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| Sat 28 Aug 10, 8:24 AM Violently UK(B), 12 yrs  |
Is BDSM 1) An intrinsic and uncompromising part of who you are, 2) a personality quirk or 3) An enthusiastic hobby?
At one point in time my answer would probably have been 1) but my latest experiences have shifted that point of view and I was simply wondering if other people have also felt the same -- A Kervert Pinky Edited Sat 28 Aug 10, 12:50 PM by Violently | |
| 28 Aug 10, 9:04 AM MaxFaust NO, 23 mths |
Hiya V. I was a # 1, am now a # 2 (I think). Maybe I'll reach the zen-like # 3 before I get too old to remember what the point of it all was, maybe I won't. Take care.  Edited 28 Aug 10, 9:05 AM by MaxFaust | |
| 28 Aug 10, 9:06 AM Muzzlehatch UK(TN), 7 yrs  |
Yes to all.
Owner of The Croppery Dungeon and Breakfast. Organises The St Leonards munch Promotes The Club with no name | |
| 28 Aug 10, 9:20 AM Reversed 23 mths  |
1) Don't know who I am 2) Which one (so many to choose from)? 3) Still getting so much out of irony | |
| 28 Aug 10, 9:24 AM Sissy_girl UK(M), 4 yrs    |
All three but then again there are so many other facets to my character . Politeness privacy & discretion are my middle names | |
| 28 Aug 10, 10:07 AM Stillyet UK(DG), 2 yrs |
It's who I am. I've tried to treat is as an enthusiastic hobby, but that hasn't worked; I can live celibate but I can't live vanilla. You can treat it as one of me (many) personality quirks if you like, but it's not a quirk I either can or wish to alter. ;; Semper in faecibus sumus, sole profundum variat. | |
| 28 Aug 10, 10:34 AM MissSuzy UK(SO), 3 yrs |
(1) - 100% all the way. | |
| 28 Aug 10, 11:17 AM MissP UK(EN), 8 yrs |
BDSM is a very broad church, and it will/can/does encompass all of the above. You can be a full-time pro domme with a complete lifestyle, or a kinky bedroom perv on Saturday night. It doesn't matter. What matters is that you enjoy  Edited 28 Aug 10, 11:24 AM by MissP | |
| 28 Aug 10, 11:18 AM Grasshopper UK(SE), 2 yrs |
Yes. Oh, well, that's easy. Tucker's Law: If some cunt can fuck something up, that cunt will pick the worst possible time to fucking fuck it up because that cunt's a cunt. I've got that embroidered on a teatowel at home. | |
| 28 Aug 10, 11:23 AM Ariane 8 yrs |
4) An occasional amusement. In some ways I fall under 1) because Domming comes naturally to me as part of my personality, but my obsessions are elsewhere.
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| 28 Aug 10, 1:08 PM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs      |
One. Tried to convince myself it was two and could be satisfied through three. It couldnt. I'm one. My goal - to save women from nature (Dior) |
