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| 11 Jul 10, 9:52 AM Diablos_patience UK, 6 yrs |
Despite not being in to the whole Gorean thing there is something really rather nice about the whole slave position thing... im not sure if it is a realistic expectation to be able to do that day in day out... but in the moment i can definately see the appeal from both a Domme and submissive prospective.... ~* Raku wa ku no tané; ku wa raku no tané. *~ | ||
| 11 Jul 10, 3:14 PM femsup UK(NW), 5 yrs  |
We have 6 positions but pretend to have loads.Have called out 96 and she has asssumed a position that she has improvised at that moment.Called out 114 and got another.Suitably impressed the onlookers were astounded. Perhaps one could still have 6 postions but call the first one 108 and not one. Edited 11 Jul 10, 8:33 PM by femsup | ||
| 11 Jul 10, 7:50 PM Ama_Sidero UK(GU), 7 yrs        |
HAHAHAHA - thinking about it, how silly was I! Of course you couldn't resist. Doh! People would pay good money to see a bitch fight, though! LOL (I can hear them cheering Fight Fight and wanking in the background,
Only a little one, in private, unless tsankajira asks really nicely for a harder one. LOL
Life may not be the Party we hoped for, but while we are here, we might as well Dance! - Anon | ||
| 12 Jul 10, 1:59 PM Persia_Porsche UK(EH), 3 yrs |
This is something I've been giving a fair bit of thought to recently, in fact we were discussing it only yesterday. I did remove his hair (after discussion and agreement ) which we both saw as a very important symbol of his giving himself over to me, of a new beginning. It was actually a really intense bonding experience for both of us and I do consider it important in that it's a constant physical reminder of the power exchange in the relationship and this is something that pleases us both. I have retained control over this and this really pleases me. The hair is, after all, the one single thing that makes the biggest difference to appearance if it's changed. Actually I have influenced him to some fairly dramatic changes in many other ways involving both appearance and deportment since I met him. In the way that he looks and the way that he acts. However despite his desire to be the best that he can for me, I really want him to be doing it for *himself* as that's how I see the greatest rewards being gleaned for us both (and the greatest pleasure being gained for me) by making the most of what he already is rather than attempting to change that to something else. So this is where the discussion/thought comes in. I want him to be the best that he can - *for himself.* I want him to be the best of the person that I valued enough to get to know in the first place and eventually take on. I do not want to turn him into something new. ( I think the importance and pleasures and advantages that can be gained from control and change in this sort of way can be tempered by the danger of changing or losing a little of the essence of what that person is. There's a huge difference betweeen building on something that's already there to make it the most it can be, and losing something of value that's there and that's why I feel I need to tread very carefully in this respect.
All the ways you wish you could be, that's me. I look like you wanna look, I fuck like you wanna fuck, I am smart, capable, and most importantly, I am free in all the ways that you are not. | ||
| 12 Jul 10, 8:35 PM femsup UK(NW), 5 yrs |
Put in such a lovely and profound way.My feelings exactly. | ||
| 14 Jul 10, 11:58 AM Persia_Porsche UK(EH), 3 yrs |
^^^ Oh! if that's aimed at me, thanks  I often struggle to put what I'm trying to say into wordsAll the ways you wish you could be, that's me. I look like you wanna look, I fuck like you wanna fuck, I am smart, capable, and most importantly, I am free in all the ways that you are not. | ||
| 21 Jul 10, 7:15 PM petit_chat UK(YO), 2 yrs |
Master chose how I should have my hair, he hated the old style now it is dark red and wavy and it looks better.
He buys and chooses most of my clothes, tells me what I can eat and if I misbehave corrects it accordingly either through pain, taking away one of my privileges or the worst punishment being ignored... over time I am now able to second guess what he wants and so punishment is rare and infrequent | ||
| 8 Aug 10, 6:49 PM successfu1 5 yrs |
Great thread- something I need to have a ponder on. For years its been the 'done thing' to mock those who do engage in high riutal if its taken the 'lazy' approach of being adapted from trad Gorean dynamics. But, some aspects of it are useful as 'shortcuts' to demonstrate a point and symbolically represent an important aspect of a dynamic. Its the small things that strengthen and stablise an O&P dynamic in my opinion. | ||
| 3 Sep 10, 3:30 PM LovingDom2 3 yrs |
@Ama_Sidero: Thank you for the links, I hadn't seen the first site before, now looking through it, thank you for that. @tempysankajira: I have recently started asking/tasking/demanding whatever you want to call it lol ... that some of the positions are learnt. I have to say there is nothing quite so amazingly attractive as someone you like/love/fancy sitting patiently in nadu at your command. Such a beautiful position and one that really shows off their beauty and submission at the same time aswell . Thoroughly recommend it. | ||
| 7 Sep 10, 5:29 PM Haemogoblin 4 yrs |
lmao i can empathise completely! My evil s*d has managed to get me wanting to change it all on my own though o.O am still wondering how the hell that happened o.O
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