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| 5 Sep 10, 9:48 PM Cassius UK, 3 yrs   |
Surely a wrist problem comes under the heading of "health" & therefore should not detract. A Dominant player(or partner)should be sensitive to this. Practise senseless acts of beauty. | ||||
| 5 Sep 10, 9:51 PM ladybabe2 UK(SK), 6 yrs |
All of them will come under dominant care, what l am asking is there anything that you can't do but would love to do, due to maybe health... Again l would love to be tied with arms stretched above my head but physically can't anymore gosh l really need to learn how to express myself xxxxx Don't make them a priority, when they only make you an option... | ||||
| 5 Sep 10, 9:55 PM ClassAct2005 UK(N), 7 yrs |
It does detract though because if you're submissive you don't want those kind of things to get in the way because of the eagerness to please etc. although you're right that if the dominant knows you well he shouldn't need reminding. I suppose a few of mine are self imposed but I'm not changing them. I'm not going to drink or take drugs for any man or smoke or eat junk food. In a physical sense I can't think of anything. | ||||
| 5 Sep 10, 10:50 PM subbietrouble 2 yrs |
I have quite short arms which make handcuffs behind the back almost impossible, which is a shame. I like the idea of really not being able to escape but it makes me feel like my wrists are going to break. subbie xxx | ||||
| 5 Sep 10, 11:05 PM FrostyFingers UK(SW), 2 yrs |
I can't ever wear ballet boots (though tbh, I'm not sure I'd want to wear them anyway!), really high heels for long periods of time, or do anything that involves standing on tiptoes for more than a few seconds, all because of breaking my foot several years ago.
Funny though, up until now, I hadn't ever thought of putting them on my hard limits list, I just tell people I can't do it. Oh well, I shall get the list out now... | ||||
| 5 Sep 10, 11:06 PM River_Deep UK, 6 yrs |
Things close/covering my face induce a panic attack. If I get a jumper stuck when taking it off I freak out, someone throwing a duvet over me and me not being able to see a way out set me off too. I tried to do diving with my ex hubby but the mask freaked me out. So masks and hoods are a no no for me. It is not what you say or do but the way you say or do it Edited 5 Sep 10, 11:07 PM by River_Deep | ||||
| 5 Sep 10, 11:06 PM Super_Slut_321 UK(MK), 4 yrs |
As I get older, I fear there will be more and more of those. Enjoy what you can, while you can. That's my advice! Here is some additional advice from Mr. Leonard Cohen: Ring the bells that still can ring Forget your perfect offering There is a crack in everything That's how the light gets in. I am the Super Slut, Slut of Sluts. Look on my works, ye merely "a little bit naughty" and despair! | ||||
| 5 Sep 10, 11:08 PM Super_Slut_321 UK(MK), 4 yrs |
No you don't. Some people are plain, bloody awkward, just for the sake of it. You expressed yourself beautifully. I know exactly what you meant. I am sure everybody else who took more than a second to read what you had written knew it too! I am the Super Slut, Slut of Sluts. Look on my works, ye merely "a little bit naughty" and despair! | ||||
| 5 Sep 10, 11:46 PM NimueBanditQueen UK(MK), 2 yrs |
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| 6 Sep 10, 12:11 AM Hastingsbound UK(TN), 2 yrs |
MY only hard, hard limits are mushrooms & penicillin. I am allergic to both. Either end up in a trip to a&e having my stomach pumped plus other treatment equally as nice. |
