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| Sun 26 Dec 10, 12:45 AM TheSilverFox UK(GU), 2 yrs |
OKay, we have had the discussion about D/s and Sex... and now D/s and S&M. SO to complete I guess we have to ask if you can have D/s without Bondage and Discipline? Would kind of appear though that we have a venn diagram with four circles appearing in it... I've just attempted to draw one that covers all possibilities and am failing! Thoughts from people?
ETA: Just realised you can draw it but it is a three dimensional model with four spheres. A bottom layer of three with a fourth one on top. I can go to sleep now...
"The art of being a Gentleman is knowing when not to be" Edited Sun 26 Dec 10, 1:13 AM by TheSilverFox | ||||
| 26 Dec 10, 12:52 AM rubberesque UK(W), 5 yrs |
For me, D/s turns me on as does the S&M aspect of it. Therefore I like sex as part of my D/s and S&M. I enjoy bondage and discipline also, bondage is nice but I admit I don't always have the patience for ropes, but being tied and caned is nice therefore following it up with sex is even nicer. I've come to realise that I don't like discipline (pain) as a punishment, but discipline because my Master will take pleasure from it is a whole different matter. This being said, in a 24/7 relationship you cannot be doing it all the time but the above does help to keep me turned on for most of the day.
I'm a woman! We don't say what we WANT! But we reserve the right to get pissed off if we don't get it. That's what makes us so fascinating! And not a little bit scary. | ||||
| 26 Dec 10, 1:31 AM El_Presidente UK(G), 4 yrs |
Well, for a start, I don't thing S&M and B&D are even mutually exclusive, but then you can have D/s with either or both, or even neither of them. And you could say that they're all sex, but then none of them are *necessarily* sex; and, of course, you can have sex without having any of them. All in all, it's going to be a complicated Venn diagram, and I, for one, would prefer to see a pie chart. It doesn't really lend itself to being a pie chart either, but I just like pie charts, because they remind me of pie, and I like pie. And I think that's the important thing to take from this and bear in mind in the future, for whoever it may concern: I like pie. That is all. Edited 26 Dec 10, 5:24 AM by El_Presidente | ||||
| 26 Dec 10, 1:38 AM TheSilverFox UK(GU), 2 yrs |
Thank you for your erudite and considered contribution. Can I just be clear over your love of pie? is that pie as in "who ate all the..?" or 21/7? "The art of being a Gentleman is knowing when not to be" | ||||
| 26 Dec 10, 1:47 AM MissAnnThropist UK(SE), 3 yrs |
Yes please "Love is dead. It was acquired in a hostile takeover by Hallmark & Disney, homegenised, then sold off piece by piece." L Simpson | ||||
| 26 Dec 10, 1:52 AM TheSilverFox UK(GU), 2 yrs |
Behave... This was meant to be a sensible post!!! lol...
"The art of being a Gentleman is knowing when not to be" | ||||
| 26 Dec 10, 2:00 AM LaBelleDomme UK(W), 3 yrs |
It sounds to me as if you've had far too good a time today!
I'll consider your question carefully overnight, as it's a while since I encountered Venn diagrams and they're notoriously tricky things.....
Edited 26 Dec 10, 2:06 AM by LaBelleDomme | ||||
| 26 Dec 10, 2:06 AM TheSilverFox UK(GU), 2 yrs |
Excuse me!!! lol... My thread is not a "Pick up joint"! "The art of being a Gentleman is knowing when not to be" | ||||
| 26 Dec 10, 2:17 AM MissAnnThropist UK(SE), 3 yrs |
Awww you've made @AuxGenoux go all shy now and retract that offer. "Love is dead. It was acquired in a hostile takeover by Hallmark & Disney, homegenised, then sold off piece by piece." L Simpson Edited 26 Dec 10, 2:18 AM by MissAnnThropist | ||||
| 26 Dec 10, 2:23 AM ButterflyInChains UK(OX), 19 mths |
I am going to try being drunkenly sensbile at 2am and say, 'who cares? if it's good, it's good, no?' A mercy, I suppose, that it ended. Any deeper intimacy with each other's anatomy would have involved a murder | ||||
| 26 Dec 10, 2:23 AM Doghouse_Reilly UK(MK), 6 yrs |
The answer to the above equation is x. No I will not show my working out. The object of persecution is persecution. The object of torture is torture. The object of power is power. |