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| 19 Oct 10, 9:34 AM LightningJack UK(SW), 7 yrs |
Thanks Nick for such a glowing report and delighted you had a lovely time. I have to say that on the whole I and clearly all the ladies who took part in the BB competition this time felt a tad disappointed that all the male entrants apart from "Femsup" gave up so quickly even before the second round was completed. But for the genourosity and wise experience of "femsup" the entire exercise would have been a huge let down. "Femsup" instantly recognising the danger agreed to be tied to a chair and allowed the 5 ladies to work on him to their hearts content. He even had a glass of water to drink halfway through. I know that although he loved being the center of attention he had my admiration and also that of all the other spectators. Oddly enough everyone of the guys who quit so quickly in the competition then went on with MsSlide to do some one to one play in one of the private areas, Even a couple of male subs who had not entered the open competition did it privately with her too. I only wish they had shown such fortitude in the open play because I felt bad having jacked up so many ladies to take part and having had such fantastic competition in most of my other parties, yesterdays BB section was a bit of a let down. I felt especially guilty about the lovely MzClio whom I convinced to travel all the way from Cardiff, Wales for the BB she had to go to lots of expense by coming down on the train the night before, staying over and returning yesterday evening, for the competition then to be so poor. MzClio even brought lovely Welsh cakes and crunchie bars for the buffet which did disappear at a great rate. Thanks M'dear for that. MzClio you are a wonderful lady and I owe you one. I had also advertised this event on the 2 main ballbusting forums, there you get guys apparently pleading for women to bust their nuts, supposingly willing to travel hundreds of miles or pay vast sums of money but when faced with perhaps the only REAL BB event in the world are too chicken or wannabe to actuality turn their fantasy into reality. I am starting to wonder if we should just let the last man standing competition die. "Femsup" who has been to every one of my parties and always gamely and entertainly entered is a worthy champion. On yesterdays show its mostly dead already. If we cant do better than that then I think its simply not worth the effort. One more like that and we pull the plug. Does anyone feel it worth continuing this orchestrated type of play or should we just dump it now and thanks for the memories.
Dont say I never speak to you, only 5 minutes ago I told you to shut up. ! Edited 19 Oct 10, 11:35 AM by LightningJack | ||
| 19 Oct 10, 11:39 AM franci UK(TW), 24 mths |
Yes Lj there wasn't 'as' many guys in the last man standing contest as last time......'But'.............. I think it was still a wonderful way to spend a monday lunchtime and there was still quite a lot of play going on and intresting characters to chat with ect
I personaly had a great time and lots of fun in the dungeon It was nice to have the chance to enter my gimp into such a fun contest, Yes he didn't win but I never expected him to (I don't call him wimpy gimp for nothing.) But for a first timer (and one that wasn't sure he even wanted to take part) I think we'll put it down to nerves and hope for better next time!( I hope)
So because of the whole package that makes up the partys that you put on... I for one hope that..........Long may they continue Only sorry that I had to leave at 3 and didn't have time to watch the winner realy earn that title........ Chat to everyone and say all my goodbyes.
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| 19 Oct 10, 11:43 AM LightningJack UK(SW), 7 yrs |
Thanks for coming you were all wonderful. I am not questioning continuing staging the parties as with my earlier reply. They will continue. It was only the ballbusting aspect of them I hope that makes things a bit clearer. Dont say I never speak to you, only 5 minutes ago I told you to shut up. ! | ||
| 19 Oct 10, 12:10 PM Tudor_Rose UK(CF), 2 yrs |
It might help also If it went on the Diary page of ic. a couple of people whom i spoke too in private chat prior to the event could not see it advertised ... Fools rush in, where angels fear to tread. | ||
| 19 Oct 10, 2:01 PM LightningJack UK(SW), 7 yrs |
Thanks good suggestion. Dont say I never speak to you, only 5 minutes ago I told you to shut up. ! | ||
| 19 Oct 10, 6:00 PM MsSlide UK(RH), 12 yrs £ |
Awesome afternoon. Thanks everyone. xxx | ||
| 19 Oct 10, 9:50 PM Gullane UK, 3 yrs |
A tad misdirected, methinks. Instead of complaining about the lack of fortitude of the guys who did put their gonads on the line, why not have a go instead at the majority who watched from the sidelines?
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| 19 Oct 10, 10:24 PM Evaded 23 mths |
I have been thinking alot about what you wrote lightning.
I will definately take part in the last man standing next time. please understand it will be if I can attend the next party due to work. I would like one-on-one aswell. I do not wish for the last man standing to die. hope to see you next time. | ||
| 19 Oct 10, 10:45 PM manonwire UK(N), 3 yrs |
Hey LJ and everyone else that I met on Monday. I had an enjoyable time and the venue is out of this world! I am also amazed that after spending years in lonely 'big' clubs that such fantastic pockets of friendly people exist. I missed the 'knackers to the knackers yard' line up as I was busy practicing my tying in the dungeon and couldn't leave BlueChariot despite the enthralling sounds coming from the other room! So I wasn't even one of the males gawping from the sidelines! When's the next event? | ||
| 19 Oct 10, 11:11 PM MsJenni UK(W), 7 yrs |
Jack Im sorry you feel a bit let down. From a personal perspective I found the event "Different" and enjoyable. When I took myself out of circulation 6 years ago it was not only illness that kept me away, it was stalemess, everything just seemed the same, the advent of the internet seemed to take originality and character, as well as a sense of excitement at being "alternative", away. I am still creeping my way back, I enjoyed immensly the difference of the last man standing competition, organising events can be a bit of a roundabout, some you win, some you lose, from what you have said you obviously have won a lot so must be doing something right, keep it going.
Thank you for organising this one. See you at the next one Jen Edited 19 Oct 10, 11:19 PM by MsJenni |