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Posted by Diablos_patience on Tue 6 Jul 10, 10:44 PM to the O_and_P group.
Im not even really sure how to ask this...
Have others that engage within O&P/TPE relationships sought to modify the submissives presentation by use of behaviour and body modification?
Examples of such could be changing the way one walks/speech/weight and general presentation.
Do other's see this as being something which is important?
| 6 Jul 10, 11:06 PM Dragonfyre UK(M), 5 yrs   |
There are some aspects of Laura's behaviour I'm going to work with her on, mainly to do with her diet (a subject she's blogged about several times on IC already). Basically my plan is to make sure she eats proper meals and less snacky foods, and to ensure that her weight drops in a sensible manner. I don't want her to be stick-thin, but I don't want her to weigh any more than she does now. If we can both lose a stone by the end of the year I'll be happy  I also want her wardrobe to contain more dresses (she only has two or three at the moment), as I'd like her to dress in a slightly more feminine manner. Again, a subject she's blogged about herself in the past. Both these things will take time, and I'm taking a very softly-softly approach, not trying to change too much too quickly. She's just had a big lifestyle change by moving in with me, I don't want to overwhelm her by changing too much all at once. | ||
| 6 Jul 10, 11:43 PM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs      |
I removed "I" from her speech. It took about six months and she still slips once in a while, but it makes me feel amazing. My goal - to save women from nature (Dior) Edited 7 Jul 10, 8:59 AM by Belasarius | ||
| 7 Jul 10, 5:43 AM flamesdesire UK(OX), 4 yrs |
If it makes me a better person then I would not be against it. With my previous Master, I learnt to think before opening my mouth. Take time to formulate at answer. He helped me with my weight and diet. As we could not live together he never took over the say in my clothes but I dont think I would of objected too much. Worked out that I own over 21 pairs of trousers the other day, compared to about 10 dresses and I have a few skirts. Having someone control how I talk, eat, dress etc can be very hot, but yes it is something that has to be gone into slowly with me as I am another who does not like alot of change in one go. jxx Keep smiling - it makes people wonder what you've been up to. | ||
| 7 Jul 10, 8:54 AM femsup UK(NW), 5 yrs |
Well done on your 5000th post you Trojan.Don't like to interfere at all in what my dearest ones eat at all except when in play.Love the idea of enforcing deportment though.Balancing books on heads and sharp swipes with something stinging if it falls. The Henry Higgins thing is appealing maybe in reverse.Get a lahhdy dah and turn her into a cockney. | ||
| 7 Jul 10, 9:06 AM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs |
I'd sort of take that further - I like changing people and i can't stop. So, whatever she is when she commits to me. I'll try to evolve her into something else. Find the edge of her comfort zone and push at it. Gently. Inexorably. Best to you. My goal - to save women from nature (Dior) | ||
| 7 Jul 10, 4:34 PM Diablos_patience UK, 6 yrs |
I thought it would be very hot too after watching the scene in the secretary when she rings to ask permission to eat... and it was damn hot... I do rather like the idea of being moulded completely in to whatever it is that he requires/wants... i think this fits in with my love of highly ritualised behaviour ... despite that i have never really considered to just what extent and the level of commitment would be required in order for that transformation to take place... and yes the transformation needs to be slow and steady.... you have to walk before you can crawl.... quite literally, or so it seems. Having scoured the net for information regarding deportment which includes graceful walking/kneeling and rising from the kneeling position all i have been able to find is stuff produced for TS/TV or models... the kneeling isn't so much of a problem as obviously you take that technique adopted by the Geisha... but the walking... ~* Raku wa ku no tané; ku wa raku no tané. *~ | ||
| 7 Jul 10, 4:54 PM mia  UK(M), 4 yrs     |
In some ways he controls what i eat, but not quite in the manner of 'can i eat a pea.' I'm a very lucky girl in that he hasn't stopped my gutter mouth. I think 'struggle' would be an understatement. m, x I am a bad person | ||
| 7 Jul 10, 6:38 PM femsup UK(NW), 5 yrs |
My dearest heart has changed a little since I met her and I like to think for the better.But I think it was in her just needed the right sunlight and rain to tease it out.Along with copious lashings of tongue and belt mind. | ||
| 7 Jul 10, 7:46 PM Diablos_patience UK, 6 yrs |
That was one of the first things to be targetted.... dunno why, i wasnt even *that* bad... ~* Raku wa ku no tané; ku wa raku no tané. *~ | ||
| 7 Jul 10, 8:25 PM mia UK(M), 4 yrs |
Tee hee! I forgot something else, but this is self imposed; i no longer drink pints in front of him. No, that's wrong; i never did. What i mean is that i used to drink pints, as my beverage of choice, but i don't in front of him. He's never seen me drink a pint since the first day i met him. I just think it makes me look unladylike, so i'd feel funny doing it in front of him. I don't say the c-word much in front of him either. (See, i even said c-word, not cunt - i'm a good girl really!) m, x I am a bad person |
The reality is a tad different however (or so it seems).
