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| 21 Nov 10, 11:13 PM Lady_Lancashire 23 mths £ |
And one often in my own mind. I would be interested to hear if people have been affected badly by humiliation play that they initially wanted. You can see what you're doing with a knife during edge play but mind games can be equally hazardous. The Red Rose Whispers Of Passion (J o'B R) | |||
| 21 Nov 10, 11:15 PM Masters_Delight UK(WD), 5 yrs   |
Edited to delete a space.x I'm so fucking fabulous, i piss glitter. Edited 21 Nov 10, 11:16 PM by Masters_Delight | |||
| 21 Nov 10, 11:17 PM tazallie UK, 2 yrs |
I think as in all walks of life some will have low self esteem and some won't. I myself have a very healthy self image, there are of course things I would change about me but they are part of me and I can live with them. Being submissive has nothing to do with my self esteem, in fact I didn't come to BDSM until I really knew myself and really liked myself, it was in fact what allowed me to explore this side of myself. As to humiliation etc, they are just words and actions that turn me on. And afterwards when he holds me in his arms then I know the truth. Im sure there are some with low self image that use their submissive side to bolster ithemselvrs or to confirm their low opinions but I'm not one of them. Tazallie | |||
| 21 Nov 10, 11:29 PM Masters_Delight UK(WD), 5 yrs |
I agree.THIS is a stupid thread. I'm so fucking fabulous, i piss glitter. | |||
| 22 Nov 10, 12:06 AM Pegasusliz UK(E), 3 yrs |
I think to be sub and let others do what they do with a negative self image it would not be possible. Subs/slaves have to be strong. By suggesting they are not could be considered insensitive and offensive. This may be why your post has not gone as you expected. | |||
| 22 Nov 10, 12:10 AM kweilo UK(SS), 6 yrs |
The very fact that I'm completely comfortable with myself, and entirely confident in my own abilities, is what draws me to submission - someday, someone might manage to actually take me down a few notches. Someday. Someone. Maybe! | |||
| 22 Nov 10, 12:21 AM ScarlettDeWinter UK(BS), 3 yrs |
'Cos it's so logical to categorise a group of people by their sexual preferences? Some women are submissive. Some women have negative self image. Therefore some submissive women have negative self image. Go figure. I'm sure you'd find just as many doms, dommes and switches that have negative self image. well behaved women rarely make history | |||
| 22 Nov 10, 12:24 AM Christina1394 UK(BS), 3 yrs |
You're shitting me, right? I'm just going to assume your account has been hacked and some idiotic troll is posting stupid questions. Please tell me I'm right? | |||
| 22 Nov 10, 3:31 AM Hiswhore 2 yrs |
i thinks it's a faulty premise.... Hiswhore. | |||
| 22 Nov 10, 7:10 AM othyim NL, 3 yrs |
What, in 9 years here, made you come to this assumption? Power is about what you can control. Freedom is about what you can unleash. (Harriet Rubin) Edited 22 Nov 10, 7:11 AM by othyim |
