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Types of Commitment (24)

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24 Aug 10, 6:36 PM
slave_joanne
UK(LS), 2 yrs
Atrebate wrote:
People can do both, of course.

I married my girl in a little chapel in Las Vegas a fortnight ago. Elvis gave her away.

Congratulations!

24 Aug 10, 11:12 PM
soph_uk
UK(DN), 6 yrs
For me, I think marriage can so often be for reasons other than a personal commitment, be it to appease family, for "appearances", because that's what happens or for the simplicity of the legal process, though I should hasten to add that those reasons can be very compelling at the time.

A collaring though with its only real value and understanding existing between the two people involved is a more intimate and personal decision, the social pressures, group norms don't play such a large part in the decision.

soph

(though having been married in one relationship and collared in another and now being neither I might not be the best person to comment on this one :) )

25 Aug 10, 5:44 PM
Fizzs_puppy
UK, 6 yrs

Taintedinnocence wrote:
We felt that in order for me to be owned entirely, I needed to be His legally. I guess we love the old fashioned notion of marriage (which for obvious reasons many will hate) - "to love, honour and obey" ;-)

I intend to be His forever -therefore I do not intend to get divorced. I intend to make it work. This is a big statement considering I was very cynical previously.

I am changing my name. We are not religious, so making vows before a god we do not believe in would be meaningless. We will write our own vows, which are disguised - e.g I will swear to try to make Him happy at all times.

Incidentally, I never wanted to get married prior to meeting my Master. But now I can't imagine life without Him, and want to be only His.

Always a pleasure to read your updates since meeting TheFalconer :)

28 Aug 10, 8:37 PM
candlefire
2 yrs
Some want to stay when they have the freedom to leave, others do not want to stay when they no longer have the freedom to leave.

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