Posted by slave2ma on Sun 18 Jul 10, 5:41 PM to slave2ma's blog.
My everything has been ill for nine weeks and she has had to avoid potential infection. Last week she succumbed and has been in hospital since Thursday. Today is our anniversary. They let me take her out for a picnic but I had to use a wheelchair to get her back she was so tired from walking a couple of hundred metres. I know it is selfish but I just want to cry. I wish I could be stronger
Perhaps I will be better for admitting this It is so difficult not to be tearful when I visit or tell relatives hoding this things are
Thanks for reading this Writing it has helped
| 18 Jul 10, 6:13 PM Paganus 2 yrs |
No it is not selfish or weak to cry when you're loved one is ill and it is you're anniversary or for any other matter that you feel emotional about. Not at all, real men cry. Good luck, I wish you both well. |
| 18 Jul 10, 8:39 PM The_Royal_Pixie UK(B), 2 yrs  |
Real men show feelings... I don't know you or your everything... but i do hope that things get better soon... *hugs*
Her x |
| 18 Jul 10, 9:11 PM Volcanic_Sparks UK(SS), 6 yrs  |
It isn't selfish and it doesn't show a lack of strength either, you are, after all, a human being and a decent one at that. This is a very special person in your life and you'd be selfish if you didn't feel like crying as it would show a lack of emotion towards Her, it's tough trying to be the strong one all the time and you need to be strong for Her. But, you also need to voice your feelings and let your emotions out and you need a support network of friends you can do this with, venting of emotions will help you keep strong in Her presence and be there for her. It takes one hell of a man to publicly announce they feel the need to cry. Try to stay strong around Her but never forget you're a human being and they are entitled to emotions. Have a bloody good cry in private it will do you the world of good.
I'm not cruel........ My kindness is just VERY misunderstood !!! |
| 18 Jul 10, 10:23 PM MysTeri  UK(B), 3 yrs |
You feel selfish because you're crying for what you've lost? For yourself? That's a real loss, it's ok to cry, you're hurting too..... there's nothing wrong with crying for any or no reason, your body needs the release. Pent up emotions will make you ill and you'll be no good to her. Cry, my sweet, howl at the injustice that makes her ill when she has so much to live strong for...... She won't even mind if you cry when you're with her, just a little... it shows the love. xxxxx
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