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| Fri 3 Sep 10, 11:42 PM OllieVW  2 yrs  |
Im abit of a girly boy when it comes to my hair and wouldnt know if I could consent to Lima choosing how it looks. length, style, colour etc.. My hair is my security blanket, always has been, makes me feel good about myself when its looking its best. I hate the hairdressers and even getting my hair stroked gives me the heebeegeebees. So who controls your hair, you or your dom/me? Ive read a few threads on individuals having their hair shaven off and a freind did it to her slave as a cleansing ritual and a show of commitment. I totaly get this, the reason behind it and the enjoyment and pleqsure on both sides. There is nor fear in love;but perfect love casteth out fear | ||
| 4 Sep 10, 12:12 AM Miss_Poppins UK(RG), 2 yrs  |
I definitely control my hair style. I'm very particular about it and I only go to a specific hairdresser in Germany where I book appointments two months in advance to ensure it works with my vacation plans 
I've done various things with my hair in terms of colour and length, so I'm actually quite flexible and would probably take my Dom's wishes into consideration as long as I can go to my favourite hair dresser. Whatever she does looks fab. Being forced to go somewhere else would be torture
My other half however doesn't tell me how to get my hair cut at all. I think he realised I look good with whatever hair style I choose to come back from Germany with Hab keine Angst, einen großen Schritt zu machen, wenn dies nötig ist. Ein Abgrund lässt sich nicht mit zwei kleinen Sprüngen überqueren (David Lloyd George). | ||
| 4 Sep 10, 12:16 AM alpinehappyfly UK, 2 yrs |
My Domme controls my hair. I've been told that if I dare do anything to it, it'll get shaved off.  | ||
| 4 Sep 10, 12:18 AM OllieVW 2 yrs |
No fucking way lol thats worse than me Germany for a hair cut bloody hell poupee.
Actualy the barber in Fallingbostal I used to go to when I was in the Army is probably the best ive ever been to so yeah Im coming with you maybe yours and mine can send us both as a reward to show how much they appreciate us
There is nor fear in love;but perfect love casteth out fear | ||
| 4 Sep 10, 12:22 AM OllieVW 2 yrs |
How does that feel? to have someone else dictate how you look (hair wise) is this a new thing? if not how did you feel when it was first decided? Does she pick pritty styles clours etc.. or does she humiliate you with funny looks when you go out?
I can see how this type of thing could be amusing, used as a reward or as punishment as youve said Your hardcore by the way my hair is a hard limit.
There is nor fear in love;but perfect love casteth out fear | ||
| 4 Sep 10, 10:24 AM Rubberwitch UK(HA), 4 yrs |
It's more the fact she has lovely long hair thats beautifully shiny and soft, and in a fit of pique she commented that she wanted it cut short. We just pointed out that if she did that, she could jolly well find the rest of it goes as well. What would other tops do if they found their subs were trying to do something to deliberately make themselves less attractive (unless of course, this is the flavour of your play) | ||
| 4 Sep 10, 11:16 AM alpinehappyfly UK, 2 yrs |
Nothing like that. I'm just not allowed to cut it.
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| 4 Sep 10, 11:38 AM MistressStar UK(TW), 5 yrs |
I'd only control what a sub did with his hair if I didn't like it. Same with clothes - will make a sub ditch clothes I don't like, in favour for clothes I have picked for him. I love hair, and love to touch it and play with it. | ||
| 4 Sep 10, 1:10 PM Liefsome UK(S), 3 yrs   |
Given how absolutely in control of how I look I must be, I wouldn't let a dom/mely one decide what happens to my hair unless they had a suggestion I was convinced would look awesome. Hair control is a hard limit I guess, but that doesn't mean I don't like it being pulled and such! Why are you acting like a dragon? | ||
| 4 Sep 10, 1:35 PM othyim NL, 2 yrs |
Given the limits that I have a professional life to maintain as well (so things like bold or neongreen or dreadlocks would be out of the question in my case), my Dom controls my hairstyle. I really dont mind if it is blond, brown or red, or long, shoulder length or short... Um... since he has to look at it and find it attractive, it just seems logical to change it according to his taste. Power is about what you can control. Freedom is about what you can unleash. (Harriet Rubin) Edited 4 Sep 10, 1:36 PM by othyim | ||
| 4 Sep 10, 3:37 PM Rays_talena UK, 4 yrs £ |
my Master has full control over girls hair from how long to what colour it must be  "What hangs upon the wall?" a Master might ask. "The slaves whip, Master," she responds. "How may I be more pleasing?" Players of Gor Pg25 |
