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| 19 Oct 10, 5:52 PM MsSlide UK(RH), 12 yrs £ |
These answers are really useful. Thanks very much. Do keep them coming. x | ||
| 19 Oct 10, 6:39 PM wonderer UK, 5 yrs |
I don't know whether or not this will be of any help, but here are some personal thoughts. I like the idea (and the occasional experience) of being forced to do things which are uncomfortable (like pain) or against my basic instincts (like chastity) or humiliating (like being called "Wanker" in public). I don't think feminisation, if that means being forced to dress or behave like a woman or girl, would have that effect on me. It would seem contrary to my aesthetic preferences and out of keeping with my previous experience. But it's not something I'd find particularly excioting or humiliating; just odd, in the same way it would seem odd to be asked to recite Hiawatha or sing Karaoke-style or wear Ethiopian national dress or to bark like a dog. Now of course things which are neither my fantasy nor my discomfort can be quite fulfilling if a Domme is getting pleasure from them. I can imagine circumstances in which being dressed as a woman and made to act in a "girlie" fashion might have a certain fulfillment if I sensed a Dominant woman was enjoying it. But I don't think it would be a big issue for me and wouldn't be "at my expense" in the same way it would be if I was being in some way pained or humiliated. Just one guy's view. And as I've never been in that situation I might be completely wrong.
Nice to see you here again by the way Ms Slide. Ubi caritas et amor, Deus ibi est. http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/226772/ Edited 19 Oct 10, 6:41 PM by wonderer | ||
| 21 Oct 10, 12:55 AM Empress_Martine UK(HA), 2 yrs £ |
An interesting twist and maybe a sperate thread could cover "forced masculinity". http://empressm7.uboot.com/ "Beyond the government,above the police ." | ||
| 21 Oct 10, 1:28 AM Carpathia 9 yrs |
Memo sent re a forced feminisation that I did for a Mistress/client session. How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. |