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| Thu 16 Sep 10, 3:35 PM sub4u31 UK(G), 6 yrs  |
can anyone on here help me out with some info. i am wondering if anyone on here has experienced being put in a humbler and if so could they tell how painful/uncomfortable it is to be locked in one. thanks for any replys, the reason i ask is that am going to be make to wear one next week and i'm a bit nervous about it. | |
| 16 Sep 10, 8:37 PM cough_cough UK(W), 4 yrs £ |
"Be nervous, be very nervous.... "
...........Seriously, I purchased one a while ago and it is one of the most popular items of equipment in my chamber.
And as the name says....... it humbles you!"It's not what people say, but what they DO that counts" | |
| 16 Sep 10, 10:32 PM sub4u31 UK(G), 6 yrs |
will it be painful even if i stay in the kneeling position or will it hurt regardless? | |
| 16 Sep 10, 10:43 PM Powder_Hound UK(BL), 4 yrs  |
Humblers are brilliant ! Assuming your Lady doesn't do it up ridiculously tightly in the first place, they are not painful per se. However, you do have to think before you make the slightest move. Very good for focusing your attention ! Sudden moves are very very bad. Other than that it is quite a nice restraining feeling, and does keep you in a suitably humble position. Standing upright is a definite no-no. If love is blind, how come lingerie is so popular ? | |
| 17 Sep 10, 1:48 AM playhard UK(SW), 3 yrs |
hello as above not painful if you do not make sudden moves or try to stand. a hot bath before if possible will help make it easier to fit lovely piece of kit | |
| 17 Sep 10, 1:48 AM MissP UK(EN), 8 yrs |
No If you stay kneeling/crawling, it will be ok.
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| 17 Sep 10, 1:50 PM FriendlyMentor UK(SW), 23 mths |
They are very effective and certainly enforce a feeling of genuine vulnerability, but if you suffer from joint problems or bad flexibility then make sure you have a "forfeit word" - i.e. a safeword with consequences - if you need releasing from the humbler because your knees (etc) have gone (as opposed to other pain, discomfort etc which is just part of the experience lol!) ~ FM | |
| 17 Sep 10, 2:04 PM MysTeri  UK(B), 3 yrs |
They only hurt if you try to stand upright, reminding you of your humble status.... So you are forced to curve forwards in posture, otherwise it pulls on your balls. Nice piece of kit, fiddly to put on, but fun. A subbie made me a lovely one and although I don't use it often enough when I do I think I should do so more often. It won't hurt you, don't be afraid, it just pulls on your balls....!
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| 17 Sep 10, 3:27 PM Lustful ES, 2 yrs |
Shame there is not an equivalent device for the female, or maybe there is? | |
| 17 Sep 10, 3:42 PM clare 11 yrs |
String attached to labia and tied to floor Hooks perhaps? Hooks only need be little things screwed between any available gaps. | |
| 17 Sep 10, 3:53 PM locked_balls UK(B), 3 yrs |
It can be worn standing up if put on while you are stood up with balls pulled to the front. Good fun for Mistress when the humbler is the other side of the prison bars as in my profile pic. It does make one feel very vulnerable ! |
