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| 20 Oct 10, 6:52 PM Tudor_Rose UK(CF), 2 yrs |
Fools rush in, where angels fear to tread. | ||
| 20 Oct 10, 7:59 PM angellover UK(CM), 3 yrs |
How can one set up a singles munch when they don't even attend their local munch.... Don't sound right to me some how.... unless there could be an ulterior motive.
The highest fences we have to climb, are those we have built within our mind Edited 20 Oct 10, 8:07 PM by angellover | ||
| 20 Oct 10, 8:20 PM Avada_Kedavra UK, 7 yrs |
I don't attend the London Munch, but helped set up the West London Munch. Does this make me odd? M: Its only a baby needle, you wont know the difference. I am not a one dimensional needle obssessed domme... | ||
| 20 Oct 10, 8:38 PM Tudor_Rose UK(CF), 2 yrs |
Fools rush in, where angels fear to tread. | ||
| 20 Oct 10, 10:25 PM angellover UK(CM), 3 yrs |
As you Clio, always slag off the Cardiff munch BIG time in the chat room, moaning on how you have been banned because folk don't like you or that no-one talks to you often when you have attended. I wouldn't dream of ulterior motives. If you don't slag your local munch off, I wouldn't think as I do...
The highest fences we have to climb, are those we have built within our mind Edited 20 Oct 10, 10:26 PM by angellover | ||
| 20 Oct 10, 11:59 PM Suitably_Twisted UK(S), 2 yrs |
And when their not singing they are shouting..oh hang on.. no I'm wrong, they consider that talking.
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| 21 Oct 10, 9:01 PM Tudor_Rose UK(CF), 2 yrs |
LOOK this is a genuine post not a fake one OK... Fools rush in, where angels fear to tread. | ||
| 22 Oct 10, 4:10 PM UK_Lonewolf 5 yrs |
Whilst it may not be a singles munch, I am sure you are already aware of the Cardiff Munch. Personally, I'd assume this is a good a place/ munch as any to meet up and get to know each other.
I would assume that a non-singles munch would actually work better since, presumably, some of the females that attended a singles munch might feel uncomfortable at the though of being oogles or what have you and I know from personal experience that there is always some sort of stigma or misconception around single males attending such events - something I faced (all be it, rarely) whilst starting out and something I still experience even now, despite not being single I think the idea in itself is a good one in theory, don't get me wrong, but there would always be attendees who might cause contension (whether because of certain stigmas or because some people behave in a way that re-enforces the stigma).
Anyway, just trying to provide some constructive criticism. I'm sure you've already considered some of these things and in any case, I wish you the best of luck with it | ||
| 24 Oct 10, 2:51 PM SadistSid UK(CF), 2 yrs |
I like the idea of a munch for all singles, though I personally would feel uncomfortable going to an all singles venue. This will probably sound weird, I dislike going to places where I feel everyone is there just there to find a partner, it makes me feel like everyone is then diving into a singles dating service. | ||
| 5 Feb 11, 4:07 PM Tudor_Rose UK(CF), 2 yrs |
well I've set up a group on fet life under kinky south wales singles so if any one else wants to join it .. its there now on line Fools rush in, where angels fear to tread. |