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| 22 Jul 10, 4:33 PM lick2spank UK(RG), 5 yrs  |
Why not just start out with one or two guys first before going the whole hog? See if you can handle the fallout. Then perhaps these guys could help you? | ||
| 22 Jul 10, 4:52 PM Blackwidow4u UK, 5 yrs  |
OMG that would make me SO HORNY,could I watch? | ||
| 22 Jul 10, 5:00 PM Amazon UK(LE), 8 yrs |
I want a front row seat too. I have found it difficult getting two men together, let alone a load for a gang bang, so I wish you good luck. * Play may contain scenes of mild to moderate violence and occasional use of graphic language. | ||
| 22 Jul 10, 6:10 PM FriendlyMentor UK(SW), 23 mths |
Having been involved in something similar in the past may I echo the suggestions to proceed with caution. There are a number of things you would need to consider (beyond the psychological ones); not least the fact that not all men's bottoms are plumbed the same way so depending on your capacity for length and girth you could easily end up with an anal fissure or something equally unpleasant. (I wont go down the STD route as I am assuming you are sensible enough to play safe!). Probably the best/safest way to organise this would be via a p/d (either a friend or on a professional basis). Either way you need to ensure that there is an independent non-participant who know's you and who can call the whole thing to a stop if they think it necessary - this means, in effect someone who knows you and is happy to push, but not break, your limits and your body without jeopardising your longterm safety. I would also add that having spoken to a fair number of straight men harboring bi-curious rape fantasies many (of those who had taken things further) had not enjoyed the reality of anal sex with another man - despite often loving oral and anal strap-on play. As I would also suggest going for a facilitated forced oral scene first - I know you say that it is likely to be a one-off but, if its that big a fantasy then it should survive something more minor first and if it doesn't then probably best having avoided it. FM | ||
| 22 Jul 10, 6:20 PM Dundeetop UK(DD), 6 yrs |
Well I am a gay man and a top. Whilst I may get involved in a rape scenario if I later deemed you were no longer up for it my friend you would be released immediately. The second your consent is withdrawn you can claim rape through the courts. NO NO NO you dont!! | ||
| 22 Jul 10, 6:48 PM unrepentant_1 UK, 6 yrs |
Considering the number of posts that appear on this subject I am really suprised to hear so many Dommes find it hard to sort. Is it a shortage of tops for it? | ||
| 22 Jul 10, 7:01 PM Dark_Cherry UK(B), 2 yrs     |
What she said Do the thing you fear the most and the death of fear is certain - Mark Twain | ||
| 22 Jul 10, 7:35 PM Amazon UK(LE), 8 yrs |
Yes generally. * Play may contain scenes of mild to moderate violence and occasional use of graphic language. | ||
| 22 Jul 10, 7:43 PM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs  |
Ditto. Also... I once spent months organising a private event where m-on-m action was to be the main theme. ALL of the selected "willing/gagging for it" volunteers failed to turn up, every single one!
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| 22 Jul 10, 7:49 PM Kali_Ma UK(B), 5 yrs |
Yeah, why am I not surprised, and the boys wonder why we get so cynical about them as a collective... Kali It's pronounced 'Car-Lee' *G* |
