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Male Dominants and Arrogance (96)

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23 Sep 10, 7:31 PM
Souci_X
UK(BA), 5 yrs

I have read most of the posts and I still am not convinced arrogance is always a bad thing. Overconfidence and arrogance could be interchangable, sometimes the arrogance starts as a joke and eventually becomes a belief, sometimes the arrogance is only inspired by someone elses belief in that person. There are other explainations too, I just don't see it as always being something to throw scorn on
23 Sep 10, 7:39 PM
Ianneil
UK(N), 5 yrs

Souci_X wrote:
I have read most of the posts and I still am not convinced arrogance is always a bad thing. Overconfidence and arrogance could be interchangable, sometimes the arrogance starts as a joke and eventually becomes a belief, sometimes the arrogance is only inspired by someone elses belief in that person. There are other explainations too, I just don't see it as always being something to throw scorn on

It was just the Nazis that gave arrogance a bad name.

23 Sep 10, 8:01 PM
Felixthecat*
UK(CM), 23 mths

To the OP, First i do think that there are some arrogant Doms/Dommes but not much different to any other walk of like, and this forum has a lot less that some of my hobby related web sites!!

for me the difference between arrogance and self confidence, is that the arrogant will talk loudly and at length about things they know nothing about, having so much to prove.

while self confidence it is knowing what you know and not feeling the need to shout about it, and always willing to learn and admit what you dont know :)

Stercus accidit

23 Sep 10, 8:38 PM
ClassAct2005
UK(N), 7 yrs
Confidence is great and very sexy but arrogance is when you can't really justify what you say about yourself.

I've known some very good dominant men but I wouldn't call any arrogant at all. Do we have some real examples of arrogance?

" Arrogant (Ar"ro*gant) (#), a. [F. arrogant, L. arrogans, p. pr. of arrogare. See Arrogate.]

1. Making, or having the disposition to make, exorbitant claims of rank or estimation; giving one's self an undue degree of importance; assuming; haughty; -- applied to persons. "Arrogant Winchester, that haughty prelate." Shak. 2. Containing arrogance; marked with arrogance; proceeding from undue claims or self-importance; -- applied to things; as, arrogant pretensions or behavior."

23 Sep 10, 9:00 PM
mini_velvet
UK(EH), 6 yrs
ianneil wrote:

It was just the Nazis that gave arrogance a bad name.

mmmm arrogant Nazis

23 Sep 10, 9:04 PM
thatboyspike
UK(N), 3 yrs
nymphadora_spanked wrote:
Male Dominants and Arrogance

I'm curious to know if most male doms have an element of arrogance to their personalities?

I have yet to have a male partner who have this horrible streak of arrogance, i'm wondering if i'm ever going to meet someone who has his element of their personality in check.

Massively.

And Narcissistic

23 Sep 10, 9:04 PM
Ianneil
UK(N), 5 yrs

mini_velvet wrote:
ianneil wrote:

It was just the Nazis that gave arrogance a bad name.

mmmm arrogant Nazis

Ich bin das große dominierende Vorlagenknien vor meiner arroganten Größe.

Seig Heil!

23 Sep 10, 9:04 PM
Diablos_patience
UK, 6 yrs
ClassAct2005 wrote:
Do we have some real examples of arrogance?

" Arrogant (Ar"ro*gant) (#), a. [F. arrogant, L. arrogans, p. pr. of arrogare. See Arrogate.]

1. Making, or having the disposition to make, exorbitant claims of rank or estimation; giving one's self an undue degree of importance; assuming; haughty; -- applied to persons. "Arrogant Winchester, that haughty prelate." Shak. 2. Containing arrogance; marked with arrogance; proceeding from undue claims or self-importance; -- applied to things; as, arrogant pretensions or behavior."

Take a good long look in the mirror and you will find your example!

~* Raku wa ku no tané; ku wa raku no tané. *~

23 Sep 10, 9:10 PM
HedonistSA
UK(TD), 2 yrs
Is it really arrogance when you KNOW you are a superior being?
23 Sep 10, 9:11 PM
Notasquick
UK(WC), 10 yrs

Asshole_Magnet wrote:
crimsonsky wrote:
Mea culpa. My apologies, I got the wrong looney tune. I tawt I taw a puddytwat.

I am pretty sure they are not going to respond to you now, because they Zugzwanged you with their last post.

Asshole_Magnet wrote:
Is this some sort of competition or challenge for you?

I do not think it was for them, it certainly was not for me.

Asshole_Magnet wrote:
Do you feel the need to always score points, always defend territory that wasn't being attacked in the first place, always feel as though you are on show?

I cannot see it myself.

However, they and various others, did ask reasonable questions about the relevance of your statements on this and other threads.

Unfortunately your posts do come across in exactly the way you accuse others of been.

Asshole_Magnet wrote:
This is a bloody internet forum, not the circus maximus, sometimes people just type what they are thinking and it means no more and no less than what is typed.

Yes, it is only a website (apologises to @Admin).

An individuals posts give a distinct impression of themselves and their personality. I would refer you to @Ishamel's post, but doubt you would see the apparent linkage that has been created by yourself:

http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/284496/1/...

Asshole_Magnet wrote:
I wouldn't mind so much if your attempted put downs showed the faintest glimmer of intelligence, given the vast lexicon of the English language you choose to talk like a spoilt child.

Obviously, it was an excellent parody on your username at the time, and some seemingly outlandish posts.

Asshole_Magnet wrote:
What the fuck am I? The new IC asshole magnet?

Well at least you got that bit partially right.

The phrase you are looking for is bullet magnet.

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Notasquick
http://notasquick.com/

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