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Body/Mind Limits (15)

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Thu 14 Oct 10, 10:06 PM
corvus_solitarius
UK(W), 2 yrs



I was wondering if you find sometimes when playing your body/mind will not take as much as you have taken in a previous play session?

Do you find your body gives up?

Or is it that your mind digests what is happening differently and then you think you can't take much more?

Or both?

I have found with some types of play, CP, electrical, bondage, sensory deprivation, play sessions have been lengthy and very intense, which I've endured with no problem. Then another play session I've found that within 10 minutes I feel I cannot take what is being administered to me, even though I've experienced it many times.

Is this usual? Do you get like this?

"Ladies and Gentlemen, To those among you, Who are easily frightened, We suggest you turn away now, To those of you, Who think you can take it, we say Welcome to the Mad House"

14 Oct 10, 10:12 PM
chastityslaveFE
2 yrs
It varies from scene to scene, day to day, hour to hour. Sometimes I can see the look of absolute confusion on my Dom's face when I burst into tears during play that I normally love or am moaning and writhing at play I normally hate. So many things can affect how you receive play. Hopefully, you will spot the things that really bring out your urge and ability to play and be able to replicate them, but I wouldn't worry too much about varying reactions - it's all part of the uncertainty and the fun!

chastity xxx

14 Oct 10, 10:22 PM
Painpet
UK(CB), 3 yrs
It varies for me too, sometimes I just feel more sensitive to things some days than others, I find when I am due on I can't take as much and then most times I can take more. If I get stressed I can't either. It all depends, each day is different but I guess it stops things from getting boring as I react different when I feel like that too. Regardless of how I feel he stops when he wants to stop regardless of how sensitive I may be to it, I prefer it that way though:-)
14 Oct 10, 10:29 PM
not_lost_still_lady
UK(PE), 22 mths


It changes for me too.

With my ex there were some days when I knew I could not take much at all, In the end I was to tell him when I had one of those days and he would approach it differently. Some days a gentle lead in softened me up and I was able to take more further into the session.

I was never certain but I think that I may have been picking up "bad vibes" from him in some way and it affected me. His energy levels sometimes badly dipped and it might have been that.

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Errr, what now?

14 Oct 10, 10:31 PM
doulos
UK(SW), 7 yrs
Having eaten well that day can make quite a big difference in terms of pain thresholds and limits.

"Democracy is the theory that the common people know what they want, and deserve to get it good and hard." H. L. Mencken

14 Oct 10, 10:33 PM
Mr_Worm
UK(BN), 6 yrs


Painpet wrote:
It varies for me too, sometimes I just feel more sensitive to things some days than others, I find when I am due on I can't take as much and then most times I can take more. If I get stressed I can't either. It all depends, each day is different but I guess it stops things from getting boring as I react different when I feel like that too. Regardless of how I feel he stops when he wants to stop regardless of how sensitive I may be to it, I prefer it that way though:-)

I can't empathise with the "due on" :) but when I'm feeling really tired I do sometimes feel like a piece of meat and it can trigger an almost out of body kind of experience

You want what ? You want a face like a plasterer's radio :-D

14 Oct 10, 10:35 PM
epona74
UK(SL), 7 yrs
Yep, I vary massively! Seems to depend on a whole range of things, including the temperature of the room, what else has been going on that day, whether it's something new, someONE new, what sort of frame of mind I'm in, etc.

When dealing with an old phobia, I found my pain tolerances were rubbish, because I was so tense.

When it was ridiculously hot one night, I nearly passed out at stuff that I'd enjoyed massively the week before.

When introduced to a new implement by a new person, my brain got very tired very quickly and I took very little.

Hormones can do all manner of things to me!

Basically, I'm a whole new person to play with every time! ;)

Two roads diverged in a wood and I, I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference. (R. Frost)
Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new (A. Einstein)
To be wronged is nothing unless you continue to remember it. ~Confucius

14 Oct 10, 10:42 PM
Painpet
UK(CB), 3 yrs
Yes it amazes me the different sensations I get just from the way I am feeling at the time. I agree it can be quite satisfying the feeling you get when you are tired. It's like a do whatever the hell you want with me I don't care sensation, it can be quite floaty for want of a better word lol.

jokelme wrote:
Painpet wrote:
It varies for me too, sometimes I just feel more sensitive to things some days than others, I find when I am due on I can't take as much and then most times I can take more. If I get stressed I can't either. It all depends, each day is different but I guess it stops things from getting boring as I react different when I feel like that too. Regardless of how I feel he stops when he wants to stop regardless of how sensitive I may be to it, I prefer it that way though:-)

I can't empathise with the "due on" :) but when I'm feeling really tired I do sometimes feel like a piece of meat and it can trigger an almost out of body kind of experience

14 Oct 10, 10:49 PM
Mr_Worm
UK(BN), 6 yrs


Painpet wrote:
Yes it amazes me the different sensations I get just from the way I am feeling at the time. I agree it can be quite satisfying the feeling you get when you are tired. It's like a do whatever the hell you want with me I don't care sensation, it can be quite floaty for want of a better word lol.

I don't think it counts as sluttish when you're tired, you're just being taken advantage of :)

You want what ? You want a face like a plasterer's radio :-D

14 Oct 10, 10:51 PM
Painpet
UK(CB), 3 yrs
Is it wrong of me that I oh so love being taken advantage of? Mmmmmmmm it's just yummy thinking about it;-)

jokelme wrote:
Painpet wrote:
Yes it amazes me the different sensations I get just from the way I am feeling at the time. I agree it can be quite satisfying the feeling you get when you are tired. It's like a do whatever the hell you want with me I don't care sensation, it can be quite floaty for want of a better word lol.

I don't think it counts as sluttish when you're tired, you're just being taken advantage of :)

14 Oct 10, 10:54 PM
Mr_Worm
UK(BN), 6 yrs


ssssshs stop giving away the trade secrets, it's not easy being tired and pathetic

Painpet wrote:
Is it wrong of me that I oh so love being taken advantage of? Mmmmmmmm it's just yummy thinking about it;-)

jokelme wrote:
Painpet wrote:
Yes it amazes me the different sensations I get just from the way I am feeling at the time. I agree it can be quite satisfying the feeling you get when you are tired. It's like a do whatever the hell you want with me I don't care sensation, it can be quite floaty for want of a better word lol.

I don't think it counts as sluttish when you're tired, you're just being taken advantage of :)

You want what ? You want a face like a plasterer's radio :-D

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