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Posted by SinPar
on Sat 11 Dec 10, 5:03 PM to the Maids_Market group.
I like fantasy as much as the next person, I suppose, but my life doesn't really allow me a great deal of time for it. French maids in frills with stilettos, tightly corseted under their short uniforms, using big soft feather dusters that can double as a butt plug as well as a sensation toy… to contemplate this can be so yummy in the short term. The unfortunate part is that underneath that there is real housework that needs doing, meals that need preparing, laundry to be done, and other household chores to be accomplished. I wouldn't want someone as a maid that breaks things or does a poor job at a task that's been set in order to get punished. So I have a question for the maids.
Fantasy aside (we can have plenty of that after the house is clean), what are the essential non-sexual skills that those of you that aspire to be maids think are important to bring to the table that have real value?
For those of you that want to be maids, what is it that you're looking for from the dominant? I'm intrigued about just what it is that makes you tick.
SinPar
| 13 Dec 10, 2:41 PM steff UK(NE), 9 yrs  |
i am not sure what makes me tick and have given up trying to find out and just embraced it. Mistress is working from home today so without prompting as i am on holiday i have changed into my uniform and set about the laundry and washing up and making drinks for Mistress.Most of my uniform is as your description although the corset and high heels are not normally worn when i am carrying out chores. apart from ironing! grrr. i also have a work outfit of a plain black skirt blouse apron and mary janes. for my grubbier tasks. thankfully Mistress has not thought of the fluffy duster buttplug yet!!. any other questions please feel free to ask. | ||
| 13 Dec 10, 7:29 PM genuine_cleaner UK(DA), 4 yrs |
I think for me personally, the main skill I possess is that I have a genuine interest in traditional domestic service and an actual want to provide quality work for the person that I am working for. It is very important on this basis to have no actual needs or desires; to take a position of service needs dedication, honesty and hard work. You need to be very flexible also with the chores you are given - there can't really be any say in what is expected of you and if they need their car cleaned or fences painted, there should be nothing other than polite acceptance of what is instructed of you. As far as the dominant goes, I think honesty and a respect for privacy is key to any arrangement on this basis. A dominant/servant relationship should be one of professional understanding and respect. GC
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| 13 Dec 10, 8:28 PM number_7 UK(SG), 10 yrs |
As a domestic SLAVE much the same applies to us, except that we do not look so pretty when denied clothing. Hard and reliable work and service is what we must deliver, hopefully to the Owner's satisfaction. Whether we do this to avoid punishment (not guaranteed) or through some sort of residual effort at self respect i shall leave for others to consider. we only do as ordered.... or else!
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| 14 Dec 10, 9:52 PM maidmichellepetite UK, 8 yrs |
Respect, Love and Hygiene. From there Y/you can achieve and work together for the relationships aims in life.
Edited 14 Dec 10, 9:53 PM by maidmichellepetite | ||
| 15 Dec 10, 3:01 PM MissP UK(EN), 8 yrs |
I do love this!
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| 15 Dec 10, 6:28 PM maidmichellepetite UK, 8 yrs |
Thank You Ma'am. Hope all is well, Regards maid michelle petite xx | ||
| 18 Dec 10, 7:10 PM maid_irene UK(LN), 6 yrs |
As maid to Mrs Silk for seven or so years, I did it just because of the relationship with Mistress, and to please her with my work. What did I get from the relationship? Structure, instruction in work I was not familiar with, and a source of feminine example in a wide range of circumstances. I believe that for a proper service maid/servant the Domina's attitude needs to be very respectful, and fair especially with control things including punishments (if any). Orders are inappropriate, instructions and polite requests are the order of the day, it is a team effort to run the household, BDSM really has no place in the relationship at all. The comment below is very much the sort of thing I have in mind. Hugs, irene.
"Service which is rendered without joy helps neither the servant or the served. But all other pleasures and possessions pale into nothingness before service that is rendered in a spirit of joy." | ||
| 19 Dec 10, 1:00 AM sissysamanthadoll 4 yrs |
for me, a maid should have very high standards, which should be the standards her Master/Mistress has set for her and a maid should always meet those standards. a maid should possess excellent cleaning, cooking, laundry and serving skills, amonst many others. punctuality is just as important as any other skill and no less important,as is always being smart and well dressed, hair and make up to perfection. in my very humble opinion a maid is a mirror image of the Master/Mistress that she serves. by that i mean that if she is slovenly, untidily dressed, does not do a thorough job etc then it reflects badly on her Dominant,letting her Dominant down and herself and any real, genuine maid would never want that. being a genuine maid has nothing whatsoever to do with sex, its about a deep need to serve a Dominant and to serve to their best ability. its also about wanting to please, to have structure, to have discipline and to have pride in being a Dominants maid. it is so nice to wear satin maids uniforms with all the accessories but totally impractical for real domestic work. i love my satin, latex and pvc maids outfits but they would never be any good for real domestic chores. can you imagine cooking and getting hot oil or splashing sauces over a satin dress! a Dominant would not be pleased especially if they had bought the uniform for their maid. have whittled on long enough,will finally say that a genuine maid seeks service, not for sexual pleasure or punishment or to wear a frilly dress, she seeks to serve because it is in her nature to serve, she was born with it. its a part of who she is as a person and her most important thoughts are to please her Mistress/Master, put them first, always, and her own needs second. thank you for reading this and sorry if it was too long (lol) x | ||
| 19 Dec 10, 9:25 AM rachel1 UK(EH), 3 yrs |
From my point of view i think the most important asset would be trustworthyness closely followed by the ability to plan the work that is needed doing. afterall it isn't much point hoovering after the dusting has been done, it will just need dusting again. prsonally i like to washing and ironing done the same day so clothes are not left hanging around. on that score never leave something for tomorrow that should be done today. i bow to the superiors richgoldie1, | ||
| 19 Dec 10, 8:48 PM SinPar US, 12 yrs |
I am heartened by what I read of the replies here. Thank you all so much for responding. Different dominants want different things, obviously. The unselfish service aspect does seem to shine through in several areas.
I adored the "respect, love, hygeine" comment so much. The ability to find pleasure in a job well done, even among the most mundane tasks, is a trait to be prized for me. I'm far more impressed with small services done well and consistently than I am by the "one giant effort". Happy holidays, however you keep them. SP
-- The weak are the most treacherous of us all. They come to the strong and drain them. They are bottomless. They are insatiable. They are always parched and always bitter. They are everyone's concern, and like vampires they suck our life's blood. (Bette Davis) |
