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Trying to weazel out. (34)

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16 Sep 10, 10:17 AM
Fitznicely
UK(B), 2 yrs
WykD_Dave wrote:
lima_pink_tigress wrote:
Trying to weazel out.

Dom/mes/tops/sadists ..... does the weazely worming have the desired effect or does it become so obvious that it makes you more determined and actually encourage you to go further than you had originally planned?

Makes me laugh :)

Ditto!

Whingeing, weasling, making up excuses....it all makes the eventual denouement so much sweeter

You know they say it's always the quiet ones you have to watch? That's me.

16 Sep 10, 10:24 AM
lilybee*
UK(TN), 5 yrs

Not really. If I'm going into brat mood it's more on the lines of being cheeky to get a reaction as I like to think He prefers feisty to soulless (am probably very wrong but heyho, no change there then) not to whinge or weasel out of something. He knows my hard limits and I trust Him to never cross those lines therefore anything else, well that's just up to Him. Won't stop me making a noise but will mean I take it regardless of my possible fear.

lily
If quizzes are quizzical, what are tests?

16 Sep 10, 3:46 PM
Souci_X
UK(BA), 5 yrs

If I really don't want to do something I tell them, not weasling out for me, just some times people have imaginations far beyond mine and so at the start of the relationship I would be unable to tell them that I wasn't interested in it. There have been times that I have actually done these things and it has been fine, there have also been times that the dominant has insisted, I have hated it and the relationship has been ruined.

I am not for all the bratty rubbish, if I want some pain play I ask, the play up dynamic isn't at all my thing.

As twue as words spoken under interrogation.
Souci Selfless, After I have had a fag, Controversial X (too many middle names)

16 Sep 10, 4:21 PM
thatboyspike
UK(N), 3 yrs
Weaselling out of things is what separates us from the animals.

Except the weasel.

16 Sep 10, 7:29 PM
Painpet
UK(CB), 3 yrs
That's the thing it's so easy to talk yourself out of things. I would never back out of somethinng that was expected of me, it's going to happen regardless of my fears at the time. As you say it is all to do with head space. It's amazing what you can let yourself do when you are in the right place in your head:-)

lima_pink_tigress wrote:
Painpet wrote:
I have done yes. Only on things that really scare me or hurt a lot. It's never had the desired effect though. If it's going to happen it's going to happen, regardless of what I say, do or beg for it not to. I'd be disappointed if it ever did work too, as I know me, given an inch I'd take a mile and I don't like how that makes me feel:-)

That's really interesting because I think (in fact I know) that he'd be disappointed if it worked (and I suspect anyone else who does it would too). I suppose it's just a mixture of a natural response to something that scares you and (for him at least) the need to get in the right frame of mind i.e. I really have to do this, there really is no way out.

16 Sep 10, 7:56 PM
not_lost_still_lady
UK(PE), 22 mths


I see weasels sometimes as I drive out of my village to the main road, or on my return. They are defiant little creatures and always stop and stare at me, daring me to run them over, but disappearing into the grass at the side of the road before I get too close.

I like weasels :)

"I used to think I was serving humanity...and I pleasured in the thought. Then I discovered that humanity does not want to be served; on the contrary it resents any attempt to serve it. So now I do what pleases ?" extract from Stranger In A Strange Land by R.A. Heinlein

16 Sep 10, 8:05 PM
Godwin
UK, 8 yrs

lima_pink_tigress wrote:
Painpet wrote:
I have done yes. Only on things that really scare me or hurt a lot. It's never had the desired effect though. If it's going to happen it's going to happen, regardless of what I say, do or beg for it not to. I'd be disappointed if it ever did work too, as I know me, given an inch I'd take a mile and I don't like how that makes me feel:-)

That's really interesting because I think (in fact I know) that he'd be disappointed if it worked (and I suspect anyone else who does it would too). I suppose it's just a mixture of a natural response to something that scares you and (for him at least) the need to get in the right frame of mind i.e. I really have to do this, there really is no way out.

I heard it's your lips that maybe sealed and not the ones up above.

*Pause for thought perhaps. Great idea though OOoooooooops!

Tm Godders

God's gift - but don't expect it instantly.

16 Sep 10, 8:27 PM
littlemisssubby
UK(RG), 3 yrs
I'll wine, weasel,flirt and distract my way out of anything I can hehe

the more I can get away with the better for me.

No one's ever got me to agree to anything though maybe if I agreed to it I'd be more likely too. or If I think it's actually going to happen I'd rather sooner then later and yes I'll be extra nice jut to try and get out of it or make him go easy on me :)

16 Sep 10, 8:29 PM
Adorabelle
UK(PR), 2 yrs
lima_pink_tigress wrote:
Trying to weazel out.

So, is it common for subs/bottoms/maso's to try to weazel out/get a reprieve/get their other half to go easy on them when there's a scene planned that they're not particularly keen on (when I say not keen, I mean pissing their pants about :-D)?

Do you try to be extra nice in the hope that they'll feel sorry for you and go easy?

Dom/mes/tops/sadists ..... does the weazely worming have the desired effect or does it become so obvious that it makes you more determined and actually encourage you to go further than you had originally planned?

Currently trying to persuade Dom to not go quite so far as he'd like to tomorrow in the hope of preserving my pretty face for a photoshoot on Monday.

Current status: Getting nowhere.

16 Sep 10, 10:02 PM
OllieVW
3 yrs
Adorable_Alice wrote:
lima_pink_tigress wrote:
Trying to weazel out.

So, is it common for subs/bottoms/maso's to try to weazel out/get a reprieve/get their other half to go easy on them when there's a scene planned that they're not particularly keen on (when I say not keen, I mean pissing their pants about :-D)?

Do you try to be extra nice in the hope that they'll feel sorry for you and go easy?

Dom/mes/tops/sadists ..... does the weazely worming have the desired effect or does it become so obvious that it makes you more determined and actually encourage you to go further than you had originally planned?

Currently trying to persuade Dom to not go quite so far as he'd like to tomorrow in the hope of preserving my pretty face for a photoshoot on Monday.

Current status: Getting nowhere.

Me too ;)

My Girlfriend @lima_pink_tigress FARTS when she cums :-D

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