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Have you told your friends about your kink (94)

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2 Dec 10, 5:45 PM
Slave_Rob_35
UK(RH), 2 yrs


Schrodingers_sub wrote:
My best friend knows

a select few of my other friends know

Others I do not tell, mostly out of discretion and in respectful deference to their sensibilities.

Like Shrodingers sub says my best friend knows, and it turned out she enjoys being a Domme.

I suspect a couple of friends might suspect but I have the simple view of I'm not hiding it from you but do you really need to know. The last thing I want to do is make someone feel uncomfortable so therefore I have my friends I have met through the scene who I will talk freely to, however as I have enough vanilla interests I can talk to my other friends on those matters. Having said that I do sometimes wonder if I will bump into any of my vanilla friends at an event/munch.

2 Dec 10, 6:07 PM
littlemisssubby
UK(RG), 3 yrs
everybody knows :) I am rubbish at keeping things to myself. I am a very lucky girl though because with my friends like the same kind of thing too or they don't care what I do as long as It make me happy :)

the only people who don't know is my family and that's because I've never seen it as necessary> i mean I don't want to know what there in to so why would i tell them what im in to eugh. hehe

2 Dec 10, 6:15 PM
res4sub
7 yrs
I've told some friends, but others are still not in the know and probably never will be. It's not worth risking the friendship for me.

Parents wise, my mum is fully aware and fine with it, even asking for some advice sometimes(arkward conversations!) But that's about it family wise, and will hopefully be kept that way!

R xx

'Would it be a bad thing if I just strangled you with these right now?'
'As long as you look at me, whilst youre strangling me, I'd be fine with that!'

2 Dec 10, 7:39 PM
Neo_Victorian
UK(OX), 2 yrs

My flat-mate knows after I had "that little chat" with him explaining what happens when I bring girls back to the place.

As for family, I'm pretty sure that my sisters know given that they both independantly bought me copies of Secretary on DVD for my birthday!

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