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Religion and BDSM - Comments needed (93)

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13 Aug 10, 12:05 AM
jules9
UK(CH), 3 yrs

I actually realised at one point that what I really wanted was a relationship with a man that had a similar dynamic to the one I have with God. God, well he's my Daddy. He looks out for me, He guides me when I go off track - at times that includes disciplining me. I have respect for Him, His say is final, He makes me feel safe, every part of me is His - even though I am my own person. It's a nurturing relationship, based on love.

Okay, so when it comes to my Dom I also want the wild mind blowing multi orgasmic sex, but I have no issues with that whatsoever. To *me* Jesus came along and said "love me, love each other, and we'll all be great" - slight paraphrasing perhaps :* - but it does sum up how I feel about my faith.

When I first read Kendra's writing on Daddy Doms, I recognised in that exactly what I was searching for. I've never been happier or more at peace. I've prayed on all of this and it's right for me.

All that's left is for me to mould Daddy into something more God like* :-D

XxX

*No twoo's were harmed during the making of this joke... ;)

13 Aug 10, 12:13 AM
PapaSmurf
UK(CF), 22 mths
Xerxes_Master wrote:
What is this hypocrisy to which you refer?

Christianity is Faith in something. The Church is the organization. Faith as such cannot be corrupted although it may be misguided. An organization can be corrupted but it doesn't alter the Faith. I do wish people who know so little of something wouldn't criticise or judge those who do.

Sorry, could you point out something you have faith in that's not been corrupted by the Church?

Let's take this "purportedly magic Jew", Yeshua bar-Yusuf. What we know about him historically is slim, but judging by certain quotations, eg:

Luke wrote:
"Then said he unto them, But now, he that hath a purse, let him take it, and likewise his scrip: and he that hath no sword, let him sell his garment, and buy one."

People tend to forget about those in amongst all the "turn the other cheek" stuff that was added by a persecuted minority religion which was seen as subversive and dangerous by the Roman Empire because it refused to recognise any temporal authority outside of the Tribes of Israel.

Taken along with the company he kept (political revolutionaries for the most part, such as Simon Zelotes) and the prophecies which he deliberately tried to fulfil, which spoke of a temporal leader as much as a religious one, we can build up a picture of a sort of Galilean Che Guevara.

The "Son of God" stuff? Dates back to the Council of Nicaea in 325AD. Pretty much everything that makes up Christianity as taught was written as sociopolitical propaganda designed to protect a new and vulnerable religion from persecution. Where exactly does this tie into your "faith"? Faith in what, exactly?

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"Cuius testiculos habes, habeas cardia et cerebellum."

Edited 13 Aug 10, 12:14 AM by PapaSmurf

13 Aug 10, 12:15 AM
Elan2007
UK(B), 5 yrs

Cassius wrote:
Elan2007 wrote:
Cassius wrote:
The Deity is not knowable,hence "theology"(Greek,knowledge of God) is absurd.

Nonsense and a huge copout - But it will always protect your little superstitions from the encroaching truth - Won't it :)

By the way:- How do you know that the "deity is not knowable" - You can't know that can you ;)

I am glad for you that you appear to have knowledge of the Deity. Do share with the rest of us. Also, I do not share your distaste for what you define as a "superstition" , that love is the most important thing. What matters most to you ? Let us also try to bear in mind that we are supposed to be answering the OP's question.

Love is the highest - But it has nothing to do with fearies at the bottom of the garden and similar superstitions like religion. Nor did I say I had knowledge of any deity - It would be impossible because they don't exist. Bye!

Elan

13 Aug 10, 12:40 AM
SnowdropExplodes
UK(TN), 7 yrs

proccie wrote:
mia wrote:
I'm happy to out myself as a 'kinda Christian'. I regularly read the Bible and believe in many of Jesus' teachings.

I also love lots and lots of BDSM activities.

I don't have a problem with the way i live my life, nor the sexual activities i get up to.

I think JC was more concerned with loving others and loving God than concerned with rules and regulations about who you should and shouldn't have sex with or how this might look like.

I appreciate other people have different views, but these are mine.

m, x

I agree with you, shame (St) Paul came along and spoilt the message.

I disagree that Paul came along and spoiled the message. the majority of Paul is reflected most closely in

sirguym wrote:
Quakers seem to have have ditched all the doctrine, dogma, liturgy, vestments and hierarchy of the church.

Unfortunately, Saul of Tarsus was a very strict legalist; his conversion to the hippy situationism of Jesus was quite a big turnaround, and while he preached that the old Mosaic law was no longer binding (because "we are saved by faith alone") that message was a bit of a problem for him, and for a lot of the early Christians of Jewish origins. Paul's teaching against homosexuality is an attempt to cling to some of the old rules (the rules considered most troublesome to the Jewish Christians are listed in Acts 15:20, where the decision was made to outlaw them - "eating food polluted by idols", "sexual immorality", "meat from strangled animals", "blood").

Indeed, in Paul's letters he regularly criticises "false piety", and setting up rules to judge who is higher or not.

Of course, Paul also has a twisted view of marriage (e.g. Ephesians 5:22-29, used by the Christian Discipline movement to justify male-dominant/female submissive D/s). He does, however, accept sexuality is natural and positive, although his advice is that if you're horny, you must marry someone quickly so you can shag within wedlock!

13 Aug 10, 1:20 AM
Elan2007
UK(B), 5 yrs

DaddysBrat wrote:
I actually realised at one point that what I really wanted was a relationship All that's left is for me to mould Daddy into something more God like* :-D

Ha Ha - "Let us make 'God' in our image, in our likeness" - (With absolutely no apology to genesis 1:26) ;)- And so it is repeated down the ages ad nauseam ;)

Elan

13 Aug 10, 1:21 AM
Cassius
UK, 3 yrs

Elan2007 wrote:
Cassius wrote:
Elan2007 wrote:
Cassius wrote:
The Deity is not knowable,hence "theology"(Greek,knowledge of God) is absurd.

Nonsense and a huge copout - But it will always protect your little superstitions from the encroaching truth - Won't it :)

By the way:- How do you know that the "deity is not knowable" - You can't know that can you ;)

I am glad for you that you appear to have knowledge of the Deity. Do share with the rest of us. Also, I do not share your distaste for what you define as a "superstition" , that love is the most important thing. What matters most to you ? Let us also try to bear in mind that we are supposed to be answering the OP's question.

Love is the highest - But it has nothing to do with fearies at the bottom of the garden and similar superstitions like religion. Nor did I say I had knowledge of any deity - It would be impossible because they don't exist. Bye!

It is always interesting to encounter a person whose disbelief in the existence of a deity is as fundamentalist a belief as a belief in the existence of one.That belief is a faith in itself.You cannot debate with a fundamentalist:all they do is make statements,and do not want a challenge to their beliefs.I am not so knowledgeable,or so much a believer, so I must retire to the position of the thoughtful agnostic : somebody who has an open mind.

Practise senseless acts of beauty.

13 Aug 10, 1:26 AM
SnowdropExplodes
UK(TN), 7 yrs

PapaSmurf wrote:
Xerxes_Master wrote:
What is this hypocrisy to which you refer?

Christianity is Faith in something. The Church is the organization. Faith as such cannot be corrupted although it may be misguided. An organization can be corrupted but it doesn't alter the Faith. I do wish people who know so little of something wouldn't criticise or judge those who do.

Sorry, could you point out something you have faith in that's not been corrupted by the Church?

Let's take this "purportedly magic Jew", Yeshua bar-Yusuf. What we know about him historically is slim, but judging by certain quotations, eg:

Luke wrote:
"Then said he unto them, But now, he that hath a purse, let him take it, and likewise his scrip: and he that hath no sword, let him sell his garment, and buy one."

Ah, Luke 22:36. The context for this advice is that it is the Last Supper; Jesus knows (if we accept that he has knowledge of things to come) that his disciples will soon face persecution (the Book of Acts outlines how they had to barricade themselves in their dwelling until after the uproar in Jerusalem had passed).

People tend to forget about those in amongst all the "turn the other cheek" stuff that was added by a persecuted minority religion which was seen as subversive and dangerous by the Roman Empire because it refused to recognise any temporal authority outside of the Tribes of Israel.

Taken along with the company he kept (political revolutionaries for the most part, such as Simon Zelotes) and the prophecies which he deliberately tried to fulfil, which spoke of a temporal leader as much as a religious one, we can build up a picture of a sort of Galilean Che Guevara.

Jesus was indeed a revolutionary, both against the established Church (synagogue, I suppose) of the day, and the established government. Although I wouldn't talk in terms of a Che Guevara figure, because Jesus never advocated turning to violence, as Guevara did (although he did say that his words would cause division amongst the people, his reference to swords are usually figurative).

The "Son of God" stuff? Dates back to the Council of Nicaea in 325AD.

Here's just 2 Biblical passages that refute that claim:

John 1:1 ; Luke 10:22 Look them up yourself.

Pretty much everything that makes up Christianity as taught was written as sociopolitical propaganda designed to protect a new and vulnerable religion from persecution.

Hardly! The central tenets of Christianity as taught to me, are given by 2 passages.

John 3:16-17 -

John wrote:
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.

Mark 12:28-31 -

Mark wrote:
One of the teachers of the law came and heard them debating. Noticing that Jesus had given them a good answer, he asked him, "Of all the commandments, which is the most important?"

"The most important one," answered Jesus, "is this: 'Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.' The second is this: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no commandment greater than these."

You get to make your claim because, starting with Paul, there is some truth to what you say about protecting the Church from persecution. But the central tenets, the ones that define Christian faith that you so clearly despise, are not. They speak of love and forgiveness.

It is true: the faith of individuals cannot be corrupted (though they may feel it has been betrayed) by corrupt church leaders; indeed, that was another common theme in Jesus' teachings and reported miracles (people considered disgusting or sinners are reportedly healed, while Jesus preached against the religious leaders of the day).

13 Aug 10, 1:31 AM
Elan2007
UK(B), 5 yrs

Cassius wrote:
Elan2007 wrote:
Cassius wrote:
Elan2007 wrote:
Cassius wrote:
The Deity is not knowable,hence "theology"(Greek,knowledge of God) is absurd.

Nonsense and a huge copout - But it will always protect your little superstitions from the encroaching truth - Won't it :)

By the way:- How do you know that the "deity is not knowable" - You can't know that can you ;)

I am glad for you that you appear to have knowledge of the Deity. Do share with the rest of us. Also, I do not share your distaste for what you define as a "superstition" , that love is the most important thing. What matters most to you ? Let us also try to bear in mind that we are supposed to be answering the OP's question.

Love is the highest - But it has nothing to do with fearies at the bottom of the garden and similar superstitions like religion. Nor did I say I had knowledge of any deity - It would be impossible because they don't exist. Bye!

It is always interesting to encounter a person whose disbelief in the existence of a deity is as fundamentalist a belief as a belief in the existence of one.That belief is a faith in itself.You cannot debate with a fundamentalist:all they do is make statements,and do not want a challenge to their beliefs.I am not so knowledgeable,or so much a believer, so I must retire to the position of the thoughtful agnostic : somebody who has an open mind.

Ha Ha! nice try but dull! You won't get away with that! ;) We have not broached the subject of evidence yet, but your open mindedness is supported by very little of that in this field. I am an open minded person, but even without the recourse to evidence, logic alone concludes that Jehova (or is it Wotan or Zeus this week?) do not exist. We could also do evidence......

It is not about fundamentalism - But rationality and I love to keep my mind open in that field. Goodnight :)

Elan

13 Aug 10, 1:39 AM
Cassius
UK, 3 yrs

I do not claim that the Deity exists; you state as a matter of belief that s/he does not exist. There is no evidence either way. The only intellectually mature position is that the case is not proven in any direction,that we shall never know and thus to be a a-gnostic(one who candidly admits to not knowing) is to my mind the only tenable position - unless you can produce hard evidence. The dullness is in pursuing an unanswerable proposition. But do bear in mind (as I have said elsewhere)that the insurance industry believes in God,in that most companies will not insure against His acts. Is that true of YOUR insurance policy,I wonder? Goodnight.

Practise senseless acts of beauty.

13 Aug 10, 1:40 AM
AnEnglishMaster
UK(ME), 5 yrs
MaxFaust wrote:
However, I will tell you this: Life is but a feeling. Reality is a fleeting concept of assumption and confirmation.

Max - you were self-aware enough earlier in the thread to realise that when you said you "hate anyone who thinks others are inferior" that that was contradictory of your own statement that you hated Christians, since your own reason for doing so was that they are (in your eyes) inferior.

Please exercise the same self-awareness in the oxymoron I quote above.

What you are saying is "the REALITY is... that life is a feeling, and that REALITY is (effectively) meaningless, since ephemeral"

You shoot yourself in the foot again. IF reality is a fleeting concept, you CANNOT logically say that that is REALLY true, nor that life is just a feeling. In fact, you cannot "tell" us anything. Since the shifting nature of reality means that nothing is concrete enough to be told. What this indicates is that you feel that life is a feeling. Which is meaningless. You cannot say that life (and therefore its content and positions) IS (only) a feeling, since to state "IS" necessitates definition and certainty.

In other words, your statement amounts to: "the (certain) REALITY (a word which means nothing fixed or certain, in your view)) is "fixed" and "certain" that nothing is actually fixed and certain.

Are you certain that absolutely nothing is certain?

English

"It may be that your sole purpose in life is to serve as a warning to others" - Anon

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