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Kings.... A queen or the serving wench? (53)

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9 Dec 10, 2:24 PM
TheSilverFox*
UK(GU), 2 yrs

I didn't see the post about Alpha subs but that thinking makes perfect sense to me... Yes, love the thought of an Alpha sub... What a gorgeous concept!!!

"The art of being a Gentleman is knowing when not to be"

9 Dec 10, 2:27 PM
Bambi_x
UK(NW), 2 yrs
Der_Festliche_Fuchs wrote:
Kings.... A queen or the serving wench?

So kings of the world... Which woman do you want? Queen or wench?

Sorry - not a king but I'll answer anyway :P

Definitely, Queen to my King. Perfect <3

9 Dec 10, 3:28 PM
MsPhersephonne
UK(BN), 2 yrs
Der_Festliche_Fuchs wrote:
Kings.... A queen or the serving wench?

I was taken by some of the discussion in the Lancelot thread. Being of the Domly disposition, I have always had the metaphor in my mind of being the king. What I have always wanted to have is my queen. That woman who is loyal to me, submissive to me, but probably seen by others to be incredibly capable, strong and not in the least bit submissive.

I sense that others out there might be more attracted to the serving wench... I accept that we may well be tearing this metaphor to pieces but it is one that has particular meaning to me.

So kings of the world... Which woman do you want? Queen or wench?

Ok not a King but I will answer anyway. Interesting you note a Queen as capable, strong and not seens as submissive BUT submissive to you. A switch per-chance?

I know lots of very strong, capable 'Alpha female' subs does that make them therefore your Queen and the more innocent/necessitous 'Beta females' your wench?

In my fantasy kingdom there is only a Queen no need for Kings with wenches and jesters aplenty ~ evil Disney witch cackle.

"I'm really sorry you have to die." ENTJ

9 Dec 10, 3:40 PM
TheSilverFox*
UK(GU), 2 yrs

Frosty_knockers wrote:

Ok not a King but I will answer anyway. Interesting you note a Queen as capable, strong and not seens as submissive BUT submissive to you. A switch per-chance?

I know lots of very strong, capable 'Alpha female' subs does that make them therefore your Queen and the more innocent/necessitous 'Beta females' your wench?

In my fantasy kingdom there is only a Queen no need for Kings with wenches and jesters aplenty ~ evil Disney witch cackle.

Not sure if she is a switch, more likely she is very strong in the day-to-day world but certainly submissive to me.

I think your comparison of the alpha and beta females is probably absolutely spot on...

There are of course evil queens that the fair prince needs to kill in order to become King... ;-) lol

"The art of being a Gentleman is knowing when not to be"

Edited 9 Dec 10, 3:41 PM by TheSilverFox

9 Dec 10, 3:53 PM
MsPhersephonne
UK(BN), 2 yrs
Der_Festliche_Fuchs wrote:
There are of course evil queens that the fair prince needs to kill in order to become King... ;-) lol
That sounds like a challenge? - bring it on ;-)

"Vicomte de Valmont: A single word is all that's required. Yes or no?

Marquise de Merteuil: All right. War."

"I'm really sorry you have to die." ENTJ

9 Dec 10, 4:10 PM
relaxed1
UK(BR), 6 yrs

Der_Festliche_Fuchs wrote:
What I have always wanted to have is my queen. That woman who is loyal to me, submissive to me, but probably seen by others to be incredibly capable, strong and not in the least bit submissive.

That makes perfect sense. One can of course analyse it ad nauseam, to the whole realm, but it doesn't really advance the core principle. The queen as submissive to her king, but that submission invisible to the rest of the kingdom. As analogies go, I like it.

"We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking up at the stars." - Oscar Wilde
"You should make a point of trying every experience once, excepting incest and folk dancing." - Sir Arnold Bax

9 Dec 10, 4:56 PM
scottisharchie
UK(EH), 6 yrs
I already have my Queen and am very happy with her :)

but there is nothing wrong with having a wee serving wench as well ;)

A woman's submission is a gift to be cherished

9 Dec 10, 5:04 PM
SnowdropExplodes
UK(TN), 7 yrs

Der_Festliche_Fuchs wrote:
Kings.... A queen or the serving wench?

I was taken by some of the discussion in the Lancelot thread. Being of the Domly disposition, I have always had the metaphor in my mind of being the king. What I have always wanted to have is my queen. That woman who is loyal to me, submissive to me, but probably seen by others to be incredibly capable, strong and not in the least bit submissive.

I sense that others out there might be more attracted to the serving wench... I accept that we may well be tearing this metaphor to pieces but it is one that has particular meaning to me.

So kings of the world... Which woman do you want? Queen or wench?

My understanding of the roles is somewhat different:

I see a serving wench as the one who is capable, strong and not in the least bit submissive - obedient, maybe, but not submissive. A Queen, on the other hand, is a pampered, useless figurehead, good for looking good and not much else.

A serving wench is a woman of the world, who knows what she wants in terms of bodily pleasures and is more than willing to share it with her chosen lover. A Queen is at best inexperienced and uninterested in such things, and at worst uses her body purely as a political tool to get her way, seeing it not as a source of pleasure but a bargaining chip.

I know which I would rather have at my side and in my bed! But then, I would never cast myself as the King role anyway, except sometimes in short-term roleplay scenes.

9 Dec 10, 6:19 PM
Beau_Tox
UK(CB), 7 yrs


Der_Festliche_Fuchs wrote:
Kings.... A queen or the serving wench?

Wench.

That word actually makes my mouth water.

Oh you poor little lamby-kin, does the nasty post above upset you..?

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