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| Fri 5 Nov 10, 6:06 PM male2shemaid UK(SA), 4 yrs   |
I have been browsing the vanilla dating sites and noticed several Femdoms from here, in my part of the World, have vanilla profiles on Plentyoffish. Digging around a bit I found a few have similar profiles on some of the other dating sites such as match.com, datingdirect.com, etc. This made me curious - I bore easily. So I went back on plentyoffish and widened my UK geographical search area and found even more Femdoms from on here who have vanilla profiles over on there. This is not a criticism - I imagine that there are plenty of males and females on here, of all BDSM interests, who have vanilla profiles on vanilla dating sites - but more a question of sorts. I regularly read posts on here from Femdoms claiming they are unable to find the sub they desire - some usually talk about the timewasters, the wannabes, etc, etc, who they claim are here - for any kind of relationship let alone a long-term one. But if you believe you are a Femdom, and have a profile on here stating how important being a Femdom is to you, why post a vanilla worded profile on a vanilla dating site? Or is having a Femdom profile on here just a bit of fun and amusement until you find your vanilla partner for life on one of the vanilla dating sites? Edit: (I myself have a carefully BDSM worded profile on Plentyoffish.). Edited Fri 5 Nov 10, 6:07 PM by male2shemaid | |
| 5 Nov 10, 6:09 PM Turbo_man UK(SE), 22 mths |
That's interesting, I hadn't noticed any on there, but then I guess I wasn't specifically looking. | |
| 5 Nov 10, 6:15 PM Heroine_London UK(E), 2 yrs |
I don't know for sure but perhaps there is the hope of finding a "normal" man with similar interests outside of BDSM and getting him interested in BDSM. Which, frankly, is not very hard if you are into a bit of handcuffing and teasing. 24/7 cuckolding may take some more convincing.
And well there is something special about the look on a guys face when you fuck his ass for the very first time. I know this sounds terrible. But yes, we're evil | |
| 5 Nov 10, 6:17 PM Turbo_man UK(SE), 22 mths |
Doesn't sound evil at all, sounds like a lot of fun, something else I really need to try 
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| 5 Nov 10, 6:17 PM Mimi_69 UK(M), 4 yrs |
I really dont like the word FemDom. makes me think of some sort of feminine hygiene product. | |
| 5 Nov 10, 6:18 PM Ianneil UK(N), 5 yrs |
Struth male2shemaid you must have as much free time as me! I have a profile on PoF.....just a straight cut n paste of what's on here......my rational is if I get any positive response I am far more lightly to get what I want being they know exactly what I want. That is the theory anyway. At this time I cannot backup this thesis with empirical evidence............bugger! | |
| 5 Nov 10, 6:47 PM male2shemaid UK(SA), 4 yrs |
Good theory IMPO. | |
| 5 Nov 10, 7:06 PM MissyG UK(MK), 8 yrs  |
I'm on vanilla sites, I prefer vanilla men  -:|:- London Munch -:|:- LondonAlternativeMarket -:|:- | |
| 5 Nov 10, 7:08 PM Turbo_man UK(SE), 22 mths |
Is that because you enjoy the process of conversion? | |
| 5 Nov 10, 7:09 PM transtara UK(OX), 8 yrs |
I have had a vanilla profile on fish and a few other places, not been there for a year or more and my reasons are simple, like my profile here says I only spend a small part of my life as a tranny. That said I hardly ever visit regular sites and the past 4 months or so this is the only alternative site I have an active profile on. Thinking bout it I can be found on face book but only as the male me as I have family including a 10 year old who get to see my site there at times.
Some of my Bowie friends tag me as a tranny in their pictures from various bowie meet up's, I have to untag myself then tell them the reason. I will tell my daughter when I need to or she asks, which is still way off time wise 'Open up your heart to me I would be your slave' Lyric's without the permission of David Robert Jones | |
| 5 Nov 10, 7:11 PM Empress_Martine UK(HA), 2 yrs £      |
I know this for sometime via a male friend of mine.It is plain wrong and the height of bad manners. http://empressm7.uboot.com/ pro tv dom and switch. Domestic and outdoor specialist. "Beyond the government,above the police ." |
