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| 24 Aug 10, 11:30 PM Avada_Kedavra UK, 7 yrs  |
Yes she isn't doing badly. M: Its only a baby needle, you wont know the difference. I am not a one dimensional needle obssessed domme... | ||
| 25 Aug 10, 4:45 PM sexy2hot UK(HX), 21 mths  |
Well not wanting to repeat all those clichés such as 'life is too short' & 'life is for living', let me say instead, if what you plan is acceptable to all those concerned, then go for it.... i would. | ||
| 14 Sep 10, 1:28 PM Nicko_Nick UK(WC), 5 yrs |
Have heart Luv, you have many friends & am sure we all send you a virtual hug, and wish it could be real. Re your quest, as other have said & I'm sure you realise, the more limits you place, the fewer there are that can satisfy you. It's like any exclusive marketing plan - you need to expose yourself to more applicants (not literally before all the pc dommes jump on me!) - how can you approach each other if you don't know each other? IC isnt a great dating site, but maybe try searching through your friends' friend lists, and approach any you find of interest? More Hugs, nx
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| 15 Sep 10, 7:24 PM Butterscotch UK(RM), 3 yrs |
It's easy to find a sub, there are some wonderful ones out there, but finding someone with the right charisma is the difficult part I've found. I'm ultra picky and don't see why I should compromise, especially when I'm looking for a LTR rather than just a play partner. It really is as hard for us Dommes as for the subs to find the right person, but hopefully all of us, including the lovely Miss Namio whose incredible reputation precedes her, will eventually find what we are looking for. | ||
| 16 Sep 10, 9:35 AM Gentleman_Tom UK(SE), 4 yrs |
Miss Namio is a wonderful Lady and firm but caring. Probably the reason She is having difficulty is the remote area She lives and i am sure if She was based in London She would have no difficulty Reliable and hardworking Domestic available for Ladies | ||
| 17 Sep 10, 1:19 AM wonderer UK, 5 yrs |
I hope so too, for both of you. Don't stop being ultra-picky, but sometimes it's worth casting the net slightly wider. Wonderful opportunities can sometimes be found in unexpected places. Ubi caritas et amor, Deus ibi est. http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/226772/ | ||
| 17 Sep 10, 1:15 PM Lady_Alys UK(RG), 6 yrs |
It took me 5yrs to find flower. As has been said I met alot of great guys but getting the dynamic (nilla and D/s) is the real problem. I found flower at a BDSM event and only after a friend (will always be grateful to her)encouraged me to go for it! I usually waited for the guys to show an interest in me, this time I gave him my number without any move made from him. Don't ask, don't get. Good luck and be patient. DoN't WaStE YoUR TiME On A MaN WhO Isn't WiLLiNG tO WasTe ThEiR tImE On You... | ||
| 29 Sep 10, 7:58 AM Scorpionic UK(BN), 6 yrs     |
Ain't that the truth! | ||
| 30 Sep 10, 10:38 AM Slave_Rob_35 UK(RH), 2 yrs |
I have been reading the post with interest. As a shy sub I have to admit that I find it hard to meet people. I prefer talking on a one to one basis and in a new group my shyness is apparent, yet I am working on it! My thoughts on the posts quoted are yes you have to be picky to ensure that it is the right decision you are making however being ultra picky may lead you to retirement age (no offence meant) without finding the Dom/Sub or partner you are looking for. In my case I would love to submit to a Mistress in a LTR however it is only right that a vanilla life can be held too. I have to admit that I have met some lovely Doms through the munches that I have been to, likewise there are a number of fellow subs that I have had a good time talking to. | ||
| 8 Oct 10, 9:10 PM candlefire 2 yrs |
If it is a real relationship we seek ... i think it would help if we moved beyond niceness, beyond politeness into being real. If we stated : yes i am shitty person or a depresseive or mean (from tme to time or mebe quite often)and do you want a list of all my bad points ... since i would hazard a guess we are not saints, and even saints have admitted to being the biggest sinncers ... then the prospective person who is also real will accept all the bad knowng that there is a balance of just as much good. Start out honestly, not behind hats of niceness, politness, not to drawn anyone in. It is a trmendous freedom, liberating to be real.
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