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| 3 Aug 10, 5:50 PM Painpet UK(CB), 3 yrs  |
I can't say there are many rules I have to follow. The main one is that I do as Sir orders and that's that really. The other one is that I be honest with him always. Other than that we have no other set rules, I like that and it works for us. We tried different things out but found that this is what works for us. I always try to make sure he is happy with what I do and I try to do what I know will be pleasing to him, the same as Sir takes me into consideration too. We tried total control with tasks, rules, things I had to do when I was away from him, but it didn't work for us. So saying he still has control over my submissive side. whatever he wants to do to me he can do and he would never get a no from me. To me it is still 24/7 but to a lot of people it wouldn't be considered so as there is no set structure. The only way I can put it is that if he says jump I jump. When he wants me he has me. Whatever he wants to do to me he can do. It's as simple as that. He has total control over me to whatever extent he wants at any given time. It's just not all the time. The rest of the time we just do the run of the mill stuff, anyone looking into our relationship would never know or suspect as we keep it all quite private or as private as you can be when making a racket with the whips lol |
