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| Fri 5 Nov 10, 5:58 PM MistressCordelia UK, 7 yrs £  |
I'm a Switch, and the more I am playing , whether professionally or with friends who play, I find a bigger need to balance it out with a sub session. How say the Switches in the Pro Group? Ask and you shall receive. Then don't complain to me --- you asked | |||
| 5 Nov 10, 7:57 PM Tara_Red UK(B), 5 yrs £  |
Although I switch, I only switch professionally and I much prefer to be sub than switch but I do get what you're saying. If I'm in a switch session I can't wait to get back over the guy's knee but it is fun doling it out for a while and I love taking bits of what I've learnt, seen and picked up from various dommes/doms and trying them out and mixing them into sessions with my own tricks. I find I do get quite a few 'do-me' subs booking me as a domme who like to top from the bottom, they know if they go to a 'proper' domme they can't do that so book a switch so they can try and manipulate the session into exactly how they want it and even get quite petulant if I try and mix in my own ideas the bad boys! So it's quite nice especially after those type to just be thrown back over someone's knee and revert back into my sub head space. Switches are handy as you can take on more work for less pain though which means I can see more clients in a week and some of them are really fun, but I am totally sub at heart. I rarely dom outside of work, have been known to grab a guy at a club a few times in the past if I feel like playing, swapped a head massage for beating Reindeer Roy once which was nice and I like domming girlies and playing with couples in clubs for something different. Pro submissive & switch with great dungeon & LOTS of toys! Edited 5 Nov 10, 7:58 PM by Tara_Red | |||
| 10 Nov 10, 11:10 PM Lady_Lancashire 23 mths £ |
Yes, when House Domming a lot I did feel that my own needs were getting missed out! Not so much with working as it's a longer and more involved session and my sadistic side and love of roleplay and control has come more to the fore. The Red Rose Whispers Of Passion (J o'B R) | |||
| 11 Nov 10, 12:12 AM Primal_Instinct UK, 20 mths |
Makes perfect sense in my opinion. Yin and Yang so to speak or as Carl Young would say you need to explore all aspects of the totality of your being to be at one with yourself. If anything switching is creative, intelligent and mind blowing fun to change roles | |||
| 15 Nov 10, 12:33 AM cough_cough UK(W), 4 yrs £ |
I am a switch, but this is not common knowledge with the visitors to my chamber..... they would start getting ideas! I NEVER switch then.
As it is, I try to incorporate balance into my life...... sometimes I am successful, sometimes unsuccessful...... I mentioned to someone on here that I had just finished baking a lemon drizzle cake. He seemed surprised. Couldn't imagine me other than standing around in thigh high leather boots and a whip in my hand, barking orders. Baking is therapeutic I say....... creative, rewarding, relaxing and balancing.....LOL "It's not what people say, but what they DO that counts" | |||
| 15 Nov 10, 3:28 AM Oralsaxpert30 UK(TF), 5 yrs |
Did you save me a piece please? lol! ORALSERVITUDE RULES OK! | |||
| 22 Nov 10, 10:49 PM NightFox UK(CV), 3 yrs |
And eating the result is fattening........... |
Keeps the spark alive!! 