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A Gentleman's Garments (32)

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Filth_Wizard
Posted by Filth_Wizard on Sun 18 Jul 10, 7:57 PM to the MaleDominantCrowd group.

A post of curiosity: as a dominant man, what do you like to wear? Or as someone who plays with dominant men, what do you like to see them wear?

I prefer boots and suits - waistcoats, ties, belts and so on. The odd bow-tie, perhaps a spot of tweed (the jury's still out on that one). I feel far more comfortable in cotton and co., rather than latex, rubber or the like.

So, what's in your wardrobe, aside from a skeleton or two? Do you have a particular outfit that you prefer when playing that differs from things you wear at events?

Or do you think clothes have no bearing on the proceedings?

Edited Mon 19 Jul 10, 10:41 AM by Filth_Wizard

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18 Jul 10, 10:52 PM
TheSilverFox*
UK(GU), 2 yrs

You know not what you start.... Just ignore all the helpful suggestions about leather waistcoats that are now bound to follow!!!

"The art of being a Gentleman is knowing when not to be" Quote:TheSilverFox - Circa 1986
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18 Jul 10, 11:16 PM
Grasshopper
UK(SE), 2 yrs
I'm roundly of the opinion that the clothes do not, in fact, make the man - I'm the same sadistic bastard in my besuited finery as I am in jeans, naked or even (chances are) in a fucking dress. The reason I gravitate towards suits is because I'm told a) I look older than I am and, as I've said before, I need all the years I can get, and b) I look good. "Dashing", "debonaire" and "hot" are three of the adjectives a collection of women with off-kilter ideas on what constitutes hotness have used.

Summary: Suits = good.

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21 Jul 10, 10:27 PM
myDominus
UK(HU), 22 mths
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I prefer My clean cut shirt n tie, suit look....but often transcend into smart casual for those that need to be guided around public places and NOT look as though they are under close arrest...........although one or two of My clients prefer that look....and experience of others watching hehehehe
22 Jul 10, 8:24 AM
PrettyPrettyPlease
UK(OX), 2 yrs

myhumbler wrote:
I prefer My clean cut shirt n tie, suit look....but often transcend into smart casual for those that need to be guided around public places and NOT look as though they are under close arrest...........although one or two of My clients prefer that look....and experience of others watching hehehehe

As a sub I have to say I'm not so into the leather waistcoat look <grin> A nice suit, all black or (be still my beating... well, it's not my heart) combat gear with big black boots...

As far as I'm concerned the best dressed Doms come with rope accessories ;)

x

ps - I'm allowed to post here, right?

22 Jul 10, 10:32 AM
Filth_Wizard
UK(RM), 8 yrs

PrettyPrettyPlease wrote:

ps - I'm allowed to post here, right?

Of course, certainly! =)

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22 Jul 10, 6:32 PM
Purvection
UK(M), 8 yrs


At a club, I prefer a dom in leather for sure, as long as it doesn't include the dreaded leather waistcoat. But skintight leather jeans tucked into riding boots are very sexy. Up top, a ruffle shirt or a leather one is hot too. Not t-shirts.

But I also like uniforms, black tie, or something else that goes beyond the leather waistcoat cliche.

I don't like latex- that's a personal preference.

grasshopper wrote:
I'm roundly of the opinion that the clothes do not, in fact, make the man - I'm the same sadistic bastard in my besuited finery as I am in jeans, naked or even (chances are) in a fucking dress.

This is very true. A good dom can dom regardless of how he is dressed.

And for private play, I have no preference, whether it's a suit, a uniform, leather, nudity or whatever.

Aut disce aut discede. Manet sors tertia caedi

23 Jul 10, 8:04 AM
Outlier
UK(W), 2 yrs
In real-life, it is classical suit and tie for work. English tailoring, of course. Otherwise, very casual and laidback in jeans etc. Very antipodean. For clubs either leather, or combats seem to do the trick. I agree with grasshopper's view above, and am the same cruel sadistic bastard what ever I happen to be wearing.

"I am from nowhere and everywhere" Karl Lagerfeld

Edited 23 Jul 10, 8:07 AM by Outlier

24 Jul 10, 2:08 PM
Elohim
UK(B), 10 yrs

as for the waistcoat, mainly I wear one when DM'ing cos the extra pockets are useful for keeping scissors/torch/wipes and various other things to hand that I might need quickly

You may call me the Devil but remember this, every Demon in hell was once beloved of God.

24 Jul 10, 2:10 PM
Elohims_jay
UK(B), 7 yrs

Elohim wrote:
as for the waistcoat, mainly I wear one when DM'ing cos the extra pockets are useful for keeping scissors/torch/wipes and various other things to hand that I might need quickly

Which is why it forms part of your ensemble called "The Working Blacks" lol

Personally I agree with the comments about clothes do not matter ... When someone can reduce you to a gibbering wreck in their Jim-Jams you know you are on to a winner <ewg>

However I must admit I do like the "fop look" of ruffles, waist-coats and dress coats :: licks lips ::

"You and you alone make me feel that I am alive. Other men it is said have seen angels, but I have seen thee and thou art enough." ~ George Moore

24 Jul 10, 5:39 PM
Ian_2007
UK(N), 4 yrs
Standard billionaires' uniform of sports coat and jeans, just like super-villain Hank Scorpius.

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