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| 7 Oct 10, 4:39 PM Nichty 11 yrs  |
well im sure there must be some subs out there with smelly feet fetish
thanks nichty | ||||
| 20 Oct 10, 1:03 PM littlemunchers UK(BA), 3 yrs  |
You can use my little subbie with pleasure! I love the look of terror on his face when he gets a severe beating from someone else. It gets him out of his "comfort zone"! Just drop us a line the next time you go to a club. Mistress Emily | ||||
| 20 Oct 10, 1:08 PM davey6666 UK, 4 yrs |
hi there, anyone who is looking for a male sub to play with at clubs please feel free to message me and say hi! i would much prefer to play with someone i know first. thanks dave | ||||
| 20 Oct 10, 2:16 PM MizzScarlett UK, 4 yrs |
I can barely bring myself to believe my eyes, Lady Alys. I wonder if they misheard you; was it very noisy?? | ||||
| 20 Oct 10, 2:20 PM MizzScarlett UK, 4 yrs |
This. Plus, God knows many of them need to practise social, conversational and foot massage skills. | ||||
| 20 Oct 10, 2:33 PM Lustful ES, 2 yrs |
Lady Lancashire: you must be difficult to ignore! All I ask is a tall ship and a star to steer her by. Edited 20 Oct 10, 2:35 PM by Lustful | ||||
| 20 Oct 10, 2:45 PM swhackford 3 yrs |
I sometimes go to clubs alone,and though I am a switch I always go as a sub. If I see a Domme I really like I ask politely, when she is free, if she ever plays with strangers, and if so, would she be willing to give me a good caning. If she is with a male friend I don't ignore him, as that would be rude. I sometimes say what a stylish couple they are, and try to make friendly conversation. I always try to make the approach personal, and might, for example, compliment a Domme on her clothing or play style. If I am rejected I don't take it personally, but thank them for their time and wish them good luck, and leave them alone. Talking to other subs is also a good strategy because it might lead to a friendly introduction, and as a general rule, folks like to interact with people who have social skills. To get back to the OP, a Domme using similar strategies would be inundated with willing subs, and could take her pick.
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| 21 Oct 10, 12:40 AM Butterscotch UK(RM), 3 yrs |
I love the idea of coloured wristbands to denote what you are. Will make life much easier for many people  | ||||
| 21 Oct 10, 1:04 AM SDWsdw UK(NW), 5 yrs |
I agree, this is the best way to approach someone if you have intentions of playing with them. If I want to play with someone at a club I always introduce myself first and treat them as my equal, if we click mentally and into the same things, then let the play begin. If you go to a club you have to be proactive and have some confidence to talk to people. The worst thing people will say is - No ! !
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| 21 Oct 10, 1:30 AM SDWsdw UK(NW), 5 yrs |
Your argument is flawed and you are coming across as quite arrogant. Welcome to the real world, people are allowed to say no to your request in life. There is a misconception among mistress that if they go to a club there will be subs there to be at their beck & call, whose sole purpose is to do "something useful". Lady_Alys, it has not occurred to you that the subs you approached on the night where just not interested in giving you a foot massage. It could be for a number of reasons, maybe they found you to over bearing or a tad stuck up! !. I think it is wrong of you to come to the conclusion that because someone does not want to play with you they are doing others subs a dis-favour.
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Anyway I still had my boots on so they'd not've known.
