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| 9 Nov 10, 8:25 PM ToakReon  UK(RH), 12 yrs   |
Yes. Toak FEMALE, BONDAGE-FRIENDLY MODEL SOUGHT. I am seeking to update my "How To" shibari bondage pictures (see my profile pics, the clothed blonde tied in red and black) with a model more "enthusiastic" about BDSM, and who is happy to be photographed nude. MEMO ME if this is you. | ||
| 9 Nov 10, 8:55 PM Empress_Martine UK(HA), 2 yrs £      |
Yes its possible and its fun. I have had submissives who enjoy this type of bdsm experience. So yes it can happen. http://empressm7.uboot.com/ pro tv dom and switch. Domestic and outdoor specialist. "Beyond the government,above the police ." Edited 9 Nov 10, 8:57 PM by Empress_Martine | ||
| 11 Nov 10, 9:38 PM PhoenixAmber UK(YO), 4 yrs |
It is absolutely possible and I have never had a problem with those who I play with expecting more than is on offer. The key in my eyes is being clear about what it is that's on offer and where the lines are at the start and then nothing is misunderstood and people who get involved with you have a free and informed choice that they make. My play has never included full sexual contact and all parties are clear on where those lines are, they may change or may not over the course of time but everyone knows that they do not change without discussion and agreement. The other good thing about being clear about lines and expectations is it helps to navigate the inevitable emotional storms that come along. Even the strongest person has insecure moments and clear lines bring a level of security within that. Edited to add: If you are just starting out it would be a good idea to work out these lines with your other half before involving another. Be honest with yourself and each other about how you feel and what you want.
"Ha ! I laugh at danger and drop ice cubes down the vest of fear." Edited 11 Nov 10, 9:42 PM by PhoenixAmber | ||
| 11 Nov 10, 10:03 PM dangerousdonkey 2 yrs |
Absolutely you can get fulfilment in BDSM without full sexual contact. For a variety of reason my dom and i refrained from any sexual contact for the first six months and oy was it intense. Alot of Ds is about intensity and by restricting sexual contact you up the anti. Very fulfilling | ||
| 11 Nov 10, 10:41 PM MoonlightShadow BE, 6 yrs |
Yes, and that's how it often is, too.
Assuming you'd be at the receiving end, I'd say life is rarely without risks.
Let's put it this way: if one of you ended up liking it better than the other, that will give both of you a wonderful opportunity to explore the concept of negociation, which is fundamental to BDSM, anyway.
You could try dropping the idea into a conversation, or more directly dropping the object within sight and reach and see what happens... Whatever you do, good luck, and have lots of fun! | ||
| 11 Nov 10, 11:30 PM gsyman UK(GY), 9 yrs |
great advice everyone, many thanks wish i had found (sorry used) this site a long time ago. |
