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| 13 Dec 10, 4:05 PM ButterflyInChains UK(OX), 19 mths  |
I'd lend you my map, but it's lead me to consider maybe there is a form of alien encryption in the posts that I can't understand :/ Don't make some-one a priority if they only make you an option | ||
| 13 Dec 10, 4:08 PM Aleeee 17 mths |
Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like? | ||
| 13 Dec 10, 4:14 PM nicad2 UK(PO), 5 yrs  |
I am not about to reveal what happened, and I said earlier that I was not certain that the event I was told about was the one Sarah was alluding to. If it was the incident I am thinking of, then because of the type of harm, those who stood and watched should have at least commented and questioned it, even if they were not aware of the sub's disability. Sarah had a valid point to make. Some may criticise her writing style, I myself am dyslexic, though I try to make sure it doesn't show. The smelling pistakes tend to give it away. I also disagree with the poster who thinks it is OK to break bones etc. Perhaps they would also have approved of the German canibal murder where the victim consented to being killed and eaten. There comes a point where "sane" is an issue. I don't slavishly support acronyms like "SSC and "RACK". Common sense, care, experience, and good judgement are important when playing. Know your sub. And if you don't know them well and still want to play, be very careful. Oh and one other little word comes into play: Responsibility. "Am I my brother's keeper?" Well, actually, yes you bloody well are! We all have a duty of care! --
David | ||
| 13 Dec 10, 4:30 PM TeRRor_TwiN UK(DL), 20 mths |
Firstly
WTF??? Secondly, this thread, or at least its origin is so flippin' vague that Bletchley Park would have had some overtime slips bounced around trying to crack it. As I understand it, sub goes to club, sub meets inexperienced Dom and he gets mental on their ass, people in club watch and laugh/point/comment/join in - still vague - and do not stop what is lattery perceived as abuse. I sympathise with the 'victim' if they were abused by an inexperienced 'dom' who took advantage of them while everyone else in the club stood by and laughed, but I'm struggling with the belief that this would actually happen. I know that those who are privy to the details are reluctant to divulge, but what is the point of starting a thread which points to an incident if you're only willing to share the minimum of information. If it was abuse, report it to the police and stop playing Give Us A Clue on here. Heaven won't have me & Hell's afraid I'll take over. Edited 13 Dec 10, 4:32 PM by TeRRor_TwiN | ||
| 13 Dec 10, 4:39 PM presprout UK(NG), 4 yrs |
Disappointing. I thought this might be a nice titillating thesis on the merits of abuse. Instead it seems to be weird and boring. What a let down. | ||
| 14 Dec 10, 8:34 AM Beau_Tox UK(CB), 7 yrs  |
I'm struggling to understand what the posters who DO have more knowledge are afraid of. Are the organisers of the club that it happened in members of The Edlar, who rule the world of BDSM with an iron spanking hand in a velvet glove? . | ||
| 14 Dec 10, 10:09 AM ButterflyInChains UK(OX), 19 mths |
It's the aliens, I'm sure of it. Don't make some-one a priority if they only make you an option |
