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D/s+S&M+Sex+B&D=? (31)

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Sun 26 Dec 10, 12:45 AM
TheSilverFox*
UK(GU), 2 yrs

OKay, we have had the discussion about D/s and Sex... and now D/s and S&M. SO to complete I guess we have to ask if you can have D/s without Bondage and Discipline?

Would kind of appear though that we have a venn diagram with four circles appearing in it... I've just attempted to draw one that covers all possibilities and am failing!

Thoughts from people?

ETA: Just realised you can draw it but it is a three dimensional model with four spheres. A bottom layer of three with a fourth one on top. I can go to sleep now... :-D

"The art of being a Gentleman is knowing when not to be"

Edited Sun 26 Dec 10, 1:13 AM by TheSilverFox

26 Dec 10, 12:52 AM
rubberesque
UK(W), 5 yrs

Der_Festliche_Fuchs wrote:
D/s+S&M+Sex+B&D=?

OKay, we have had the discussion about D/s and Sex... and now D/s and S&M. SO to complete I guess we have to ask if you can have D/s without Bondage and Discipline?

Would kind of appear though that we have a venn diagram with four circles appearing in it... I've just attempted to draw one that covers all possibilities and am failing!

Thoughts from people?

For me, D/s turns me on as does the S&M aspect of it. Therefore I like sex as part of my D/s and S&M.

I enjoy bondage and discipline also, bondage is nice but I admit I don't always have the patience for ropes, but being tied and caned is nice therefore following it up with sex is even nicer. I've come to realise that I don't like discipline (pain) as a punishment, but discipline because my Master will take pleasure from it is a whole different matter.

This being said, in a 24/7 relationship you cannot be doing it all the time but the above does help to keep me turned on for most of the day.

I'm a woman! We don't say what we WANT! But we reserve the right to get pissed off if we don't get it. That's what makes us so fascinating! And not a little bit scary.
Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

26 Dec 10, 1:31 AM
El_Presidente
UK(G), 4 yrs


Well, for a start, I don't thing S&M and B&D are even mutually exclusive, but then you can have D/s with either or both, or even neither of them. And you could say that they're all sex, but then none of them are *necessarily* sex; and, of course, you can have sex without having any of them.

All in all, it's going to be a complicated Venn diagram, and I, for one, would prefer to see a pie chart. It doesn't really lend itself to being a pie chart either, but I just like pie charts, because they remind me of pie, and I like pie.

And I think that's the important thing to take from this and bear in mind in the future, for whoever it may concern: I like pie.

That is all.

Edited 26 Dec 10, 5:24 AM by El_Presidente

26 Dec 10, 1:38 AM
TheSilverFox*
UK(GU), 2 yrs

El_Presidente wrote:
Well, for a start, I don't thing S&M and B&D are even mutually exclusive, but then you can have D/s with either or both, or even neither of them. And you could say that they're all sex, but then none of them are *necessarily* sex; and, of course, you can have sex without having any of them.

All in all, it's going to be a complicated Venn diagram, and I, for one, would prefer to see a pie chart. It doesn't really lend itself to being a pie chart either, but I just like pie charts, because they remind me of pie, and I like pie.

And I think that's the important to take from this and bear in mind in the future, for whoever it may concern: I like pie.

That is all.

Thank you for your erudite and considered contribution. Can I just be clear over your love of pie? is that pie as in "who ate all the..?" or 21/7?

"The art of being a Gentleman is knowing when not to be"

26 Dec 10, 1:47 AM
MissAnnThropist
UK(SE), 3 yrs

Der_Festliche_Fuchs wrote:
D/s+S&M+Sex+B&D=?

Thoughts from people?

Yes please :-D

"Love is dead. It was acquired in a hostile takeover by Hallmark & Disney, homegenised, then sold off piece by piece." L Simpson

26 Dec 10, 1:52 AM
TheSilverFox*
UK(GU), 2 yrs

tied_n_tested wrote:
Der_Festliche_Fuchs wrote:
D/s+S&M+Sex+B&D=?

Thoughts from people?

Yes please :-D

Behave... This was meant to be a sensible post!!! lol...

"The art of being a Gentleman is knowing when not to be"

26 Dec 10, 2:00 AM
LaBelleDomme
UK(W), 3 yrs
Der_Festliche_Fuchs wrote:
D/s+S&M+Sex+B&D=?

Thoughts from people?

It sounds to me as if you've had far too good a time today! I'll consider your question carefully overnight, as it's a while since I encountered Venn diagrams and they're notoriously tricky things..... :-)

Edited 26 Dec 10, 2:06 AM by LaBelleDomme

26 Dec 10, 2:06 AM
TheSilverFox*
UK(GU), 2 yrs

AuxGenoux wrote:
tied_n_tested wrote:
Der_Festliche_Fuchs wrote:
D/s+S&M+Sex+B&D=?

Thoughts from people?

Yes please :-D

As the only thing in the list of the above I don't have the patience for is ropework, and you seem to be very keen on it, we're obviously made for each other!!! :-) I do like strapping my 'victims' onto spanking benches or other kit tho'!!!!

Excuse me!!! lol... My thread is not a "Pick up joint"!

"The art of being a Gentleman is knowing when not to be"

26 Dec 10, 2:17 AM
MissAnnThropist
UK(SE), 3 yrs

Der_Festliche_Fuchs wrote:
AuxGenoux wrote:
tied_n_tested wrote:
Der_Festliche_Fuchs wrote:
D/s+S&M+Sex+B&D=?

Thoughts from people?

Yes please :-D

As the only thing in the list of the above I don't have the patience for is ropework, and you seem to be very keen on it, we're obviously made for each other!!! :-) I do like strapping my 'victims' onto spanking benches or other kit tho'!!!!

Excuse me!!! lol... My thread is not a "Pick up joint"!

Awww you've made @AuxGenoux go all shy now and retract that offer. ;)

"Love is dead. It was acquired in a hostile takeover by Hallmark & Disney, homegenised, then sold off piece by piece." L Simpson

Edited 26 Dec 10, 2:18 AM by MissAnnThropist

26 Dec 10, 2:23 AM
ButterflyInChains
UK(OX), 19 mths
I am going to try being drunkenly sensbile at 2am and say, 'who cares? if it's good, it's good, no?'

A mercy, I suppose, that it ended. Any deeper intimacy with each other's anatomy would have involved a murder

26 Dec 10, 2:23 AM
Doghouse_Reilly
UK(MK), 6 yrs

The answer to the above equation is x. No I will not show my working out.

The object of persecution is persecution. The object of torture is torture. The object of power is power.

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