
And, yes, I know it doesn't really mean anything and is a waste of time but feel free not to join in if it makes grumpy lines appear x | ||
| 28 Dec 10, 8:06 PM cheekyandtrouble UK(SL), 2 yrs      |
i'll join in, im not looking :p | ||
| 28 Dec 10, 8:09 PM MisterBear UK(WA), 8 yrs |
I have know idea if the people I know are looking or not. I'm not looking, but still hoping to find. True and genuine are only concepts and as such are meaningless. Try thinking in terms of compatibility instead. | ||
| 28 Dec 10, 8:12 PM Robert16 UK(OX), 2 yrs |
One lives in hope Never drive faster than your angels can fly | ||
| 28 Dec 10, 8:12 PM Godwin UK, 8 yrs |
Looking, but happy go lucky right now. A regular playmate would be great to be honest. wishful thinking there perhaps. God's gift - but don't expect it instantly. | ||
| 28 Dec 10, 8:14 PM ladydreams UK(CR), 3 yrs     |
Misterbear if you are not looking how will you find?
Not looking thank you, very happy with my Master I could spend my life in this sweet surrender - Aerosmith Edited 28 Dec 10, 8:15 PM by ladydreams | ||
| 28 Dec 10, 8:15 PM steved14 UK(TW), 5 yrs |
whos looking , no not me your honour | ||
| 28 Dec 10, 8:28 PM rubberesque UK(W), 5 yrs |
I think almost all of my relationships have worked out this way. I think, personally, it's the best way to find someone.
Why does someone have to be actively looking? When I was younger and wanted a boyfriend I could never find one. The second I stopped looking and was actually really happy with how things were going, my life was going well, I had good friends to hang out with and was enjoying things in general suddenly someone would turn up in my life and a relationship would develop from there. *Hoping I got the quotes correct* Oops! Forgot to add, Not actively looking as recently out of an eight year relationship and need time to get over a broken heart. I'm a woman! We don't say what we WANT! But we reserve the right to get pissed off if we don't get it. That's what makes us so fascinating! And not a little bit scary. Edited 28 Dec 10, 8:31 PM by rubberesque | ||
| 28 Dec 10, 8:34 PM BarbieSlutLoki UK(E), 6 yrs |
Not actively looking, and gone a bit vanilla of late but I could be persuaded Well almost vanilla if you don't count my ever expanding collection of high heels oops
The first rule of Brat Club, we don't talk about Brat Club... | ||
| 28 Dec 10, 8:34 PM PearlBlueSoul UK(EC), 2 yrs |
Yeah, looking, in the fishing rather than the hunting sense. It's a bit like the difference between hope and positive thinking; the former's an emotion, the latter an assumption. Or maybe not, dunno. 'tis the season to stay warm and comfortable. Bitchiz can wizzait. I gotta do some work on my belly, first. Need to add at least another two inches before I'm back in the game. | ||
| 28 Dec 10, 8:36 PM Black0rchid UK, 2 yrs |
I'll join in. I'm not looking. Az me shloft mit hint, shtayt men oyf mit flay |
