| Iphis_me |
First off - if I don't know you, and you have nothing on your profile, I'm highly unlikely to want to talk to you unless your memo catches my attention. I don't generally reply to IC chat from people I don't know.
Me: 37, got a child and work shifts so going out/arranging social life around my other commitments can be difficult. I enjoy my job, adore my child and I have some wonderful friends so there's lots of good stuff in my life.
I'm more than content, my life is full and busy. This wonderful man makes me smile a lot and I love him dearly Out of the ashes the phoenix sometimes rises - this gorgeous girl (or evil sadist, depending on what mood she's in ) and I are discovering what might have been - what can be, indeed. I'm very happy to have them both in my life. Not really looking for anyone else other than for friendship, I am happy and fulfilled with what I have with these two (lucky me) and I don't have the time or emotional resources to devote to another intimate relationship at this point.
Some words I might use to describe myself: talkative, cheerful, friendly, determined (some would say stubborn), principled, loving, sociable, enthusiastic, optimistic.......
I have quite a few interests - I love a wide variety of music (world/folk/(alt)country/classical to name but a few), keen reader, I knit, bake and cook but am otherwise sadly undomesticated (my house generally looks like something exploded in it). I'm an un-reconstructed old lefty and trade-unionist. I enjoy good food, wine and the company of friends.
Kinky me: I'm submissive and a masochist, I do have a toppy/sadistic side too. I've happily identified as bisexual since I was 19 (before which I had identified as lesbian for several years), currently more inclined to describe myself as queer/pansexual and I'm polyamorous.