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5 Dec 10, 3:36 AM
Bugei
UK(SA), 10 yrs
Mz_Lucinda_Doys wrote:
quietsoul wrote:
Bugei wrote:
quietsoul wrote:
Bugei wrote:
A very sad day.

To all who blame the site owner - It is not his fault!!!

I read to night a post on an other site about this problem, the crux of the problem:- and I paraphrase

!!! NOT MY WORDS !!!

It's stupid that you can get banned on an adult site for abuse and bullying we were just having a laugh.

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There was a time when respect and polite behaviour was the norm on IC what happened?

I was in the same chat room as you tonight and never saw that comment or anything like it...

The problem lies with people who 'play the victim' while firing bullets. I had a very interesting convo last night with one who plays the victim card very well. Yet insulted quite a lot of people in private to me.... She reads the logs and 'sees' what she wants and i assume she then runs to Admin. I told her the meaning behind her last attempt but to no avail. She decided her version looked better.. She then came to the new chat room tonight and began to attack people again.. Perhaps you should have spent some time reading the room log other than taking her word for what she 'saw'?

I did not say it was from a chat room, it was a post on a board similar to this one on another site.

Why do you embrace conflict as an acceptable form of interaction? Please calm your aggression.

aggression where ? all i was doing was stating facts.. not fiction. I 'assume' you mean the same site that i was on because we both know the 3rd party who logged on and fired some very nasty comments to other users before you logged in. There was no post claiming what you state on the 4 sites i was on tonight.

Right I'm not gonna mince words here... your sub joined the other site tonight.. the shit hit the fan with rantings about people on there being the bullies .. you were summoned to join for moral support .... I WAS in that other room and yes those words were used and you HAVE taken them out of context.

Now you can use any old flannel you like but its to coincidental that you have made no posts since May this year but tonight amid the shit your sub was heavily involved in again you pop up with a post about another site and words that are exactly the same as those on the other site.

Its the same old bollox again .. lets post some shit then twist it to make out people are picking on me and they are the bullies and aggressors.

How about you and those who are so delicate that when they have stirred the shit pot they run away from the smell they have caused get yourselves on e bay and buy a thicker skin

You are making assumptions and leaping to conclusions which are not accurate.

I was talking to o^^ and she ignored me. I walked over and looked at her computer screen asked her what she thought she was playing at. She explained that the IC chat rooms had been closed and she was looking to help a friend out. I immediately stopped her from any more interaction on the site she was on, joined it my self and went into the room she had been on. I said hello - got a couple of rude and some polite responses. I sat and observed the room, it was all very childish. I said to o^^ "why the fuck do you want to be on there?". I DID NOT hear anything even vaguely relevant to the closing of the IC chat rooms in that room. While reading some posts about the subject on several sites I came across the statement I have related. I made it quite clear that it was not a verbatim quote because I could not remember where I had seen it. My comment was one of sadness for the apparent lack of good manors and frivolity which IMHO is very far from the topic of BDSM, but I am getting very long in the tooth, so I would say that wouldn't I?

In order to bring this bloody silly section of this thread to a close - I apologise if I have offended anyone with my, initially very brief comments. If anyone feels they have any problems they wish to air with me or mine please feel free to send me a private message.

John Carlin aka Bugei

5 Dec 10, 5:50 AM
SteveDuk
UK(CM), 11 yrs

Christ on a bike, if this shit is what admin had to put up with in the chatrooms I'm not surprised they've shut.
5 Dec 10, 6:49 AM
Ty_Tightly
UK(CV), 3 yrs
Well guess what , I only came on here for the chatrooms . So thats , that.

Thankyou , to all I have met, and whos company I have enjoyed.

I cant see me being very active on a site with no chat, though I may well pop back from time to time to check on events. I wish Admin good luck and hope there arnt too many people like me who find other chat sites , and leave this one struggling .

5 Dec 10, 7:25 AM
SlutLesley
UK(G), 4 yrs

I came in this morning to find the chat link gone. Disappointed, as it was one of the reasons I liked the site, and made it unique. Reminds me of when MSN flung all thier toys out the pram and shut their rooms.

I enjoyed the rooms here, and the company of most people i spoke to in there. Its been fun all, and hopefully I'll see you in the next place I find.

I must echo CelticBear's thoughts, there's not much reason left to be here. I can be found on FL under the same nick. :-)

Take care all

Lesley x

5 Dec 10, 7:31 AM
Cinnamon_Tart
UK(S), 8 yrs

SteveDuk wrote:
Christ on a bike, if this shit is what admin had to put up with in the chatrooms I'm not surprised they've shut.

My sentiments exactly! When opinions were sought on this by admin a while back, my take was that it's simply a cost benefit analysis. I reckon the cost, to admin, of dealing with it, simply outweighed the overall value of it to IC.

Simple really.

Hole Parity! :-D

5 Dec 10, 7:38 AM
Natasha_Louise
UK(TW), 7 yrs
please feel free to use my chatrooms until something is resolved/better comes along. They arent moderated and are generally unused except by a few site members in the evenings...so not likely to work unless a few arrange to go there at the same time . regards Natasha

http://girlforspanking.co.uk/chat1/phpMyChat.php3

5 Dec 10, 7:39 AM
The_Colonel_Whatwhat
3 yrs
Spot on.

Bloody shame though - I have enjoyed many a laugh in chat

Cinnamon_Tart wrote:
SteveDuk wrote:
Christ on a bike, if this shit is what admin had to put up with in the chatrooms I'm not surprised they've shut.

My sentiments exactly! When opinions were sought on this by admin a while back, my take was that it's simply a cost benefit analysis. I reckon the cost, to admin, of dealing with it, simply outweighed the overall value of it to IC.

Simple really.

I came, I saw, I concurred

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