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Emotion felt during physical beatings?? (30)

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6 Nov 10, 11:37 AM
Violently
UK(B), 12 yrs

LudiquePetiteChose wrote:
Emotion felt during physical beatings??

I decided to ask this question after considering the personal emotions that occurred during a beating.

I am aware that nothing is right or wrong, and I couldn't agree more, although I would like to know what is common.

I find that sometimes, when being being, I might emotionally shut down, stop reacting to the pain, sometimes, I might feel anger. Sometimes I find it fun and I feel incredible during it.

Is this 'normal'? And if I may, what do you usually feel?

Hurt me and I'll hurt you back...

I'll put my hands in the way , block you from your forward assault - till you take my hands away.

Now I'll scream stop... till I can't do that too

Definitely the angry! The " Why won't you stop.. I hate this... it hurts...." The " ARGHS" sobbing pleading

Maybe its the " I have no where else to go" that turns that physical world of " ouch" into an internal world of " oh my god what the.." becomes.... "Please stop...." becomes... " please don't stop...."

Maybe what you feel is only relevant as it changes from moment to moment Maybe it's responsive Maybe it's an equation of 1+1 =?

-- A Kervert Pinky

6 Nov 10, 11:43 AM
azen_dereze
UK(NR), 20 mths

Cripes! Maybe I'm not as odd as I first thought!!

6 Nov 10, 11:51 AM
gurlcuffed
UK(B), 3 yrs

depends with me..... when a female beats me i feel like i have no control.... that i should just take the beating and feel every inch of the pain given... now on the other hand when a male does it its like a switch go on ! and i want to fight back more verbally then anything but i become cocky and cheecky wanting more to show them the attitude you'll tier before i do....

odd ball i am!

6 Nov 10, 11:58 AM
Godwin
UK, 8 yrs

I'm generally thinking, "feck, how am I going to cope with this bitch".

God's gift - but don't expect it instantly.

6 Nov 10, 12:10 PM
Shypeachybottom
UK, 20 mths

TheSilverFox wrote:

LudiquePetiteChose wrote:

TheSilverFox wrote:

LudiquePetiteChose wrote:
Emotion felt during physical beatings??

I decided to ask this question after considering the personal emotions that occurred during a beating.

I am aware that nothing is right or wrong, and I couldn't agree more, although I would like to know what is common.

I find that sometimes, when being being, I might emotionally shut down, stop reacting to the pain, sometimes, I might feel anger. Sometimes I find it fun and I feel incredible during it.

Is this 'normal'? And if I may, what do you usually feel?

I think what you are feeling is totally the norm... In that it is unique to you and the situation... Every time will be different... All that really matters... Is do you enjoy it and want more? What is your own personal experience is what really counts...

I do still want more. This is why I found such a reaction, odd..It is almost paradoxical.

Then it is about finding that person who creates that aura, that tension for you that allows you to release and let go... With whom you feel safe enough to let all your emotions ago... And then... Enjoy....

^^^ this - agree with. that is the ideal!

6 Nov 10, 12:22 PM
condemned
UK(M), 11 yrs

I feel a myriad of emotions.Just prior to it beginning there is fear.Anyone who has beaten me knows i try to hide and control this by chattering on quite a lot[more than i normally do which is saying something,lol!]

I always feel fear and trepidation at what is to come no matter how many times i have been punished.The fear never leaves me.

As it begins there is a sort of disbelief that it is happening again,that something i fear so much is in progress.I then try to take it as stoically as i can,my way of taking some form of control back i guess.

As it continues my emotions are all over the place,many thoughts and feelings at the same time.There is a sort of 'Bitch!' under my breath as she hits me, at the same instant admiring her power and accuracy.I respect her and i am grateful she is taking the time and effort to punish me,while cursing her for doing so,if that makes sense?

I sometimes reach a state where i am lost under her power,her control,a good hiding/leathering is what has been ordered and she is doing her utmost to deliver it.I admire her fortitude to continue,even when i am showing signs of distress,pain and anguish.At some point during the beating i reach a sort of acceptance.I stop fighting it,stop trying to be stoic and i guess i am 'beaten into submission.'

Afterwards i feel proud of facing my fears and taking it,cleansed,euphoric almost,coupled with extreme gratitude to the person for administering it.

Corporal punishment and it's application has always fascinated me and never ceases to do so.

6 Nov 10, 12:28 PM
LudiquePetiteChose
UK(SN), 2 yrs

condemned wrote:

Afterwards i feel proud of facing my fears and taking it,cleansed,euphoric almost,coupled with extreme gratitude to the person for administering it.

This also rings a bell, somewhat.

Ludique Petite Chose x

6 Nov 10, 2:30 PM
Empress_Martine
UK(HA), 2 yrs
£

LudiquePetiteChose wrote:
Emotion felt during physical beatings??

I decided to ask this question after considering the personal emotions that occurred during a beating.

I am aware that nothing is right or wrong, and I couldn't agree more, although I would like to know what is common.

I find that sometimes, when being being, I might emotionally shut down, stop reacting to the pain, sometimes, I might feel anger. Sometimes I find it fun and I feel incredible during it.

Is this 'normal'? And if I may, what do you usually feel?

Its always a mix of emotions etc and there is a normal. Just learn to taste each moment and you find you can not live without your daily dose of pain. You get used to it. There is no normal.

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6 Nov 10, 5:16 PM
Arbuthnot
UK(E), 7 yrs

This is a very valuable thread for those of us who do the beating, especially any like me who're a bit out of practice and might have let a few things slip from the front of our minds. Also, I'm sure, to those who aspire to do so.

Thank you for starting it, LPC. I will read it again and look out for further contributions.

Meantime, I respond very much to this.

TheSilverFox wrote:
Then it is about finding that person who creates that aura, that tension for you that allows you to release and let go... With whom you feel safe enough to let all your emotions ago... And then... Enjoy....

6 Nov 10, 5:30 PM
Empress_Martine
UK(HA), 2 yrs
£

Arbuthnot wrote:
This is a very valuable thread for those of us who do the beating, especially any like me who're a bit out of practice and might have let a few things slip from the front of our minds. Also, I'm sure, to those who aspire to do so.

Thank you for starting it, LPC. I will read it again and look out for further contributions.

Meantime, I respond very much to this.

Well put, both of you. A truism.

http://empressm7.uboot.com/ pro tv dom and switch. Domestic and outdoor specialist. "Beyond the government,above the police ."

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