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| Sun 24 Oct 10, 7:44 PM slaveboyant UK(CA), 5 yrs   |
Evening,
My significant other has until now remained Vanilla but has expressed to want to know about Cock & Ball Torture and use it on me Now we or should I say she want to know where she can gather information on this online, to teach and guide her in the ways of CBT. Any help will be great Thanks from a rather happy Sub.
Regards Ant Edited Sun 24 Oct 10, 7:45 PM by slaveboyant | |
| 24 Oct 10, 7:48 PM frederick_hende 20 mths |
Theres a book called 'The Family Jewels' which is on this subject, might be good to give her? | |
| 24 Oct 10, 7:51 PM Ama_Sidero UK(GU), 7 yrs       |
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Another successful convert. "you want pain? I'll give you f*&^ing pain..." There are couple ok books on Amazon called "Family Jewels". If you want something immediate, let her tie a thinnish rope around your cock & balls, then wind it up your cock very tight as many times around as possible. Then she steps back about 3 paces and gives it a mighty pull! Your cock whirs around at the speed of light like a pinwheel and she can watch while you frantically check to see if she has ripped it off.
Life is not measured by the breaths we take. but by the moments that take our breath. | |
| 24 Oct 10, 7:53 PM Helen_Back UK(MK), 4 yrs |
there are a many a group on fetlife, if she can be bothered searching through for the interesting bits.
Or just offer yourself as a crash test subby and let her see the reaction to this and that Edited 24 Oct 10, 7:55 PM by Helen_Back | |
| 24 Oct 10, 8:33 PM dominamajor UK(G), 21 mths |
I would echo what frayed knot has said and just (safely) dive in! There are so many things you can try and some may obviously appeal more than others. Ice and candle wax, caning/flogging, binding, kicking/stamping, weights, humbling are all things I've enjoyed trying before. As long as you keep in mind the relative sensitivity and the dangers of the area then you'll be fine :D | |
| 24 Oct 10, 8:50 PM MissKimberley_1 NL, 2 yrs £ |
She should be fairly well acquainted with your bits, I would suggest to just offer your balls and see what happens. Really CBT isn't very difficult to learn nor is there some big secret way of initiation.
Allow her some creativity and you will be squirming in no time. Googling for videos also helps Next UK visit 25-29 November, will be attending Pedestal. | |
| 24 Oct 10, 9:03 PM Twistee UK(BA), 3 yrs  |
It's always good to start off by reading up on the potential dangers at the very least, but there's no substitute for hands-on experience. Echoing what frayed-knot says, it's best to start small and work up to the heavier play. Nails and teeth, ice, wax and even pinwheels can be a good place to start, not to mention the occasional open-handed slap to the balls. Communication is the key. Let her know what worked for you, and what you found to be more challenging to take. Find out what she enjoyed, and where she wants to everntually take you. Over time I'm sure you'll find that she'll get a feel for where your limits lie, and develop an instinct for knowing which ones to push. ~Twistee~ Everything is better with a twist | |
| 24 Oct 10, 9:30 PM Empress_Martine UK(HA), 2 yrs £      |
For more information, go to http://greenerypress.com and look for Family Jewels:A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment by Hardy Haberman.That should give her the knowledge to do the right way.  http://empressm7.uboot.com/ "Beyond the government,above the police ." Edited 24 Oct 10, 9:35 PM by Empress_Martine | |
| 24 Oct 10, 9:37 PM Ama_Sidero UK(GU), 7 yrs |
In all seriousness, there are some ladies here with real expertise in the area. One of them posted quite a large amount of information some time ago with links, which unfortunately I saved on my old pc. (just remembering the rope one, lol) Hopefully they will pop along again and see your enquiry and repost the info - it was well worth the read. Life is not measured by the breaths we take. but by the moments that take our breath. | |
| 24 Oct 10, 9:47 PM LittleMissKink 22 mths |
Aw. I'm kind of prodding around this area. I'd call myself a tourist at best in the kink world. Stand out like a sore thumb but I'll give it a shot  How does the rope whirling go? I'm trying to understand whether it means it's like a yo-yo or whether you may end up squeezing and cutting off blood supply. | |
| 24 Oct 10, 9:54 PM Ama_Sidero UK(GU), 7 yrs |
No...because you don't leave it on that long. Just tie it around the base & balls so it is firm and cant come off, then lovingly wrap it slowly around - carefully - they will like it coz it makes their bits longer and very firm since it is tightly together - there is a lovely little packaged dick looking at them which they admire with just the head stickiing out....let them admire it for just a a little bit... while you back up enough....then pull! Because you are standing directly in front of them, the rope comes off of the top, in a straight line but moves the cock around around as it unwinds. One obviously doesnt try to pull it off. LOL And the rope is of a length that you have to stay close enough to pull that you couldnt pull it off anyway ETA: I just have to throw in the phrasing like "pull it off" because I can visualise the cringing, watering eyes and crossing of the legs just reading it. *laughing* . Life is not measured by the breaths we take. but by the moments that take our breath. Edited 24 Oct 10, 9:58 PM by Ama_Sidero |
