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Sexual Objectification (70)

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18 Oct 10, 9:59 PM
Heaven_Sent
UK(NW), 4 yrs

I'm hugely into objectification and being nothing more than his fuckmeat. I'm a huge hood lover and these are excellent for making me feel like an anonymous object. I seriously want one of these: http://liqlaq.com/items/catsuits~jumpsuits/catsu...

SimonO do very similar, but with latex sheaths for the cunt, arse and mouth. This is my dream 'fuckpiece' transformation.

BadWulf wrote:
Any others got views on the cuckolding aspect? Thus making the objectification mental as well as physical.

For me this ramps up the trust aspect dramatically and thus the intensity.

- Wulfy

We've briefly done the female cuckolding during a scene (Mff) where I was restrained and 'forced' to watch him lick her. It drove me mad (and extremely wet)

We will hopefully soon do a full cuckolding scene where I will be bound and forced to watch whilst he fucks another girl, no doubt for hours, whilst I am helpless (I won't even be able to wank!!)

18 Oct 10, 10:02 PM
poutanaki
UK(M), 10 yrs

pinkylucy wrote:

chastityslaveFE wrote:

poutanaki wrote:

I also adore the idea of being talked about as if not there...

I totally get this! I often have fantasies where I am restrained and my Owner is showing me off to some unknown third party, commenting on my body, inviting him to touch or penetrate me with his fingers, explaining the best way to use me or hurt me, explaining to him how I am never allowed to orgasm, completely without any interaction from me, like I am a horse that is being sold, lol. How funny that there is such overlap of fantasies all springing from the same root. This is such a revelation for me!

chastity xxx

Oooh ooh yes! This too! I'm getting excited about these overlaps now too!

I only realised quite recently that one of my favourite wank fantasies is about my Dominant talking to somebody who has come to do an interview about how submissives are treated and used. As she does things to my body she talks casually about how I might not be allowed to come, or how she might force me to orgasm quickly and the reasons why she did these things, and then the interviewer would ask for a demonstration.

I think this came from a documentary I saw years ago about a high class American Pro-Domme house where one of the Mistresses had a personal female slave. Her Mistress was interviewed while the slave girl was tied up and being beaten and toyed with but otherwise ignored. I also had a Mistress who was a pro-Domme for a couple of years and if a client came in while we were playing I would simply be sent to the cage in the corner and shut in while she dealt with the client. It made me feel simultaneously rejected and cherished. I was ignored for the most part, but I also knew I was hers and still would be after the paying client had gone home.

In the past I have adored kneeling at my Mistress's feet while she talks about me to other people almost as if I'm not there. If the words were positive it felt like a beautiful kind of D/s affection. If they were negative I got to drown in isolated shame (which I'd go for over the other if I had to choose )

Lovely stuff.

See, you should be able to bookmark threads like this one! tut...

Lots of interesting ideas!

Your so pretty when your on your knees. Disinfected, eager to please.

18 Oct 10, 10:06 PM
poutanaki
UK(M), 10 yrs

Londonista wrote:
Definite turn-on, the first kinky thoughts I can pinpoint having involved some level of incapacity. Being molested in my sleep, for ex. Or when drugged (yet mentally mobile (ish)). Much as I would imagine Rohypnol to be. Although that's gone down the toilet along with the Choloform idea - being way too much of a hypochondriac and deathwish not yet being highly evolved. Still great to read the different ways in which people are achieving similar head-spaces.

Great post Chastity.

I am also interested in the whole genre of sleeping/drugging and molestation.

Your so pretty when your on your knees. Disinfected, eager to please.

18 Oct 10, 10:07 PM
Top_Class
UK(GU), 2 yrs

Archived - original available on request.

"Fork handles?" "No, not 'fork handles' ... four candles."

Edited 12 Dec 10, 1:46 AM by Top_Class

18 Oct 10, 10:08 PM
LudiquePetiteChose
UK(SN), 2 yrs

Heaven_Sent wrote:
I'm hugely into objectification and being nothing more than his fuckmeat. I'm a huge hood lover and these are excellent for making me feel like an anonymous object. I seriously want one of these: http://liqlaq.com/items/catsuits~jumpsuits/catsu...

That is absolutely gorgeous.

Ludique Petite Chose x

18 Oct 10, 10:08 PM
poutanaki
UK(M), 10 yrs

SimonO do very similar, but with latex sheaths for the cunt, arse and mouth. This is my dream 'fuckpiece' transformation.

Have seen that before, it is indeed uber hot! Though one with sheaths would be even better

Your so pretty when your on your knees. Disinfected, eager to please.

18 Oct 10, 10:18 PM
chastityslaveFE
2 yrs

Top_Class wrote:
I've thought long and hard about 'sexual objectification' and whether or not it's an oxymoron.

BDSM 'objectification' is arousal when people become objects and 'sexual objectification' is arousal when people become the sort of sexual objects people have sex with; i.e. 'people'.

So, yes, to me 'sexual objectification' is an oxymoron ... that is I myself have never lost the idea of people being anything other than sexual objects. I have a parity of concept ... fucking people; that's what people are for. But I can see why in the modern age, where men aren't meant to be thought of as sex objects at all, the need arises for permission to think like that; even in the world of kink. If you're mired in political correctness then 'sexual objectification' is the antidote for touchy-feely, metrosexuals who care about a person's feelings but have forgotten what you biologically really are.

I am quite sure that during sex, biologically I am meant to be a gasping, moaning, pleasure filled, orgasming person. Since I am attempting to repress all these 'natural' responses in the name of 'objectification' then I am also sure that this is not what biologically I 'really am'. Is it really only 'touchy-feely, metrosexuals who care about a person's feelings' who would be surprised if their partner lay there, not moving, not orgasming, and not making a sound? Got to be honest, this post seems more like a knee jerk reaction to the term 'sexual objectification' than any real response to the activities discussed here. If that's a complete misinterpretation on my part, then sorry, but I genuinely don't see where you're coming from.

chastity xxx

18 Oct 10, 10:19 PM
Randomizer
UK(WC), 23 mths

God, this thread has gone crazy

Good news! I'll admit, it's an idea that I find both quite hot, and vaguely worrying - I mean, something in my Western liberal democratic conscience finds the idea of objectification fundamentally quite mean, but it's undeniably hot. Although objectification is largely wrong, seeing getting the object incredibly hot and steamy despite the use and abuse would be half the fun

18 Oct 10, 10:31 PM
Cassius
UK, 3 yrs

We have all been perverted away from the natural Rousseauan state.....what might we have all been without Freud and co.? Is the contemporary "Western Liberal European" in fact a high evolutionary point,or itself a perversion, an aberration ? Are we all utterly unanchored? What is the "real" state that "we should all be" in ?

Practise senseless acts of beauty.

Edited 18 Oct 10, 10:33 PM by Cassius

18 Oct 10, 10:32 PM
rosarose
UK(SG), 3 yrs

Bad_dog_no_biscuit wrote:

If you've not already read it, the Anne Rice's 'Beauty' trilogy is well worth reading for objectification fantasies. The three books are - The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty, Beauty's Punishment and Beauty's Release. They were written under the pseudonym of A. N. Roquelaure.

These books are really great, lots of objectification and being used for someone else's pleasure.

I've never really made the connection between hoods and objectification before but now I've thought about it a bit, they are totally anonymising. The few times that I've played whilst wearing a hood have been amazing. I love (and hated) the range of emotions that it brought up for me, being used, loving it, feeling so ashamed for loving it, having my enjoyment witnessed and commented on (what a wet slut you are, that kind of thing).

In my head I love the idea of being used as someone elses sex toy but I worry that in real life I won't like it and my fear is that in real life it will bring up issues about consent (or non-consent actually) and end up feeling more like being raped than being used as a sex toy. I'd be interested to know if anyone else has had similar thoughts about this aspect?

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