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The lost art of chivalry (3)

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Posted by kinkymermaid on Tue 24 Aug 10, 2:04 PM to kinkymermaid's blog.

Is it just me, or do other people find this irritating and arrogant too? I recently sent a memo to a gentleman on here who shall remain nameless, because i am looking for new playmates, and i found his profile very attractive and eloquently worded. However, there was no response to my very friendly memo. Is it just that some doms are arrogant or just can't be bothered? Have we lost the art of chivalry altogether? Ladies, beware of getting yourselves into a c**** number after 21 situation!!!!

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24 Aug 10, 2:54 PM
Tinsel_Seeker
2 yrs
Can't abide rudeness at any time. Politeness doesn't take any more effort and usually brings rewards in kind.

e.g. I am more likely to ask politely (but firmly) for a bottom to be presented for smacking, rather than wrestle for it. Either way, it will happen, but easier if it's polite.

Friendship is like pishing your pants, everyone can see it, but only you can feel the true warmth.'

24 Aug 10, 4:14 PM
Thought_Policeman
UK(SO), 2 yrs
Persephone70 wrote:
The lost art of chivalry

Is it just me, or do other people find this irritating and arrogant too? I recently sent a memo to a gentleman on here who shall remain nameless, because i am looking for new playmates, and i found his profile very attractive and eloquently worded. However, there was no response to my very friendly memo. Is it just that some doms are arrogant or just can't be bothered? Have we lost the art of chivalry altogether? Ladies, beware of getting yourselves into a c**** number after 21 situation!!!!

It's nothing to do with chivalry really. The frequent threads on the subject of ignored memos would seem to indicate that there are far more women ignoring men than vice versa.

24 Aug 10, 9:29 PM
SpartanReserve
UK(SN), 24 mths
Could just have been the admin side of the chaps brain, ive not returned a few memo on here in the past because of this, often im online in my most tired hours, just before bed etc, and lets say you get a memo just at the wrong time, you read it and think "will reply next time im on", 24 hours past and fresh post arrives etc, its easy done. I would say try again and if you get the same result then maybe he is being selective in what he responds to but I couldnt second guess motives.

Steve

Ive dragged myself up from nothing to a state of extreme poverty: Groucho Marx

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